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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/24/2012 8:58:53 PM

Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

Three (reasonable) posts and conversation from the OP with others in this thread and you're diagnosing their need to see a psychologist?

there's another thread from same OP, asking to find help to get trained as a Dom so he can train his sub into a slave.

but even without that, yes, based on his words in this thread...

"Hoping we find that answers here and find peace"

that's what psychologists help people do, and not by chasing things that might be the answer (like BDSM).

ps - just to be clear and not snarky, i didn't "diagnose" anyone here, that's just silly. i simply made one more of many suggestions made in this thread.

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/25/2012 12:21:51 AM

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Wow still going on this. Not many threads on here without getting ripped apart. Leaving out the insane, jealous, bitter and others waffling on, really haven't got far, lol.

All this good info and views on how I should treat my wife, what I am, what I am not. All I know is I have a great sex life and it works with both of us.

Have to laugh at STD tests, as they are not worth the paper they are written on and it's the first thing we ask at a club, fuck safe sex with a condom?. And yes everyone has one and after swapping our licenses and then STD papers we play.

Keep up the good work, have booked Family couselling, stopped lookng at porn on the net, signed up the Dom, fired the Switch, hired the Domme and moved the boundries, roflol

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/25/2012 8:17:36 AM

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All I know is I have a great sex life and it works with both of us.

Like on your other thread, here you go again with the mixed messages.

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Like having an itch you can only scratch around the edges, where is the end of that sexual high? We have chased it all our relationship and when we think we have it, it disappears and we have to begin the search again.

I would like to think that when we have finished our current search, it will end but I know once we have reach it we are going to need to find a new kink to get that amazing high again.

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That is why we are here. We have just about done every fetish, MFM, MMFM, public, 100 other more etc and still looking. Hoping we find that answers here and find peace

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/25/2012 9:49:43 AM

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I am so very glad I no longer have casual sex, especially when someone announces that std tests are worthless. <shudder> I don't even want to think about what you may have caught and don't even know it or you know and hide it from others. <cringe>

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/25/2012 10:33:11 AM

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I do think the first time you do something, there is a special little thrill in it because you've never done it before. It's just a different kind of hot when you do it the next time.

It's almost as if the OP is using sex as a drug. In order to get the same "high" he needs something more and more every time.

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/26/2012 10:59:53 AM

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Wow still going on this. Not many threads on here without getting ripped apart. Leaving out the insane, jealous, bitter and others waffling on, really haven't got far, lol.

All this good info and views on how I should treat my wife, what I am, what I am not. All I know is I have a great sex life and it works with both of us.

Have to laugh at STD tests, as they are not worth the paper they are written on and it's the first thing we ask at a club, fuck safe sex with a condom?. And yes everyone has one and after swapping our licenses and then STD papers we play.

Keep up the good work, have booked Family couselling, stopped lookng at porn on the net, signed up the Dom, fired the Switch, hired the Domme and moved the boundries, roflol

OK, I was nice the first time......

Do you realize that some folks here aren't chasing that "next sexual high" because we have it already?????

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/26/2012 12:43:44 PM

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Dont get me wrong all orgasms are wonderful but nothing beats that first kinky orgasm.

That's why they invented variety.

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RE: Finding that sex high - 6/26/2012 7:16:23 PM

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spoken like a truely inexperienced novice. I assure you the thrills of the first kinky sexual encounter are nothing compared to the boundless experiences and sensations available.

Expand your horizon grasshoppa.

Not at all....that first high is inescapable.

Better than any drug.

(Well, let me be truly honest here....it wasn't even remotely close to that first time I tried to find (and found) a vein, tapped into some truly incredible home made bath tub crack while holding my breath underwater....but it was really fucking close).

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