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BKSir -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:00:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

The only thing repressed about me is what I can't say to you because of the mods.


LOL, at first read-through I thought that said "...because of the meds." XD




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:00:22 PM)

Lo kit your to ignorant to ever luck into the root cause of your fibromyalgia, I'm guessing you have and never will, I could post up dozens of links showing the links between emotions and fibromyalgia but yor interested so what's the point?




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:01:53 PM)

For me a fetish or control or being controlled isn't healthy so I would have no wish to channel it, if it healthy for you then great, I would say keep channeling it.
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ORIGINAL: caelestis


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ORIGINAL: caelestis

What I'm trying to get at is this: Why try to completely remove the fetish (which I'm fairly positive won't stick) instead of learning to channel tit into something beneficial and healthy?


This questions.

This one right here. I have serious doubts you will answer it, because you don't have a good answer. The one you tried giving previously really had nothing to do with this question.




Lockit -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:03:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BKSir


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

The only thing repressed about me is what I can't say to you because of the mods.


LOL, at first read-through I thought that said "...because of the meds." XD


ROFL... Want to go eye glass shopping with me? After what I pulled off this morning, we both may need them or some rest... or, well... meds. hehe




caelestis -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:03:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

For me a fetish or control or being controlled isn't healthy so I would have no wish to channel it, if it healthy for you then great, I would say keep channeling it.
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ORIGINAL: caelestis


quote:

ORIGINAL: caelestis

What I'm trying to get at is this: Why try to completely remove the fetish (which I'm fairly positive won't stick) instead of learning to channel tit into something beneficial and healthy?


This questions.

This one right here. I have serious doubts you will answer it, because you don't have a good answer. The one you tried giving previously really had nothing to do with this question.


You're either purposely ignoring what I'm saying, or not understanding. Neither would surprise me.

Its not about if it's healthy now, its about making it healthy. Do you understand the question now?




mnottertail -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:04:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

For me a fetish or control or being controlled isn't healthy so I would have no wish to channel it, if it healthy for you then great, I would say keep channeling it.


Try drinking heavily then.




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:05:42 PM)

I understood it the first time, I answered it twice, I don't feel I could or want to make control/ being controlled healthy, so I chose a way that's more beneficial to me.




caelestis -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:07:31 PM)

Well, that pretty much cinches up my suspicions. Have a nice life trying to make everything kink-free, and good luck when it backfires.




mnottertail -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:08:41 PM)

Fine, and that sort of thing is not of general interest on what amounts to a fetish site, only you and your sock puppet come here and look for 'healing'. this doesnt even belong in health issues, it belongs in random stupidity which is no longer a forum on this site.

The only interest in this is of a trainwreck nature.




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:09:44 PM)

Thanks but things won't backfire as much as people on here would like them to, if you were educated on the subject you'd know p that wouldn't happen




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:11:22 PM)

If it's not interesting why do so many people reply?

I don't understand the sock puppet analogy, like I've said before and I'll say it again I make no judgement on others, I guess asking for that back in return is too much for some people on here sadly.
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Fine, and that sort of thing is not of general interest on what amounts to a fetish site, only you and your sock puppet come here and look for 'healing'. this doesnt even belong in health issues, it belongs in random stupidity which is no longer a forum on this site.

The only interest in this is of a trainwreck nature.




mnottertail -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:11:33 PM)

If you were educated on any subject ...now would be the time to display it.




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:12:54 PM)

I'm as educated as I need to be, I have a good standard of living I'm happy.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:13:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

If it's not interesting why do so many people reply?

I don't understand the sock puppet analogy, like I've said before and I'll say it again I make no judgement on others, I guess asking for that back in return is too much for some people on here sadly.
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Fine, and that sort of thing is not of general interest on what amounts to a fetish site, only you and your sock puppet come here and look for 'healing'. this doesnt even belong in health issues, it belongs in random stupidity which is no longer a forum on this site.

The only interest in this is of a trainwreck nature.


A sock puppet is a new profile that is created to come onto a thread and heartily agree with someone's discredited opinions like you are doing with your new twenty9male persona. I thought you didn't post often?




MissImmortalPain -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:15:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

I'm not a pratictioner or a counsellor, there's not a lot else I can say.


This is the root of my issue with your posts. You openly admit you do not know what you are doing yet you suggest it to others. On other threads you have given other ways to get over, recover from, cure, etc. bdsm. Yet if any one of the ways you say to do it worked you would be, by now, cured yourself. It is clear you obviously are not. Bad advice to someone in real need is a great deal more harmful than whatever hopeful thought of helping people is going on in your head. You are doing more harm than good by leading people to believe there is a simple answer to a complicated issue. Stop it.

*side note* I still want to set fire to something after watching your link and you didn't answer me as to if that was supposed to happen or not.




mnottertail -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:16:50 PM)

Yeah, why the fuck is this thread even here, the goddamn thing is a swipe against the entire site membership with our kinks are not ok and fibromyalgia is not real for fucks sake.




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:18:45 PM)

If you want help follow the advice or the links on the link, the reason you want to start fires after watching it is because it will have brought up a lot of emotions.

As for thesockpuppet hilwilliam, I said this is a new account because I couldnt log onto my old for for some reason.




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:20:36 PM)



The main reason it's here is people like you keep replying to it.

I've kind of said all I wanted to say but people keep asking me questions

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Yeah, why the fuck is this thread even here, the goddamn thing is a swipe against the entire site membership with our kinks are not ok and fibromyalgia is not real for fucks sake.




Twenty9male -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:22:42 PM)

I would say leading people who want help to beleive there is no hope is more damaging than offering hope, I've tried it myself, it works, it's brilliant. I feel more free than ever.
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain


quote:

ORIGINAL: Twenty9male

I'm not a pratictioner or a counsellor, there's not a lot else I can say.


This is the root of my issue with your posts. You openly admit you do not know what you are doing yet you suggest it to others. On other threads you have given other ways to get over, recover from, cure, etc. bdsm. Yet if any one of the ways you say to do it worked you would be, by now, cured yourself. It is clear you obviously are not. Bad advice to someone in real need is a great deal more harmful than whatever hopeful thought of helping people is going on in your head. You are doing more harm than good by leading people to believe there is a simple answer to a complicated issue. Stop it.

*side note* I still want to set fire to something after watching your link and you didn't answer me as to if that was supposed to happen or not.




mnottertail -> RE: Emotional freedom technique to get rid of unwanted fetishes (5/16/2012 1:23:01 PM)

NO, that is not why.  Having not said anything of import and repeating di minimis jingos, you could certainly quit the sockpuppetry without anyone being any less the wiser for your posts or without your posting.




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