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RE: subs recruiting for their Dom - 6/18/2012 2:28:00 PM

lizi

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The first thing I thought of while reading the OP's first post was that it was the guy writing. My take on that hasn't changed since reading the subsequent posts from the 'sub'. If it's not the guy writing you and it's the woman, I'd say the guy is lazy and the woman sounds like a nut case. Like you're going to cave in and screw the guy just because they think you should.

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RE: subs recruiting for their Dom - 6/18/2012 3:20:11 PM

AnastasiaSteele

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These types of messages irritate because I would imagine only that the Dom doesn't have enough class or talent to find another sub on his own. If a dominant can't speak to you directly in the beginning then he won't later on. After even the first contact with him , I can only imagine his/her being well verse in this our her mantra/lines to coax the naive into a poly relationship which is very difficult for even a seasoned submissive to negotiate through let alone live with.

If this person is vastly experience and respected then that sub has no reason to seek out other subs.

"Time waster" since when does taking to know a person before you get involved with them in a bd sm situation "wasting time". Are they afraid that the hype doesn't match walk and talk.

The best way to know if this is the real deal is met that person outside of a bdsm environment on equal terms. Just because you said hello doesn't mean your offering to throwing your panties and bra on the ground and perking you ass up in the air for joe bondage lizard.

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