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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 12:26:29 PM

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You can't have sex for 24/7/365 for 12 years.....of course it has to be more than sexual.

You can't? Darn.... and I only had 3 weeks to go....

Damn, you must be as dehydrated as a raisin.....

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 12:49:03 PM

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In my dynamic, the sexual aspect is little more than a nice perk. It's about the psychological and emotional desires and needs to control and be controlled, the moulding and shaping of another person to help them be the best that they can be at whatever it is they wish to be.

Also, I own a company... slave labour is always a good thing.

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 12:52:38 PM

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BK!! *tacklehugs and loads of love*

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 12:56:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist

oh spare me..its a simple mistake...oh queen of the forum

Bless your heart.

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 1:06:08 PM

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d/s is how we relate to each other.

kink is what we do.

Kink gets negotiated all the time between vanilla couples. They pull out the whip cream, or a silk scarf, or there's some spanking while doing it doggie style. Role playing has been done forever, toys have been around forever.

By the way, I'm a dominant.

Dominate is a verb; and yes I've been known as the ebfh: Editor Bitch from Hell :)

If you really want to get into nuances, I don't dominate. I inspire submission.

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 3:51:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

d/s is how we relate to each other.

kink is what we do.

Kink gets negotiated all the time between vanilla couples. They pull out the whip cream, or a silk scarf, or there's some spanking while doing it doggie style. Role playing has been done forever, toys have been around forever.

By the way, I'm a dominant.

Dominate is a verb; and yes I've been known as the ebfh: Editor Bitch from Hell :)

If you really want to get into nuances, I don't dominate. I inspire submission.

Awesome post!

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 6:35:55 PM

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Of course it's more than sexual. We work together, we raise a blended family. We are there for each other. We are best friends and lovers.

And I didn't seek an owner. I sought someone I could respect who made good decisions, who shared my values. It's because of his awesome decision making that I could turn more and more over to him without fear of the results. He's my owner because he merits it, not because he wanted it.

He is the only man I have ever known who sought the responsibility and not the rights. Because of that, he has it all.

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 6:56:37 PM

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i want more than just sex. i want a real relationship, but taking that to more extremes, both in and out of bed.

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 8:08:42 PM

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i want more than just sex. i want a real relationship, but taking that to more extremes, both in and out of bed.

I like how you worded that. Thanks for doing so.

< Message edited by delilahdelight -- 6/22/2012 8:09:12 PM >

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RE: mind (fuck) over matter - 6/22/2012 8:18:06 PM

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If I'm not a friend, the sex don't matter.

I want someone I to talk with, share with, care for;
whose nuances I appreciate, and adore.

Lucky me, I have her, too.

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