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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 2:31:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: ryansalone

Yall make good points. I think its gonna be hard for me to find someone on the internet though. Too much smoke n mirrors.

Well better luck in real life, but what are you going to do if she takes the makeup off at night, loses the push up bra and push up panties - and the shape wear, false lashes, hair extensions...

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 2:39:00 PM

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When i take special pics where i have make up o n and i had my hair done those are special occasions and posed, not real me. of course there's other pictures of real me as well as the ones i am particularly proud of, but I wouldn't do my hair all gussy'd up and put on make up and make sure i looked glamorous for a casual chat, so yes i'd go on cam with no make up and my hair not done. I would try not to look utterly crazy like yellow teeth hair sticking up every where, but i'm not dolling up just to causally get on cam. The occasion would have to be awfully special, or i lost my marbles and chose a dom who demanded perfection when we camed, because, perfection is rare, down to earth casual me is the norm. But i represent that more than the perfectly dolled up.

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Lol. It wasnt like that it was in a chatroom. And im going down the list of profiles and i swear there was 6 of them very nice pictures all done up looking nice. Then i click on there cam and they have no makeup on hair all wild like they just woke up. I am not shallow but how can you get on cam like that. Its kinda like false advertisement.

Im NO gem. I know this. But im not gonna post a picture of me in a tuxedo cleanshaven. And then be on cam in some cutoff jeans an old dirty tshirt a beard hair sticking up with yellow teeth. You know what im saying.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:08:33 PM

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Actually that is part of why I quoted her. Most men view her as one of the most beautiful women in the word...yet she obviously had large issues. Many men loved her and tried to work with her to fix those issues. They didn't look at her and say "hey, you don't look pretty enough today, stop photoshopping your pictures"

*snort* said by the way by someone that doesn't photoshop her pictures. I don't even know how....I'm just very good at having pictures taken hahahah *oh* 'cept the avatar. Pet took that hahaha.

Either way though.....yeah, good luck op.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:15:37 PM

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I was being respectful in my own words. I figured calling a female ugly is kinda rude.

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

You know, there is a difference between going out and getting dressed up because I want to and dressing up for random internet stranger... It's not a date, sorry...

Now if I have the wrong impression about you wanting to whack off, maybe you go back and read your post about your dick shriveling - which impression was that meant to give me?

Fucking hell, but saying she makes your dick shrivel is not? Honestly, you are very much a prime example why women here do not cam...

Trust me I am being VERY polite when I say that I find your attitude so repulsive, that an obese, toothless guy who hasn't washed in this decade would be a lot more attractive than you seem to be. And I would say the same if you'd look like Brad Pitt, your 'tude stinks, dude!

I'm a little lost here, ryansalone. Who is talking to whom in this post? Was this a 'whoopsy-daisy' moment?

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:19:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: ryansalone

Yall make good points. I think its gonna be hard for me to find someone on the internet though. Too much smoke n mirrors.

When I met the man who became Master to me, I had no idea what he looked like. He had an idea of what I looked like but my photos were posed by a friend before I ever joined CollarMe.
Once we entered the restaurant for our lunch date his first words to me were that my photos did me no justice because they did not show how very blue my eyes were.

Oh, and as far as how he looked?
He was (and is 3+ years later) very handsome... very!

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:20:45 PM

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OK, I met a few people from this site for a coffee, I don't think I wore makeup or was dolled up, short and a tshirt or jeans and a tshirt. I was under the impression they wanted to meet me and we'd sit down and talk, not that they were expecting a fetish doll or a dolled up version.

If not being made up to the gilts is looking like crap for a guy, I'm not even interested in wasting as much time with him as it takes to have a coffee... If they can deal with me without makeup, they're going to be pleasantly surprised how well I scrub up...

First of all, most people (obviously not you) when they are looking for a relationship with someone, choose to put their best foot forward and look their best. That doesn't mean "dolled up" in a party dress and glam make-up, but appropriate for the occasion.

I used to have a friend who would intentionally where her shabbiest clothes to meet a guy in person for the first time, because she had the same attitude as you. Frankly, it is just another means of game playing.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:23:13 PM

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I suspect that LC does not look shabby whilst out in public...but she is not conflating "meeting for coffee" with "anniversary dinner". I am always tidy when I leave the house, but I am not dressing to show off.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:25:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Alecta

That's the same reason I don't cam, because it's my "day off" at god knows what time and I'm just kicking around doing whatever (or looking like a manic dervish). You and I make the choice that when someone knocks on the door we're not going to answer cos we don't want them to see us like this, but that's our vanities. And then there are people who have no problem opening the door like that; but again, that's not the same as setting up a coffee date or making deliberate plans to meet someone, as you're saying. Certainly if it was set up that they will cam on x date at x time then it would be a "first date" scenario, but OP is referring to spontaneous cam sessions and it really brings to question someone's state of mind when they'd get all dolled up to hangout at a chatroom if it's not their job...

That's pretty much how I look at it. I'm not going to "casually cam" with people, just like I don't "casually play" with people. People I haven't met don't casually knock on my door, and yes, my friends all see me without makeup. That is not, however, the way I would present myself on a first date. I'm going to brush my hair, put on some makeup to enhance my features.

By the time I get to the point where a guy is seeing me get ready for bed at night, the relationship will be established and neither of us is going to think about it. Then again, I don't wear false eyelashes, hair extensions, push up bra....so the only thing that would be different is that my hair would be pulled up and I wouldn't have make up on.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 3:45:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I suspect that LC does not look shabby whilst out in public...but she is not conflating "meeting for coffee" with "anniversary dinner". I am always tidy when I leave the house, but I am not dressing to show off.

+1

If I'm meeting someone for coffee, chances are it's a somewhat brief thing within a busy day.

I won't intentionally wear my shabbiest clothing for it, but the most the person can hope for is my hair down/brushed and some eye makeup - and that's if I really like them. I'm going to wear whatever I was wearing anyways, and that's that. I find this more analogous to webcamming than a First Date (and even then, the venue decides my outfit more than the company).

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:40:59 PM

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If I send someone a pic, I'll take a coupla minutes in the office, hold the camera at arms length and hit the shutter a few times. You get the best one. If you don't like it, tough.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:48:55 PM

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Sadface. I never got a Hilly officepic.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:50:19 PM

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Sadface. I never got a Hilly officepic.

tomorrow?
I thought I had sent one. Must fix that.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:51:16 PM

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I also accept naked pics. Just saying.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:52:03 PM

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Ain't happenin'. Noone sees me naked before I at least buy em dinner.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:53:43 PM

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Ain't happenin'. Noone sees me naked before I at least buy em dinner.

Cheesecake Factory.. 8 o'clock.

Bring the feathers.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 4:54:59 PM

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Steak. RARE.

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 5:33:04 PM

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Well, first you'd have to ask someone who is computer literate enough to photoshop.......

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 6:42:22 PM

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First of all, most people (obviously not you) when they are looking for a relationship with someone, choose to put their best foot forward and look their best. That doesn't mean "dolled up" in a party dress and glam make-up, but appropriate for the occasion.

I used to have a friend who would intentionally where her shabbiest clothes to meet a guy in person for the first time, because she had the same attitude as you. Frankly, it is just another means of game playing.

I really don't get the game playing, I am not going to put my shabbiest clothes on, but I wear what I usually wear and I look how I usually look (which is pretty much makeup free), so he what he sees is what he gets, when I'm working chances that I have time for a coffee meet are pretty slim, so he's not getting the pinned up hair and business suit gal anyway, in my spare time I'm just much more of a jeans/shorts and t-shirt gal because I'm a rather active outdoorsy person, so wouldn't it be playing a game presenting myself in a different way?
It also depends where we meet, in a coffee shop I think good casual clothes are perfectly appropriate, for dinner or clubbing I would of course wear something different - but meeting somebody for the first time is usually coffee. And frankly if a guy can't tell from my casual attire that I know how to dress, well, then I rather not have dinner with him anyway.

But I learn something new every day, I wasn't aware that clean, well fitting good quality clothes are considered shabby, maybe I should leave the price tags on?

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 7:17:16 PM

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I dress how I feel about meeting the person. So if it's shabby, I guess I just don't want to meet them lol

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RE: Photoshop - 5/13/2012 7:27:16 PM

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LadyH knows (having met me and seen ME in my pjs) that I pop out of bed looking just like my avatar pic, hair and nails done just right, makeup perfect, and spangly jewelry donned.

Like she does.

Just saying.

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