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Lockit -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 12:53:38 PM)
With a hidden profile... it could be some hairy-fat-fuck-with a small penis, spreading his phobia. Anyone saying what the op said... ought to stand proud and not hide. Let us see just who believes that bs.

PeonForHer -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:02:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit With a hidden profile... it could be some hairy-fat-fuck-with a small penis, spreading his phobia. That cuts me out as a suspect using a sock, then. I have very little body hair.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:04:58 PM)
Nor are you fat. [;)]

Lockit -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:05:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Nor are you fat. [;)] Hes trying to get us to say his penis isn't small! [;)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:06:33 PM)
Some things should remain private! [:D][8D]

Lockit -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:07:00 PM)
ROFLMAO!

PeonForHer -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:15:20 PM)
Don't you rolf your mayo at me. I've had no complaints about my todger size so far - at least not in writing.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/15/2012 1:18:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Don't you rolf your mayo at me. I've had no complaints about my todger size so far - at least not in writing. SEEKRIT, as we were discussing!! Pleasant surprises and all. [;)]

thedavezone -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/16/2012 8:15:04 AM)
I'm a switch, how's that?

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/16/2012 1:53:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on my terms , is that possible? Littlemissbossy, First of all, how can anyone possibly know what you want, since you're profile is hidden. Also, your post does sound homophobic, judgmental AND closed-minded toward LGBT people. You can also say what you do want withOUT being insulting or derogatory toward those you don't want. There's nothing wrong with wanting a 100% straight guy, but say so in your profile and take your profile off "Hide" for crying out loud. You have a zero chance of anyone reading it or knowing what you want if you keep it hidden. As for strap-on play, guys have a prostate in there and even some 100% straight guys like it when that gets stimulated by a strap-on. It doesn't mean they're gay or bi. If you don't know what a prostate is, then you need some sex ed and/or google it. Everyone has their preferences and that's cool and all that. Vive la différence. Just don't be so confrontational or insulting and you'll get a lot farther. NBMG

fetisheden -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/16/2012 2:15:03 PM)
there are PLENTY of straight submissive men to choose from.

kalikshama -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/16/2012 6:31:03 PM)
quote: Anal stimulation, liking it does not mean someone is gay. It just means they find that kind of stimulation pleasurable and since guys have prostate glands and since the anus it self is highly enervated, well some guys will find contact with either or both of those parts pleasurable. It has to due with anatomy and not sexual preference. It may be your preference not to engage in anal play of any kind, but you need to understand that while your preference is valid, your reasoning is not. Quality post. [image]http://www.simplyzesty.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/facebook_like_button_big.jpeg[/image]

bottomforbinding -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/17/2012 12:46:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy 1 why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... 2 most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . 3 maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on my terms , is that possible? 1 - No, it's not. Some are progressive enough to know it's about the identity, not the body parts. Even being attracted to a crossdresser isn't "gay" 2 - Most on here maybe? It's mostly phonies and wannabes on collarme, lol 3 Agreed, bdsm probably isn't for you; there are plenty of men out there who voluntarily and involuntarity let the woman in their life boss them around. If you can't handle the idea of men liking to be pegged you may find this lifestyle dissappointing.

TNDommeK -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/17/2012 5:21:00 PM)
all i want is a guy who i can boss around on my terms * , is that possible?* This is what caught My attention. You want someone to boss you around but you want to tell them how to do it? Yea BDSM isn't for you; at least until you get your mind right.

DesiresUnleashed -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/17/2012 7:08:18 PM)
sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on my terms , is that possible? Dear littlemissbossy, Your post is one of the most HYPOCRITICAL posts I have ever read on the net. The fact you are quick to say your NOT homphobic but yet you say men who seek transsexuals are gay ? Let me tell you something my dear, I am a transsexual and any man who is gonna sub for me is in no way ' GAY ' and reason being that a gay man has ZERO interest in a transsexual woman. Clearly you don't seem to see transgender women as women and hey if that's how you feel fair enough but you've definitely crossed the line. You then go on to rant about how it's gay that a man wants to be fucked by a strap on especially by a woman. Seriously... you really are just way out in left field with your post. I believe if your true to the lifestyle you accept the diversity that this lifestyle has to offer. Sure there are people who may not fit what you deem as being ' proper ' or what you seek, but that doesn't give you the right to spout your negativity here. You say maybe the lifestyle isnt for you yet you wanna boss someone around. Sounds like your confused. Id suggest you first of all start to learn to be curteous of others and be sure if you can handle this lifestyle. If not then I suggest you take a hike.

TheRyan7 -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/18/2012 6:33:03 AM)
I think you purposely made this to offend people. And for that I dont like you.

DesiresUnleashed -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/18/2012 9:36:26 AM)
@ TheRyan - It's unfortunate that there is such idiocy and close-mindedness in such a diverse community. As they say karma's a bitch and what goes around comes around !.

Ilayda -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/18/2012 12:40:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 Frankly, your post makes you sound too stupid to dominate anyone (unless he's looking for an ignorant, homophobic Domme). To be slightly more charitable, we could be looking here at a very, very young domme. But either way: some very basic things needing to be learned. What, a 13-year-old one? :P @OP: Please do yourself a favor and do some basic reading on sex and sexuality. You're not just sounding homophobic but also ignorant, and it sounds like you got your idea of what's "gay" off of 4chan or something with a similar level of maturity.

BalletBob -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/19/2012 3:10:24 PM)
I am not gay, and I am a submissive. I also love Butt Plugs, but not a male organ in my butt. It just doesn't do a thing for me, but if that is what some subs like, then the more power to them. Also a sub might do some things considered gay, just to please their Mistress, and make "HER HAPPY"! Some things are that drastic. Straight, Dressed at times for fun, and Mistress-less, sub BalletBob

FrostedFlake -> RE: Are there any submissive guys out there who are NOT gay? (6/19/2012 5:03:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlemissbossy sorry if i offend anyone.. i'm not homophobic i promise. but i only want to date men who are 100% heterosexual. it seems like most male subs are at least a little bi curous/bi sexual ? thats what ive noticed anyway. why do people put "straight" on their profile and then say they are looking for a transexual ? sorry but thats gay ... also i would never ever use a strap on a guy because thats gay too. just the thought makes me shudder. most submissive men don't seem to care about what the woman wants, ironically , its all about them and their fantasies and fetishes . maybe bdsm isn't right for me . all i want is a guy who i can boss around on my terms , is that possible? Uhmmm, uhhh... hmmm... Where should I begin? Skip trying to educate you out of this, I'm just going to lay it down in front of you. I think you are a guy. If you are not, it would be in your interest to consider seriously why I think you are. After all, you are attracting the sort of guys that want guys. This is my helpful smile 8)

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