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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: What I am really sick of (5/22/2012 3:07:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
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ORIGINAL: xrampage101
I agree with you 100%. I think for any relationship, whether it's business, social or even a long term marriage; the ability to respect one another is very important! The same should apply in the BDSM community as well! Unfortunately, there are male Doms out there that are misusing naive female submissive to fulfil their hunger for promiscuous sex! If they don't like that arrangement after 2 months into the relationship, then it's convenient for the male to play the 'Dom' card by accusing the female of not being a true sub! If her limits don't include promiscuous sex from day one, then her partner should 'respect' her wishes no matter what! It's the same for male subs, being exploited by female Dommes through financial gain! These types of people have no interest in BDSM and quite frankly, they are making a mockery out of this community!
I'm hoping this post is a joke.....
It sounds exactly...like someone who owns a group over at Fet. The group is against casual scening, munches, play parties, etc., and toots that horn over how abused and exploited fem subs are. (Hears ax grinding and grits her teeth.) [:D]
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Okay, I'll be nice to the OP and throw him a bone. Dude, I hear ya. In my area with r/t people I know...I've seen many new Doms get one cookie in their hands and then suddenly decide they can stick their hand deeply into the jar and grab many fem subs...er...cookies...as they can. Every blessed time, they have ended up losing all of them within two months.
Personally, I am in awe of folks like LP and RS who can manage being involved with more than one person. I CAN'T. I confess to having no talent nor skills to pull off anything poly, and I respect those who can and do.
About reading someone's posts in the forums when we have looked at their profile...yep. With every blessed profile I look at, I also check their posts. It's a good way to see how someone manages difficulties, as well as their temper. Most people stick with the first page, so my advice would be to become active enough in these boards (maybe post in the games area) in the nex few weeks to bury deeply any posts that might be seen as negative or whiny.
An old friend of mine here at CM used to find hoards of fem subs here...by finding the ones who'd been burnt by a new or greedy but unskilled Dom...he would make soothing noises, calling the other guy an evilratbastard who didn't deserve to own anyone as fine as her. Ergo, one man's problem is another man's...opportunity.
Many may want to build a harem, few are capable of doing so. The profiles you are reading are mostly from dreamers who will never live out their dreams. Concentrate on your own life...and...yeah, eliminate the negative from your profile and journal entries.
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