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pshornyguy -> RE: Fakes and Liars on CM (6/9/2012 12:42:18 PM)
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Of course, Miss Immortal, we all have our sensors on to recognize insincere people. But that determination is not always something that happens within the first few minutes. It can take literally hours or days -- depending upon how skillful the fake/liar is at his/her art.
And, yes, it is likely that a certain number of fakes/liars (i.e. the ones who are just playing and do not want any sort of recognition) -- might leave the site. So, in that sense, there could be some impact but that is NOT the primary reason for my suggestion.
The primary reason continues to be to provide advance cautionary warnings to the people here who GENUINELY are into BDSM and Master/slave and Dom/sub relationships --- and I emphasize the word relationships. Brief one-time encounters can also be fun but I suspect many people on this site (and comparable ones) would like to find a soul-mate who enjoys the same type of lifestyle.
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain
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I might express initial interest in someone but I certainly don't make commitments to do certain things unless I am genuinely interested in them. And I certainly do not use extravagant language to describe my feelings for someone after 2-3 hours of chatting if I am not genuinely interested!
The fact that you say you do not do this should tip you off to what kind of people do.
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my proposal is NOT the "impact" on the fakes and liars. It is to give pertinent information to the GENUINE people here
As for this ^ you said it might help to drop the number of fakes, even if only by a small number, so you are hoping that it will impact them in some way.
And....about that guy that doesn't show up. That says he will many times with many people but then doesn't. Maybe he is shy, or scared. We get it you are out and loud and proud to the point that you have no issues with sharing your illness with others but maybe, hopefully, there are some that would really like to and aren't because they don't want to hurt others. So all they have is their little net dreams and play sessions via emails. Yeah, it sucks for those of us that looking for something real but it isn't like they are actually hurting you.
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