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enigmabrat -> How rude (6/6/2006 7:12:50 PM)
Id like to know why some people here feel they have the righ to cretiqu someone els's profile I mean if you dont like something someone says in there profile dont Messege them no one is asking for your opinion on in. So tell me this why cant people just keep their negativity to themselvs. it isnt possative critisim if it wasnt wanted or asked for. Some people have this sence that they are better then you and there for have a right to say things about other people. has this happend to others?? getting messages from people who arent interested in you but only wish to tell you things they dont like about your profile??

littlemissub -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:14:09 PM)
the block button is sooo handy for this reason.

BitaTruble -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:15:40 PM)
Block, delete and ignore. No one has power over you unless you give it to them. Celeste

indybbwsubbie -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:19:01 PM)
i think we all have both read the offensive profiles and perhaps gotten the offensive messages from other members. 1st - laugh...... 2nd - delete, delete, delete!! indy subbie "to chain the body is to free the soul"

BreakMeShakeMe -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:20:56 PM)
I usually reply laughing... telling them about the screw up in their profiles according to me... just as they did mine... then block them...lol

enigmabrat -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:21:06 PM)
I know, it just pisses me off is all I have nothing offensive in my profile at all I guess Im just a bit sensative plus the fact Id never message a person like that

SumterDom -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:23:09 PM)
I have seen that happen too. When someone feels the need to do such as that to me I usually tell them thank you for sharing your thinking with me, then promtly ignore it/them, or I will respond simply with "Noted"

Arpig -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:24:55 PM)
I think you are too sensitive. What is the point of getting bent out of shape over an email from somebody you don't know?

desertdancer -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:25:25 PM)
Brat, your opening yourself up here for some harsh words, I've seen you be picked on enough on these boards, why go out of your way to invite more? Not everything that happens on the other side is cause to post it here, if someone gives you they're opinion of your profile and you didn't ask them for it, hit the delete button and forget about it, walk away, go get a drink then come back cool and collected. I worry with the 'tone' of some of your posts that people are going to lose patience with you and you'r feelings will be hurt sincerly, dancer

MistressOfGa -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:25:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BreakMeShakeMe I usually reply laughing... telling them about the screw up in their profiles according to me... just as they did mine... then block them...lol Jessica! lol I cant keep up with your ID's! <s>

enigmabrat -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:26:18 PM)
::smiles::[8D] people hate when you reply kindly when they have said something to get your goat... snappy retorts piss um off too... but sometimes I guess it just gets the better of me i need to learn to take a deep breath and let stupid suff like this wash over me

cougardiva62 -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:32:02 PM)
Do not take it personally, they are the people you do not to have anything better to do with themselves and it just goes to show what sad lonely people they are if they have to stoop to that level. they probably will never find anyone anyway. Also take into account that they probably get off on it. I usually answer with something caustic and then block, as a Domme that is always fun, especially to rude male "Doms" they are not real Doms anyway. Life is too short to get upset by petty minded, ignorant morons, who should not even be on this site and that is being polite[X(] Always remember Bad Karma, it will come back and bite them on the butt

IronBear -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:35:30 PM)
Two points here: Once you place anything in the publice forum using any media, you have given people the right to make commentary on that information you have given, from a content and presentation aspect. If you don't want critiques done place anything at all in a public arena. It is fair to say that many comments are positive and thus may be benificial. That some people use private means of communication to voice their oppinion may well mean that they wish not to cause embarrasment to the owner of the original material. Of course it may also be due to their not wanting to draw flack for sounding nasty too.... When any one starts to complain about unfavourable criticisms in any format, they by their very actions are attempting to force their beliefs, attitudes and/or standards upon others who have differing eliefs, attitudes and/or standards. Those who so do this complaining about people who believe and do things differently are no better than the right wing Christians who will never stop untill they are wiped off the face of the earth (My personal choice) or untill few people listen to them. the second point is a very sore point for me havig needed to battle this same mentality in local, state and federal politics when some blkue collar wowser tries to stop everything from strip clubs to brothelks and adult shops/magazines/websites.... On a final note regarding profiles, I as have others have in the past invited people to read and either post or contact me privately with their thoughts. I have my profile because I want it read so folks can see where I'm comming from and this especially applies to slaves who may think they will be suitable for me..

Suleiman -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:42:23 PM)
When you put up a profile in a place like this, you are not only opening yourself up to potential criticism, you are, in effect, inviting it. If you spend any great amount of time on the internet, you will be criticised, and that criticism will frequently be harsh, unflattering, and yes even rude. If you take it personally, all it will do for you is to increase your blood pressure, reduce your enjoyment of more positive experiences, and make you less pleasant to be around as you complain about the latest atrocity to strike your existance. Eventually, you'll wind up miserable, alone, and suffering from serious stress-related health problems. Luckily, there is an answer: Delete, Block, and move on. Problem solved.

BreakMeShakeMe -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:44:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa quote: ORIGINAL: BreakMeShakeMe I usually reply laughing... telling them about the screw up in their profiles according to me... just as they did mine... then block them...lol Jessica! lol I cant keep up with your ID's! <s> Not my fault this time... i deleted true.. not ncsilverwolves..someone hacked my pc today.. had to do lots of work on it...lol back to thread now...lol I too have noticed that the OP has been doing some postings that scream....bash me. A virgin... no oral sex... been molested..sorry to of read that one .......(but still a real life virgin)...... e-mails.. sweetie... either toughen up... or buy stock in aloe plants and bandages..... because flames get hot. Please note... not knocking the post... but as it's been pointed out to me many times.... it's the wording.

perverseangelic -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:45:24 PM)
While I don't like it when people say mean things to me, sometimes critiques are useful. They can give you and idea of how your profile reads to other people. Otherwise, block 'em and don't stress. This is the net. There are lots of mean people. Don't let it get to you

juliaoceania -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:49:36 PM)
to the opening post.... No I have never had anyone message me to critique my profile.

smilezz -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 7:59:11 PM)
I get it from time to time too enigmabrat. I think there are people that just have to say something rude to ensure their day is complete. I have a few assholes that like to e-mail me and critique my pics.........tell me that i can not possibly be a slave or serve a dominant. <busts out laughing> Personally speaking.........if i let people online that i have never met hurt my feelings, i have bigger issues at hand. The internet is a form of entertainment.......if i happen to form r/l friendships with people (and i certainly have).......then yay! other than that......ehhhhhh, it's all smoke up in the air. Happy Tuesday! ~smilezz~

SweetSarijane -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 8:00:05 PM)
I've had only a couple of negative comments emailed on my profile the way I originally had it. They weren't suggestions nor constructive criticism and were initial contacts. Total strangers to me, knew nothing about me, just figured they got their panties in a wad and felt the need to attack someone to feel better. I replied have a nice life and put them out of my mind. Sweetie you gotta toughen up and not let such things get to you. Why give pixels on a screen such power over your emotions? Delete, block if necessary and move on. There's jerks everywhere who love to lash out and mess with people. Why give them the pleasure of letting it get to you? They don't know you, you don't know them. Consider the source and move forward.

Tikkiee -> RE: How rude (6/6/2006 8:01:36 PM)
quote: So tell me this why cant people just keep their negativity to themselvs Hmm, a negative post, asking why people can not keep their negativity to themselves. /looks confused

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