RE: What I am really sick of (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion



Message


searching4mysir -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/21/2012 5:43:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

And I seriously doubt that I am alone in this. Men who make that 1-1000 connection by finding a bondage mate, (almost always the sub female), and then make the female sub post "looking for another female playmate for my daddy\master", etc. First of all to the female, you must not be good enough where he needs another female. Yes, what male dom wouldn't want multiple submissive females, but there are still thousands of subs and doms that need to meet. In other words, stop trying to get more than you deserve, A-HOLES!!!

Let's hear it out there. I know I have seen others bitch about this as well!


I'm a monogamous woman, but if I were still searching I would run far and wide from this whiny bullshit. Not very domly of you, cupcake.

If you can't control your emotions then what makes you think you can control another person?




Vikinglord41 -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/21/2012 6:20:22 PM)

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed. But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub? That has never been an issue.




Lockit -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/21/2012 6:24:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed. But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub? That has never been an issue.



LOL... Okay... now this part was funny! The other post... that wasn't and it wasn't a lack of humor in the readers and responders. Twist it any way you want... there was no indication you were pulling a funny and every indication that it wasn't funny at all and was done in seriousness. Communicate much?




LadyPact -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/21/2012 6:40:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed. But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub? That has never been an issue.

If it makes you feel any better, bro, I was laughing My ass off at you.

Well, you and some of the smart ass comments that popped into My head on this one.  I didn't post them because I didn't want any gold mail.


ETA - If the highlighted above is the case, how come your profile says that you're seeking?




DesFIP -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/21/2012 7:56:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint
You have brought up a serious problem. When you figure out why a submissive would choose to be the second girl in a poly family instead of your first girl, then you will know why you are still looking.


QFT.

The only common denominator in all your (failed) relationship is you.




peppermint -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/21/2012 8:44:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed. But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub?


Let's see. In your profile you complain that no one takes this seriously. Here you complain that no one has a sense of humor. Quite frankly, you might have tried to be funny but you failed. This brings me to the expertise you claim as a writer. Apparently you lack something if no one sensed the humor in your post so your writing skills are now in question. Did I mention the grammatical errors in your profile?

To answer your question, yes, from the picture, post, and profile I can imagine you having problems finding a submissive.




Karmastic -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 2:24:05 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

And I seriously doubt that I am alone in this. Men who make that 1-1000 connection by finding a bondage mate, (almost always the sub female), and then make the female sub post "looking for another female playmate for my daddy\master", etc. First of all to the female, you must not be good enough where he needs another female. Yes, what male dom wouldn't want multiple submissive females, but there are still thousands of subs and doms that need to meet. In other words, stop trying to get more than you deserve, A-HOLES!!!

Let's hear it out there. I know I have seen others bitch about this as well!


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed. But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub? That has never been an issue.


my head is exploding trying to figure out how to connect the dots of your humor. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt (that you were joking) and just say 'phail'.

don't worry dude, you're in good company being excited joining the board and seeing a candy shop of delectable topics, and then shooting yourself in the foot.




LaTigresse -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 4:03:35 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed. But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub? That has never been an issue.

If it makes you feel any better, bro, I was laughing My ass off at you.

Well, you and some of the smart ass comments that popped into My head on this one.  I didn't post them because I didn't want any gold mail.


ETA - If the highlighted above is the case, how come your profile says that you're seeking?



LadyP already covered anything I should have said and I, like her, will just refrain from any smart ass comments. But not for the same reasons. It is 6:02am and I have got to get in and do the hair and makeup gig so I can finish getting ready for work and start my commute.

My pre espresso brain did come up with a few good ones including the ever so reliable but immature quip about a waaaaaaaammmmmmbulance.




DarkSteven -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 4:44:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

do I really look like I cannot get a sub?


I have never had a problem either, but they always tend to have lousy eyesight.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 5:07:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41

Wow. Does anyone have a sense of humor anymore? I posted this after reading several threads about males posting as females on this very forum. I was trying to be funny. I guess I failed.


Ummmm, okay. Nothing about your original post sounded like humor to me, but I guess I'll have to take your word for it. But just so you know, you have a total of 3 posts so far. That's not enough for any of us to know what your posting style is like. So if you're trying to be funny, you might want to add a smiley to your post. Perhaps the laughing smiley, or the winking smiley. That would make your intention much more obvious.

But back to the topic at hand. I have a slightly different problem with subs seeking additional slaves for their "Master" than you do. IMO, it's just plain lazy for a master to delegate the recruiting process. If he claims to be the master, then he should be that and find his own subs/slaves!

I also have little tolerance for "Masters" or "Dommes" who send their subs on here to ask for suggestions on how they should punish their sub, or for creative ways to drain their sub's cock. Whenever I read these threads, I immediately think that it's actually written by a male sub who has no Domme/Master, and who is merely seeking wank fodder.

IMO, the Domme or Master should know their sub well enough to be able to think of much more effective punishments than a bunch of strangers on the internet can think of. After all, we know absolutely nothing about you, your sub, or your dynamic. [8|]




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 6:26:45 AM)

Not a terribly effective back-peddle, JMO. But then, so far you are not making a very good first impression.

This it what I've read into your three big posts so far:

You have a poor sense of humor, are a poor communicator, are whiny, shallow, vain, and think the rest of us are so stupid we can't tell when something isn't meant in fun.

I'm not saying you are any of those things, BTW, I am telling you this is how you come across to me based on your posts.

Get my point?

Now, welcome to the discussion side of CM, where being an attractive blonde will only take you so far.





Pyramus -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 6:42:32 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Women hit the 'read forum posts' button from here or your profile and it's all over.


They do? Yikes. I'm dead. :)




angelikaJ -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 6:49:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
Women hit the 'read forum posts' button from here or your profile and it's all over.


They do? Yikes. I'm dead. :)



I think people actually made mention of that to you before... .
If amnesia is one of your issues then you could always add it to your list in the profile. [8D]




OsideGirl -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 7:09:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Vikinglord41
But for the record, do I really look like I cannot get a sub?


Judging from the OP.....yeah.




LaTigresse -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 11:10:23 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Not a terribly effective back-peddle, JMO. But then, so far you are not making a very good first impression.

This it what I've read into your three big posts so far:

You have a poor sense of humor, are a poor communicator, are whiny, shallow, vain, and think the rest of us are so stupid we can't tell when something isn't meant in fun.

I'm not saying you are any of those things, BTW, I am telling you this is how you come across to me based on your posts.

Get my point?

Now, welcome to the discussion side of CM, where being an attractive blonde will only take you so far.




You said it way nicer than I would have at 6am this morning![:D]




PeonForHer -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 11:17:23 AM)

For what it's worth, VL, I don't think you're a bad-looking chap. [;)]




ThundersCry -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 11:59:44 AM)

welcome to the boards...you best have thick skin if your going to post here...

Good luck...

Oh, for the most part *bitching* get you no place here.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 12:07:35 PM)

Dude,

Everybody has or can find something to bitch about.

Damn those greedy Dom/mes which are getting more than their fair share,
and making life harder for the rest.

Really? (in an exclaimed tone of voice)

I've not seen many people that bitch and complain about this one.

On a personal level, I myself am not bothered by it. So I can't relate
to the opening post.

in fact........

The opening post connecting with a large number of people /Fail/







kalikshama -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 12:45:44 PM)

quote:

the female sub post "looking for another female playmate for my daddy\master"


This is one of the many things I've found lame in profiles. None of the lameness on the other side has yet inspired me to start a thread about it, though.




xrampage101 -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 12:50:42 PM)

I agree with you 100%. I think for any relationship, whether it's business, social or even a long term marriage; the ability to respect one another is very important! The same should apply in the BDSM community as well! Unfortunately, there are male Doms out there that are misusing naive female submissive to fulfil their hunger for promiscuous sex! If they don't like that arrangement after 2 months into the relationship, then it's convenient for the male to play the 'Dom' card by accusing the female of not being a true sub! If her limits don't include promiscuous sex from day one, then her partner should 'respect' her wishes no matter what! It's the same for male subs, being exploited by female Dommes through financial gain! These types of people have no interest in BDSM and quite frankly, they are making a mockery out of this community!




Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875