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RE: Baby Steps & Leaps and Bounds - 6/19/2012 6:37:10 PM

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My babystep regarding a hard limit is: I will now handle paper.
For whatever odd reason I have a multisensorial aversion to most of it, and while it is still much worse than fingers on a chalkboard I can handle it when asked: carrying a paper bag, bringing Him a stack of newspapers when He is painting etc.

That is one of the sweetest things I have ever read on these boards. For me, finding someone who will allow me my peculiarities, but help me work through them, is someone I would do all kinds of nasty things for!

And I do!

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RE: Baby Steps & Leaps and Bounds - 6/20/2012 5:57:29 AM

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Thank you.
I am still a work in progress.

We all are. Hang in there!

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RE: Baby Steps & Leaps and Bounds - 6/20/2012 6:08:51 AM

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I agree too, JstAnotherSub. It's amazing to things you'll do when you're in a relationship built on trust, respect & support.

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RE: Baby Steps & Leaps and Bounds - 6/20/2012 7:02:08 AM

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Nice post Bita, and thought provoking and inspiring. I find it difficult to add personal antidotes so I apologise for not being able to share some personal thoughts other than, baby steps happen through out our journey. My 23rd year in this lifestyle is approaching late summer and I still baby step I still experience an occasional leap that leaves my heart racing.

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RE: Baby Steps & Leaps and Bounds - 6/20/2012 9:48:34 AM

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My babystep regarding a hard limit is: I will now handle paper.
For whatever odd reason I have a multisensorial aversion to most of it, and while it is still much worse than fingers on a chalkboard I can handle it when asked: carrying a paper bag, bringing Him a stack of newspapers when He is painting etc.

That is one of the sweetest things I have ever read on these boards. For me, finding someone who will allow me my peculiarities, but help me work through them, is someone I would do all kinds of nasty things for!

And I do!

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Oh wow that really is very sweet , someone to help you to get over limits. Sounds like a big success!

I feel that way about unpeeled apples, thinking about biting into an unpeeled apple gives me anxiety out the ass, makes nerves in my teeth actually physically hurt! I have to close my eyes and shake it off. But occasionally I make myself eat from an unpeeled apple and it isnt ever as bad as I make it . But still right now my teeth hurt and I cringe thinking about it.

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