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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:39:46 PM   
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Well, then, why ARE you on this site?

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Of course I find local guys --- despite the delusional comments of a previous requester.

But many guys are not into BDSM or Master/slave as an ongoing relationship. They see it as recreational NSA sex so that is why I presume ALL of us are on CM i.e. we are looking for someone who enjoys this lifestyle?



You would presume wrong. And you would be an idiot to presume anything about ALL people in any group.



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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:40:08 PM   
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Even if there is only a 0.5% chance risk it is STILL disgustingly selfish to put someone else at risk of it by deliberatly not using a rubber simply because you prefer bareback.



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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:40:10 PM   
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It is in the states as well, but only if he does not tell them. If he makes it clear to the other person that he has it and they then choose to take part in a sexual activity with him it is assumed they understand the risk.

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:41:01 PM   
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So that makes it okay for you to fuck people without telling them that you're a walking biohazard and they'd better use a rubber unless they fancy a case of Kaposi's sarcoma a few year's down the line, then?

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:41:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

It is in the states as well, but only if he does not tell them. If he makes it clear to the other person that he has it and they then choose to take part in a sexual activity with him it is assumed they understand the risk.


I just hope that the people that do it with him are at a place in their life to make an informed choice and not niave/wanting to please etc

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:43:00 PM   
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No, Moonlight, I am not offended by your decision at all. Why do you think otherwise?

For the 13th time in this thread: My concern is focused exclusively upon people who are DISHONEST.

So, if you told me that you would send me your pics but did not do so AND I subsequently learned that you routinely have told other people that you will send your pics but you never do so --- then, to me, that is an indicator worthy of note that you are dishonest.

If, however, you stated immediately that you do not post or share your pics -- then that is fine because you are being HONEST with me!

Do you see my point now?



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Well I am a very real person but I would not send my picture or personal information to anyone online.


and right after I posted this I answered a text from one of my very best friends I met online a few years ago. Soo Ok I will revise. I am super cautious about handing out personal information online.


From the bits I have read the OP is offended by this? There was a lot so I may have missed something. I am sure I am not the only one who is careful about pictures and personal information. Even on Facebook and my parenting message boards I am very careful.


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:43:29 PM   
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quote:

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All I have done, for the 100th time, is ask a question which should appeal to EVERYONE on this website or any other....i.e. how do we minimize wasting our time on fakes and liars?




As pages and pages of people keep telling you.  You avoid it by not thinking with your little head, and instead using the one sitting so squarely on your shoulders.  Do you honestly believe that if you talk to someone for 30 minutes or an hour who is professing to want to be your slave forever is serious?  How dense to you have to be to not grasp that concept?

You want to know that someone is genuine, talk to them, set up a meeting.  Then put a damn shirt on and go meet them at a local Starbucks.  Bring a book, get your favorite beverage and pass the time.  If they show up great, if they don't, at least it will have been a couple of hours without you being here whining and complaining that you can't find someone who "genuinely" looks forward to you pissing in their mouth.

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:44:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pshornyguy

Piss is sterile...very unlikely you can "pass" something on. In fact, in some cultures, piss is considered to have medicinal value and is routinely ingested.

HEALTHY piss. Urine can contain a lot of different pathogens and unhealthy bacteria.

NBMG

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:45:10 PM   
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The point remains how to make it possible to avoid people who have no genuine interest in Master/slave or Dom/sub relationships OR who are attempting to manipulate people here into believing they are seriously interested in somebody when they are not.

I would still like to hear other suggestions regarding that.




I and others have given several answers to this but those are the ones you ignore


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:46:01 PM   
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quote:

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Piss is sterile...very unlikely you can "pass" something on.

Urine is normally sterile but only until it leaves the bladder. Your urethra is not sterile. Please don't compound this idiocy by passing along incorrect and possibly dangerous medical "advice" as well.

If you want to be cavalier about your own safety that's one thing, but you're possibly screwing with other people's lives here.


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:46:13 PM   
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I must admit I am thinknig that you are actually a male sub looking for humiliation - if so well done, it is a more interesting technique than they normally try here.

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:47:06 PM   
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Off Topic.

To My dear Mod21, who I know must still be lurking,

When I lose it, and chastise this dude for what I think he's doing, and tell him that I'd rather see a "list" for people who are infecting others with HIV, because he doesn't think he can pass it on, how long am I going to be moderated for?


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:47:23 PM   
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Lafayette Lady:

It is YOU who is dense and who is not using your head.

I have repeatedly stated here that I am not proposing anything based upon ONE incident or ONE 30-minute or 60-minute conversation. I have repeatedly stated that EVERYTHING I am proposing MUST be based upon a RECURRING PATTERN of behavior.

NOW PLEASE RE-READ THAT LAST PARAGRAPH ONE MORE TIME and then have the decency to apologize to me for deliberately mis-representing my position.


quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

quote:

ORIGINAL: pshornyguy

All I have done, for the 100th time, is ask a question which should appeal to EVERYONE on this website or any other....i.e. how do we minimize wasting our time on fakes and liars?




As pages and pages of people keep telling you.  You avoid it by not thinking with your little head, and instead using the one sitting so squarely on your shoulders.  Do you honestly believe that if you talk to someone for 30 minutes or an hour who is professing to want to be your slave forever is serious?  How dense to you have to be to not grasp that concept?

You want to know that someone is genuine, talk to them, set up a meeting.  Then put a damn shirt on and go meet them at a local Starbucks.  Bring a book, get your favorite beverage and pass the time.  If they show up great, if they don't, at least it will have been a couple of hours without you being here whining and complaining that you can't find someone who "genuinely" looks forward to you pissing in their mouth.


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:48:29 PM   
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Thank you, stef for pointing this out. I know a nice little boy that right now has trush because his lady told him urine is sterile and always safe to consume.

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:48:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Off Topic.

To My dear Mod21, who I know must still be lurking,

When I lose it, and chastise this dude for what I think he's doing, and tell him that I'd rather see a "list" for people who are infecting others with HIV, because he doesn't think he can pass it on, how long am I going to be moderated for?



Can I second that please Dear Mod - Because this guy is worth some serious moderation time


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:49:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond
I think that is what several people have an issue with - that the OP in his profile says:

1. I am HIV-positive. If you are neg, you must be ok with bbsex.

Ouch! He ought to abstain entirely and join a monastery to keep his population safe.

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:49:57 PM   
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NOW PLEASE RE-READ THAT LAST PARAGRAPH ONE MORE TIME and then have the decency to apologize to me for deliberately mis-representing my position.

Your hypocrisy is ASTOUNDING.


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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:50:37 PM   
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Re the misleading health info - Some people will say what they want to get their own way and not care about others...

Ironic someone doing this is here bitching about dishonesty

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:51:04 PM   
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Do you mind if I ask you to define the word recurring? I have "lied" to three people in the last day about where I live (again I live in the country and I told them the nearest town) Would my doing that count as recurring?

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RE: Fakes and Liars on CM - 6/9/2012 1:52:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Do you mind if I ask you to define the word recurring? I have "lied" to three people in the last day about where I live (again I live in the country and I told them the nearest town) Would my doing that count as recurring?

You're on the list, missy!

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