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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/16/2012 7:40:14 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Yes, everyone has said everything already. LL gives good advice by saying to wait until she is comfortable. Also I would advise telling her that until that time nothing will be coming to her until she proves herself. Be it material goods or cybering etc.
There are real ones of us out there, but there seems to be more of the fakes. There are good folks on this side of CM. Good luck to you.


The reason that I said he should simply tell her he will wait until she is comfortable meeting or showing herself is because I felt it was an understated and polite way to let the "mistress" know that he is understanding, but at the same time, not a fool.  In my opinion, anyone who gets demanding about skype or cam, even if it isn't going to be one sided is raising a serious red flag.  Not necessarily that they are "fake" and trying to play you, but that they are looking for a dynamic before one actually exists, which means they will try to steam roll everywhere, and to me, that is not a good thing.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/16/2012 10:40:22 PM   
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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/17/2012 9:29:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rayjames

The next day we agreed to skype again, but she refused again and I told her I cannot skype if she does not show herself. She got really offended and blocked me both on skype and on collarme.

What do you think, was she a fake or did I miss the mistress of my life?


None of us has any way of knowing if she was a fake. But based on her reluctance to show you her face, even though she agreed to get on Skype, I'd assume that something was fishy.

It's extremely doubtful that you missed the "Mistress of your life". Would the mistress of your life behave like the person that you interacted with on Skype? I didn't think so.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/17/2012 9:41:39 PM   
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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/17/2012 9:46:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

He busted 'her' on Tineye, Roch.

PS: Where the heck ya been, Sweetness?


Oh. I didn't read any of the replies. I just responded to the OP.

I got a little bored with this place, so I stopped visiting. I drop by every now and then, but not on a regular basis. If a topic interests me, I may leave a comment. But very few interest me these days.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/17/2012 9:56:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		The world is full of fakes but there are those of us here that are real too. There is nothing wrong with giving someone time to get to know you first. A lot of people do not feel comfortable getting on skype and showing themselves to someone they do not know. However, once a relationship has been established they should be able to at that point. Even if they do not like a cam or voice. At least once for a few minutes as a show of good faith. If the person outright refuses then perhaps you should just move on or decide you do not care either way. In my own personal experience, I have run into guys pretending to be girls on more than one occasion. It is basically up to you as to what you feel you can live with.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/17/2012 10:25:03 PM   
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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/18/2012 6:09:49 AM   
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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/18/2012 7:41:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you have to ask, you already know the answer. Big fat FAKE. Sadly this site has many.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/18/2012 11:16:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are Firefox and Chrome plugins for Google image search. I use "Google Search by Image" for Firefox. A couple of clicks and you can usually find the original source of a photo, even if it has been altered/cropped. Very useful!

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/18/2012 12:01:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a little curious as to what the interactions were. Perhaps there was a miscommunication? "Skype" can mean anything from IMing someone to masturbating on camera depending on who you ask.

I'm not really siding with her, because it seems like she overreacted, which is a bad sign even if she WAS who she claimed to be - just musing.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/19/2012 1:41:31 PM   
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This would be a perfect point for NudeMan1 to make his usual comment. However, unfortunately, I can't remember his password. And he's been banned. Sorry.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/19/2012 2:36:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		OK, this one turned out to be not who she said she was, but that doesn't automatically mean that anyone who doesn't want to skype or cam is the same.  I can't stand cam, but I'm more than happy to meet in person.  Even after I've met someone, I'm probably not doing the cam thing.  It's just not My thing.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/19/2012 3:39:15 PM   
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Not everyone likes to cam. If someone wants to see my face on cam, whether it's cam along with IM or on Skype, yeah, I will show them my face while I am fully clothed, but I expect him to show his face to me too. I mean NO cock or naked shots, his FACE. If he doesn't reciprocate, the cam goes immediately OFF. If all I see is cock or such, the cam goes immediately OFF. So if "she's" not willing to reciprocate in like manner and show "her" face, I'd say "she" has something to hide.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/19/2012 6:19:47 PM   
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This would be a perfect point for NudeMan1 to make his usual comment. However, unfortunately, I can't remember his password. And he's been banned.


/mourns the loss of NudeMan1, the epitome of randomness/

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/22/2012 1:53:18 AM   
mons


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I will agree with CouquarRick

It would be embarrasment for me to be seen on here, my place in the community, those whom know me and
my family! I never have ever placed a picture on here either I have been called a fake, because I would not
exchange a picture with someone!

I was invited to a munch but I did not get to go,, I will next time!
mons

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/22/2012 8:50:38 AM   
Bill41


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Status: offline 		i read this post earlier in the week and using the tools MistressDarkArt recommended found that half the people i had set up as a favorite were using fake pictures. Does this mean that that are fakes? probably or they could be like me and don't want a picture of myself on here. But taking a picture from some random persons facebook page or European dating webpage is just wrong in my opinion.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/22/2012 9:25:06 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

This would be a perfect point for NudeMan1 to make his usual comment. However, unfortunately, I can't remember his password. And he's been banned.


/mourns the loss of NudeMan1, the epitome of randomness/


Right? The absolute nonsequitur.

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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/22/2012 9:38:24 AM   
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I just finished Skyping with someone who is a regular poster on these forums. Not once did camming come up. we IMed . that's all. We HAVE skype voiced in the past.

take that for what it's worth, considering that this is not the first or last time this will happen.


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RE: Is she a fake? - 6/22/2012 10:00:10 AM   
Bill41


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Status: offline 		LadyHibiscus,

i was reffering to this portion of the OP and some of the other general comments made by others. "What do you think, was she a fake or did I miss the mistress of my life?"

i sure would have liked to have met this NudeMan1 sounds like he could stir the pot.

bill

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