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Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:06:34 PM

ryansalone

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I dont want to offend anyone but is it really a good idea for someone to photoshop themselves to look hotter than they really are? Ive seen some profiles and the pictures look REAL Hot. And then I see them on cam and my penis shrivels and im left disappointed. I think people should leave the photoshopping to the models and celeberities. What do you think?

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:16:40 PM

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I would absolutely reserve the option to photoshop my shriveled up old dick.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:19:08 PM

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My picture is photoshopped. I'm also a model, and I willingly admit it's photoshopped, so there's that.

I think it doesn't matter if someone photoshopped their picture... depending on the extent of photoshop and what they're trying to accomplish. IMO, there's a difference between clearing away a pimple and shaving off twenty pounds. Even then, if they're not looking for anything non-platonic or are willing to send a non-photoshopped picture early into negotiations, I don't see a big harm in it.

Taking pictures from different angles and with different lighting can drastically change the way you look before editing - so even unedited pictures can be misleading. I also think that, a lot of times, cams are pretty unflattering, so even someone who's not trying to be misleading might look very different on cam if they have a well-taken profile picture...

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:22:30 PM

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I think you should keep this quote in mind....

"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best"

Marilyn Monroe said that ^ do you think she never had a bad day or are you aware that she more than likely did and just hid it when it came to having her picture taken ?

I also think that people without pictures themself should think before they speak about others.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:33:01 PM

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Actually, models and celebrities should leave photoshop the hell alone. It's their job to look a certain way. For them to lean on photoshop is unprofessional :p

As for you, OP, for shame! You're looking for a Domme, not a porn model to wank off on. If the only thing that interests you about a woman is how she looks then you should be spending more time on porn sites and less on ones where you actually have to interact with people.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:47:44 PM

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quote:

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I dont want to offend anyone but is it really a good idea for someone to photoshop themselves to look hotter than they really are? Ive seen some profiles and the pictures look REAL Hot. And then I see them on cam and my penis shrivels and im left disappointed. I think people should leave the photoshopping to the models and celeberities. What do you think?

My heart bleeds for you, how terrible, a woman gets on cam for you so you can get your rocks off and she dares to not look like she does in a frozen picture, she might not even <gasp> have makeup on, how dare she spoiling your erection?

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:48:21 PM

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Marilyn Monroe was also a drug addict.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:51:02 PM

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Well when im expecting to see the person in the picture and something very different shows up its not my fault. If someone is looking to attract someone shouldnt they still want to attract once they lured them in.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:55:57 PM

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There's a simple solution, get a cam girl, they are paid to look good.

Are those women actually offering to cam with you or are you bugging them to get on cam so you can get your rocks off? There's a reason why most of us don't get on cam, not because we're desperately ugly, but because we don't want to be wank fodder, and we don't want to have penises waved at us...

A while ago I was a bit bored, so I didn't automatically use the block option, said guy was bugging and bugging me to get on cam - I got ready for him, which meant I put my biggest and fluffiest bathrobe on, a face pack and a towel wrapped around my hair. And yes, it was great fun spoiling his erection!

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:56:46 PM

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quote:

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Well when im expecting to see the person in the picture and something very different shows up its not my fault. If someone is looking to attract someone shouldnt they still want to attract once they lured them in.

I can't argue with that reasoning, ryansalone. I think there's an enormous temptation on websites like this to 'polish' one's image. The payment comes, of course, when you actually meet someone.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 12:57:41 PM

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Lol. It wasnt like that it was in a chatroom. And im going down the list of profiles and i swear there was 6 of them very nice pictures all done up looking nice. Then i click on there cam and they have no makeup on hair all wild like they just woke up. I am not shallow but how can you get on cam like that. Its kinda like false advertisement.

Im NO gem. I know this. But im not gonna post a picture of me in a tuxedo cleanshaven. And then be on cam in some cutoff jeans an old dirty tshirt a beard hair sticking up with yellow teeth. You know what im saying.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:00:03 PM

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If how a woman looks is so important for your poor shrivelled little dick..I hope you never get hard again.
Shallowness has its own rewards!

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:05:01 PM

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I tell you a real surprise, I don't look like I do in the avatar, I am not having a mask on, no makeup, tshirt and shorts and hair a bit wild... I'm not going to get ready to go to a fetish party or a BDSM even, I'm going to get ready to have a swim in the pool.

Why on earth would I go on cam being all dolled up for a stranger? Why on earth would I go on cam at all?

Those women aren't obliged to look like super models or their best, just so you can get your rocks off. As I said, if you really want the "looking fucking freaking unbelievably hot with hair and makeup done" experience, you best get a professional cam girl.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:05:15 PM

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The venue doesn't matter as much of the gist of the conversation and the intentions in camming (from both parties, not just yours).

And someone who does themselves up for a picture, and then likes that picture and uses it, isn't obligated to always do themselves up every time they talk to other people over a visual medium.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:14:36 PM

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Ryan, I dont look too shabby in the pics I take. I spend at least an hour or two on hair, make up, and picking clothes before I take pics. In reality, I rarely ever wear make up, or have the time to dress all fancy. My play partner and I met on another site. He saw all my glammed up pics. To this day, he doesnt care if I am having a bad hair day, wearing my "chill" clothes, and look like I just rose from the dead. Because he trates me like a person, and not a piece of ass. Frankly, I like that he can see me at my ugliest and not care! Because, yanno. Behind the sexy times, and stuff I am a person. With feelings and shit.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:21:28 PM

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If how a woman looks is so important for your poor shrivelled little dick..I hope you never get hard again.
Shallowness has its own rewards!

Though, to be fair, a woman - or indeed a man - who photoshops her/his image to a major degree might also be accused of shallowness.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:23:31 PM

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You have the wrong impression i wasnt looking to wack off or none of that just chat get to know her but the first impression i got from her was good but when i seen her on cam it turned me off. Thats all i was saying not that i play with myself while looking on females cam.
My argument is this if a women is gonna go out of her way to look good on her picture why not on cam. I mean if you meet someone at an bdsm event and they look good. And you go out on a first date and they look a mess thats gonna turn you off wouldnt it?

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I tell you a real surprise, I don't look like I do in the avatar, I am not having a mask on, no makeup, tshirt and shorts and hair a bit wild... I'm not going to get ready to go to a fetish party or a BDSM even, I'm going to get ready to have a swim in the pool.

Why on earth would I go on cam being all dolled up for a stranger? Why on earth would I go on cam at all?

Those women aren't obliged to look like super models or their best, just so you can get your rocks off. As I said, if you really want the "looking fucking freaking unbelievably hot with hair and makeup done" experience, you best get a professional cam girl.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:24:35 PM

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Thank you!

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

If how a woman looks is so important for your poor shrivelled little dick..I hope you never get hard again.
Shallowness has its own rewards!

Though, to be fair, a woman - or indeed a man - who photoshops her/his image to a major degree might also be accused of shallowness.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:26:09 PM

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Sweetie, you're confusing the real women with the Camgirls and ProDommes lol

"Real" Domme women get dressed and dolled up for themselves, not for you. They don't give a toss if you are no longer interested in continuing an interaction with them after seeing them with wild hair and no make-up, the kind of guy who minds that is not the kind of guy a strong woman really cares to have any sort of relationship with.

Camgirls and ProDommes, on the other hand, make their livings getting dressed and dolled up for you.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 1:29:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: ryansalone

You have the wrong impression i wasnt looking to wack off or none of that just chat get to know her but the first impression i got from her was good but when i seen her on cam it turned me off. Thats all i was saying not that i play with myself while looking on females cam.
My argument is this if a women is gonna go out of her way to look good on her picture why not on cam. I mean if you meet someone at an bdsm event and they look good. And you go out on a first date and they look a mess thats gonna turn you off wouldnt it?

Camming is usually more like showing up at someone's door at whatever time it is on their day off, not a first date.

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