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What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on this... - 5/19/2012 12:00:13 PM   
S1CK


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Status: offline 		Is anyone else experiencing the same problem?

It seems like the time spent on here is fruitless as if whenever I send a sub female a message it is replied by spam.
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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:04:34 PM   
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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:06:40 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		Here have mine. If I ate popcorn for every fakers thread, I would burst.



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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:07:17 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Don't limit this phenomena to just female subs. There are fake everythings all over the internet.
In fact, a direct quote right from your very own profile shows a lack in sincerity.

I brought along the butter. :)

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:09:44 PM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: S1CK

Is anyone else experiencing the same problem?

It seems like the time spent on here is fruitless as if whenever I send a sub female a message it is replied by spam.


Well, it seems to me that the common denominator here is you, cupcake. If every email gets reported as spam, perhaps the problem is your approach?

I know that if (when I was actually searching) I received an email from a profile that read like yours does, I would probably delete unread. It would take an amazing first email to overcome that mess of negativity.

BTW: do the chicks in the photos on your profile know that you are showing their faces on a kink site?

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 5/19/2012 12:13:25 PM >

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:18:37 PM   
frazzle


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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:20:58 PM   
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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:25:09 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:34:33 PM   
punisher440


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WOOOOHOOOO...we have a winner! The 1,000,000th thread about fakes on here.
What is in our prize closet for him Johnny? It's a new car!
Yes,drive in style to come back to the forums to complain about findommes/people that don't write you back/or pick out one of the many others to come whine about.

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:47:23 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Nope, not experiencing your problem. I've met several folks from this site whom I've had satisfying relationships with and at the very least, friendships.

Honestly, your journal entries and at least half of your profile narrative is one big whine about fakes, misrepresentation, women who don't give blow jobs, and other negative bullsh*t. No wonder you're having bad luck meeting compatible people. Stop projecting such cr*p; state the positive qualities you offer and the positive qualities you seek and see if your luck improves.

Oh, and instead of endless judgment about what a few extra pounds implies about the person carrying them, why don't you just state that you prefer folks who have the same commitment to physical fitness that you do. See how that works? You positively state your preferences without coming off like a douchecanoe.

Good luck, dude. Welcome to the boards. I hope you enjoy the journey.

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:51:20 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: S1CK

It seems like the time spent on here is fruitless as if whenever I send a sub female a message it is replied by spam.


I doubt that very much. I suspect that 99%+ ofl sub women do not answer your emails. But those that do, respond with spam.

Let me rephrase that. Every single woman to whom you write, if she's interested in your message, checks out your profile and decides not to reply. The common factor is your profile. That's left as an exercise for you to work on.

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 12:59:41 PM   
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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 1:14:22 PM   
ResidentSadist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: frazzle

i stupidly attempted the whole profile and journal entries........... when hell freezes over comes to mind.

Dammit . . . you made me look. Man-o-man, this is a Jerry Springer show waiting to happen.

fake pics - psychotic ex boyfriends - suffer from death wishes - lied about not having an arm - the length females will travel in attempts to deceive - does not mean in any way shape or form that I want to bang you - take your head out of your ass and come in humble - I am just naturally dominant, with a pretty high self-esteem - profiles of fickle females who will waste my time with empty promises and lies . . . I can't go on, you have to read it yourself.

To the OP,
Dude, WTF fuck were you thinking? Seriously, your profile is your advert. You have to engage the reader and make them like you not pity or laugh at you. In the 5,600+ characters that compose your 1,039 words, all you did was bitch, complain and tell us what you want. Your profile reminds me of this drag queen that had a hormonal rage in restaurant and ened up yelling at the waiter, "I want some spaghetti and I want it now".

Not one word of all that tells what you offer a relationship. Not one word to attract a woman to you. You seem more like a self adsorbed, bitter and whiny submissive than a male Dominant. I predict you will have trouble attracting sincere people with a profile like that. No wonder you are plagued with the deception you write about in your profile.

If you took half the discipline you spent on your body and applied to your mind and got an attitude adjustment, you might fair better in your attempts. Seriously, WTF were you thinking . . . your profile looks like an excerpt from a book on 'Roid Rage'. Set down the protein drink, don't take steroids for a couple days, find your inner calm and pretend you are female seeking a male Dominant. Then read what you wrote and see if you still think it is a good idea.

I hope you take this advice to heart. It comes from the voice of experience and success.

Good luck,
Kalon Eric

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 1:16:21 PM   
bohemianbarbie


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Status: offline 		Not replying to you doesn't make them fake. Rejecting you doesn't make them fake. You bitching and moaning like a 14 year old girl doesn't make them fake either.
If you were to message me, I would look at you're profile and reply with a very polite rejection. We have nothing in common at all. Except maybe the fact that I love giving head, but you'll never know about that.

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 1:28:20 PM   
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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 1:33:49 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		Nah, it's just you. All the women I msg answer me with real msgs back and I rarely even msg women. So it really must just be you.

If you are looking for advice...correct the bitch fest that is your profile (journal included) If I saw someone piss and moan that much, to say nothing of the screaming ego, I wouldn't even want to have a conversation with them much less a realationship.

*side note though* Whoever you spoke to that said "she" was an amputee and was lieing about it (more advice) hunt her down and chop a limb off for her...then she won't be lieing.

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 1:36:34 PM   
Moonhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: S1CK

Is anyone else experiencing the same problem?

It seems like the time spent on here is fruitless as if whenever I send a sub female a message it is replied by spam.

Would you like some cheese with that whine?

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 2:11:18 PM   
Seraphinna


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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 2:16:32 PM   
ResidentSadist


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ORIGINAL: Seraphinna

No, but only joined yesterday. Through IM I get it all the time though.

Perhaps it's that whole gold fetching for a resurrected queen thing that is doing it?

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RE: What is with the hordes of fake female profiles on ... - 5/19/2012 2:21:15 PM   
Seraphinna


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist


quote:

ORIGINAL: Seraphinna

No, but only joined yesterday. Through IM I get it all the time though.

Perhaps it's that whole gold fetching for a resurrected queen thing that is doing it?


That is doing what, getting them through IM? No thats been happening since I was a tiddler, guess they are just drawn to me.

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