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caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:03:23 PM   
boytoyyum


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Status: offline 		My mistress girlfriend wants to beat me with a cane (plastic rod) until wlets trun to bruises and then keep going until those bruises open up and bleed. We both want this and plan to have me tied and gagged (no safewords). Anyone done this? What was it like? What can I expect? We plan to use a plastic rod about the size of one from a miniblind and she intends to hit me "as hard as she can". Thoughts? Ideas?
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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:13:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm hoping this isn't something she has read in some fantasy book and wanting to try it out. There are important things that need to be known before doing such a thing. For instance, being sanitary is very important. Especially with open wounds. And that's just one thing that comes to mind. I'm sure the other posters will be along shortly to add to things.

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:16:26 PM   
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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:27:06 PM   
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Cross posting is against TOS.  One or two of your threads will be deleted.




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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:33:02 PM   
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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:38:54 PM   
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Hey, I read the forums in order.  I hadn't realized he continued to post in another section as well.

Funny, I wonder why he didn't bother with the health and safety section?  It seems he is seriously lacking in knowledge of how to take care of either based on his post.

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:50:16 PM   
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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:51:26 PM   
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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 5:59:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Don't forget the saltwater... for the healing properties of course. Or... maybe rubbing alcohol... hummm, decisions, decisions!

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/17/2012 6:56:55 PM   
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Don't forget the saltwater... for the healing properties of course. Or... maybe rubbing alcohol... hummm, decisions, decisions!

Both, of course.

To the OP: dude, do NOT use a window blind rod. Didn't someone impress on you from an early age to use the right tools for the job? Invest in a decent lexan cane made for this purpose. It will be the proper length, heft, and strength to have you sobbing in a split second without flying apart into dangerous shards.

Your girlfriend is a dumb*ss for attempting your fantasy scene without proper education, equipment and actual hands-on mentoring experience. You will be a dumb*ss for letting your boner encourage her in this vein.

Both of you should connect with your community and participate in workshops and/or look for an experienced mentor. Get smart before you try the tough stuff.

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/18/2012 2:54:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Why not both ... and then add Deep Heat to soothe that sore skin.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Don't forget the saltwater... for the healing properties of course. Or... maybe rubbing alcohol... hummm, decisions, decisions!



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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/18/2012 1:26:23 PM   
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Assuming she goes for it, I think you might pass out from the pain.

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/18/2012 1:30:57 PM   
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Don't forget the saltwater... for the healing properties of course. Or... maybe rubbing alcohol... hummm, decisions, decisions!

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/18/2012 3:15:35 PM   
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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/19/2012 6:58:54 PM   
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Ya...be prepared to puke...unless your a pain pig...

Or... end up in the emergency room if she is not someone who has *mastered* the art of caning...



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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/20/2012 12:11:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Look there is bleeding then there is BLEEDING.....

You can cane to raise a welt that sort of seeps a few lush droplets... you care for them... clean them carefully.... make sure you use some antibotic/pain killing ointment... lol of course you could always use that spray alcohol based stuff... for the screaming burning sensation...

and there this is Stripping till you break the skin that can mar a perfectly lovely backside... turn your ass into hide over time...not my think.. I get my sadistic kinks out of safer, saner, more responsible activities. Handling Canes takes a deft touch... its like using a whip.. an artform

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/20/2012 1:33:00 AM   
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Look there is bleeding then there is BLEEDING.....

You can cane to raise a welt that sort of seeps a few lush droplets... you care for them... clean them carefully.... make sure you use some antibotic/pain killing ointment... lol of course you could always use that spray alcohol based stuff... for the screaming burning sensation...

and there this is Stripping till you break the skin that can mar a perfectly lovely backside... turn your ass into hide over time...not my think.. I get my sadistic kinks out of safer, saner, more responsible activities. Handling Canes takes a deft touch... its like using a whip.. an artform



Re: the highlighted bit above? Oooo...that sounds yummy! :)

OP: If you can think it, it's likely been done. But honestly? If your girlfriend has no experience in this, she could cause you some irreparable harm. I wouldn't let a novice do it to me unless they had an experienced person guiding them. (I've been a guinea pig...women are the meanest! *LOL*)

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/20/2012 5:55:06 AM   
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Enjoy.

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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/21/2012 1:04:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP:
Hopefully by now you've figured out from the replies you've received that this is a really, really stupid idea---and this is coming from someone who has been caned until I bled. (and liked it)

As MIP said: right tool for the right job. Canes are an acquired taste--they do take some knowledge and skill. Easy to learn, hard to perfect. A curtain rod made of plastic will likely splinter and break so assuming your girlfriend isn't a complete moron (big assumption perhaps), don't use any implement that is about to break, broken or likely to break. You'll just end up spending the evening tweezing fragments of plastic out of your bum and it won't be pleasant for anyone involved.

If the fantasy is important to both of you, I suggest she take you to a Professional Domme who is skilled in caning. It doesn't take much all to draw blood--after the first set of stripes, when the second set criss-crosses over, any place where the two striped weals intersect is likely to raise a drop of blood or two.

In your case, I'd leave to fantasy if you've never been caned before and work yourself up to a severe one. It would be a pity to waste a professional Domme's time if you freak out after the first stripe. (which I'm told, happens on more than one occasion)


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RE: caning till bleeding - 6/21/2012 1:24:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: boytoyyum

My mistress girlfriend wants to beat me with a cane (plastic rod) until wlets trun to bruises and then keep going until those bruises open up and bleed. We both want this and plan to have me tied and gagged (no safewords). Anyone done this? What was it like? What can I expect? We plan to use a plastic rod about the size of one from a miniblind and she intends to hit me "as hard as she can". Thoughts? Ideas?



Has she ever caned anybody before? If she hasn't then she needs to learn from someone that is experienced and practice, otherwise she can do serious harm.

A plastic rod is probably not the best material.....it's much better to actually use something that is intended for this purpose.




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