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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 7:09:40 PM   
Slipstreme


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Status: offline 		I am a sadomasochistic Dominant, with stronger masochistic leanings at the momment. I am not currently in a relationship although I have some strong ties I am seeking. I have found my potential family and will pursue that before I pursue anything else, although we all hope it will work out. I am polyamourous and open to multiple play partners. As a masochist, in scene I am in it for the pain only, never to be controlled.

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 7:40:19 PM   
redpetals


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Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		okay here goes
i am a masochist,yet never realised it untill Master woke it up in me
He is real
this is real
i am real
i have had an on line ,(long distance) D/s relatioship with a brilliant Master
whom is now my Mentor.
He taught me the glory of surrendering my will
taught me how wonderful it was to be controlled
i came into this pretty oldish,just last  year .and i just turned 50.
i got my nipples pierced for christmas(woo woo)
it was done with the largest size needle she had.,.it was slow and the pain made me flush with sweat
the young lady who did it was very receptive to what i was feeling  and  it was great
i have had a very willing vanila partner to experiment on also
i love the cane (what i have had i had to plead for)
i have not been bound tightly yet(as an adult )
but i am waiting for that.
i am hooked on mental bondage
strict orgasm control
and am  going into my next half century yearning to experience D/s full time
oh yeah, i love humiliation (trust me i have been humiliated on line)
i wallow in it  like a hot porker
i am a hot little porker
hot little masochistic porker
being in this lifestyle means being free to me
i dont need to expand on that because who ever is reading this will surely 
be on the same page.
(thank you G-d.) 




< Message edited by redpetals -- 6/6/2006 7:54:18 PM >

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 8:34:22 PM   
Submotive


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quote:

What does it mean to be Who You are in
the Bdsm world?


It means revealing ALL of myself, not just the parts considered "normal". Normal????? HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 8:39:59 PM   
timeoutgurlie


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Status: offline 		Means finally having a label for all the things I enjoyed that I thought made me a twisted freak.

Now, I'm still a bit of a twisted freak, but I'm ok with it lol

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 10:19:49 PM   
CERCKL


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Status: offline 		It gives a broad definition for how I deal with my relationships.
Control.

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 10:40:57 PM   
Dollbecky


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Status: offline 		BDSM gave me the framwork to explain and embrace my complex  nature 

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/6/2006 10:43:04 PM   
MistressLorelei


Posts: 997
Joined: 11/7/2005
Status: offline 		Bdsm for me is the connection point where so many components of my life come together.  Before I discovered bdsm, certain connections just ended...  electrified but unfulfilled. 

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 4:30:20 PM   
Ridilyn


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Status: offline 		It means I can be me without worry. I can be me around people who won't judge me negativly

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 8:28:58 PM   
spankmepink11


Posts: 1310
Joined: 9/28/2005
Status: offline 		As others have said in this thread...being me in BDSM means being...and embracing all that is me....submissive, masochist, slut, adrenalin/edge /approval  junkie... woman,  little girl (not in the "age play" sense)....polyamorous wannabe( one day  )   ,  instead of what societal norms dictate.
We are who we are....

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 8:30:34 PM   
spankmepink11


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

Bdsm for me is the connection point where so many components of my life come together.  Before I discovered bdsm, certain connections just ended...  electrified but unfulfilled. 



very  well said...MistressLorelei

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 8:32:25 PM   
spankmepink11


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quote:

ORIGINAL: timeoutgurlie

Means finally having a label for all the things I enjoyed that I thought made me a twisted freak.

Now, I'm still a bit of a twisted freak, but I'm ok with it lol


Yes!!!!

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 8:41:13 PM   
iliv2servher


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Slipstreme

I am a sadomasochistic Dominant, with stronger masochistic leanings at the momment.



"...with stronger masochistic leanings at the moment."  This is very inciteful, because it dispells the myth that we are not always one thing or one way.  And I suppose that this confuses those who believe that they have window into what makes us tick.  You can be either static or fluid, and at whatever time you choose to be what and who you are.


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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 8:45:34 PM   
Reflectivesoul


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iliv2servher

quote:

ORIGINAL: Slipstreme

I am a sadomasochistic Dominant, with stronger masochistic leanings at the momment.



"...with stronger masochistic leanings at the moment."  This is very inciteful, because it dispells the myth that we are not always one thing or one way.  And I suppose that this confuses those who believe that they have window into what makes us tick.  You can be either static or fluid, and at whatever time you choose to be what and who you are.



Well said ....
 
( by the way you have mail on the other side... I replied to yours but its still unread so I wondered if you got it or not.... )

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 9:00:52 PM   
murmur


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Status: offline 		I dont know what it means to me completely...but i guess the important thing here is that the question in itself give me a start out for the answer...which will come to me in time. (but again, not completely, cause we're always progressively changing, arent we?)
But damn, i have no patience. Arrrgh.
but thanks for this thread. It helped me find some more questions to answer to. (that's a good thing...right? lol)

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 9:28:00 PM   
Kindred2Evil


Posts: 227
Joined: 4/16/2005
Status: offline 		I'm a sado-masochistic Domme.  I dig pain period.  I can use it as a tool to get what I want out of someone, or I can use for sexual pleasure.  Being a dominant is my nature, it took me quite some time to find my niche and I find that it is always expanding and growing.  I like to control people who are willing and able to submit themselves to me.  I like to Top the bottems who just want to play.  Being what I am is reflected in my every day life, not just this one.  BDSM is an outlet for the feelings I have inside, it makes me feel GOOD, no matter how it's played out.  It's not a game, and yet it is.  To me it's an endless circle and what a ride!!!!!!  I plan to still be active in it well into my elder years and always always learning something new.  It's given me way to discover new things about myself every time I am involved in a scene.  And to repeat what's been said already I believe...It's just me.

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 9:38:40 PM   
liljeanti


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From: Michigan
Status: offline 		For me it means freedom in a way.  Coming into the lifestyle and embracing my masochist ways has helped me open up and become a better person in life.  It has helped me find myself and who I am and helped me enjoy current and future relationships even more.

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 10:52:58 PM   
Dustyn


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quote:


What does it mean to be Who You are in
the Bdsm world?


It means being me.  I am no different in as I am out.  People love me, like me, could do without me, and despise me.  I am not responsible for what other people think, especially those that simply judge instead of ask questions.  In the end, all I am is me.


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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 10:56:23 PM   
tangldupinblue


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Status: offline 		calm.

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 11:02:06 PM   
Brosco


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Status: offline 		To me it is a mindset, and therefore works in r/l, online or even as penpals.  Its part of m that will show no matter the form of comminication used.

Brosco

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RE: Describe what it means to be who You are in Bdsm - 6/8/2006 11:13:48 PM   
amayos


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From: New England
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Slipstreme

I am a sadomasochistic Dominant, with stronger masochistic leanings at the momment. I am not currently in a relationship although I have some strong ties I am seeking. I have found my potential family and will pursue that before I pursue anything else, although we all hope it will work out. I am polyamourous and open to multiple play partners. As a masochist, in scene I am in it for the pain only, never to be controlled.


I often describe myself as a dominant male sadist with a penchant for mental bondage and productive abuse.

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