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D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:26:39 AM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Does anyone here practice some sort of bathing
Ritual with their partner?
I don't mean bathtime nookie, Im talking about
Expecting your partner to wash you e.c.t.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:37:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		If we shower together, which means we aren't in a rush, then we wash each other. Not a d/s ritual but just a bonding one.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:38:15 AM   
Thaz


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Status: offline 		She doesnt get to scrub her pussy or ass when she takes a bath, thats for me to do. With a stiff brisled brush. :-)

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:41:56 AM   
JstAnotherSub


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Status: offline 		One of my fave things to do was wash my d from his toes to the top of his head, using hands and soap and tongue and and and......

It is the intimate moments like that, that I miss the most.

shit brb I think I gotta go do something.

or touch something.

or something.


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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:59:43 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		We have a set ritual where I wash him first with the last part is when I do his hair. I have no idea why it's so important to us, but we both love it- to the point that he says he feels that he's cheating on me when he gets his hair cut and the woman cutting it washes his hair.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 8:24:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		So why not go with him to the barber's and YOU do the wash?

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 8:57:18 AM   
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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 11:30:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		We have a 1970's house. The master bathroom is 5X8. Two people in that closet is a crowd. The best I can do is lay out towels for him.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 11:52:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Good question, No there is no ritual. If we shower or bathe together, I will get him his towel and I will scrub his back. But I would think that is a 'nilla thing as well.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 12:37:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having my slave(s) kneeling with towels for Master is a ritual I like to uphold.

In my old house, I had an over sized walk in shower, the girls showered at 10:30 pm. To reinforce their bond, they would groom each other and got a 'hall pass' to have sex in the shower and orgasm without asking permission.

In my house a Master's bath is not a daily ritual but it is a nice when you have time for a lengthy ritual. The slave(s) prepares the bath with salts and oils. The bathroom is adorned with scented candles. The slave(s) disrobes me, scrubs me with salts, washes me thoroughly and dries me. Then a massage with oils and when my body is completely relaxed, sexual service fit for king. It's all about making Master's mind and body feel great.

In my house a slave's bath can be an exercise in trust, with a little fear. Your basic scare-o-gasm. She is hog tied face down in a filled tub. I am holding her head above water as I talk to her and get her very sexually excited. I grab her hair and dunk her a few times while explaining how I cherish having her very life in my hands. I'll pull her face to mine, slide my fingers inside her and in my deepest domly voice tell her I have her sex in one hand and her life in the other. Then after sufficient build up, I tell her now I want her cum too. I explain I want her to give me her cum while I hold her under water and that I won't let her up until she orgasms. I really want her sex while her life hangs in the balance, but I reassure her with "don't worry baby, if you fail, I know CPR". I tell this story much better when explaining it from her perspective, the hypoxia, pussy throbbing, lungs heaving etc. But this thread is about ritual so I leave the erotic details to your own imagination and stick to the ritual. When she completes her mission and cums (never drowned one yet) she is given the appropriate 'good girl' speech and I wash her as a reward for being a good girl and giving me what I asked for. (don't want to dunk her in soapy water, washing comes last)

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 1:26:36 PM   
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Ahhhh, nevermind!

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 1:29:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		She cuts my hair, and trims my sideburns, and lays out a towel for me; but like Oside girl, our shower isn't big enough for 2 comfortably.

In my dream house, the tub will have a seat for me to sit while she bathes me.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 3:00:40 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Sometimes, from time to time he'll have me wash him down in the shower and then dry him off. It's not a ritual or even all that often; just when he feels like it.

He has just started having me cut his hair.

And he's done the head dunking in water thing too that ResidentSadist talked about. It can be quite fun.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 6/23/2012 3:04:09 PM >

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 4:02:31 PM   
ARIES83


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Having my slave(s) kneeling with towels for Master is a ritual I like to uphold.

In my old house, I had an over sized walk in shower, the girls showered at 10:30 pm. To reinforce their bond, they would groom each other and got a 'hall pass' to have sex in the shower and orgasm without asking permission.

In my house a Master's bath is not a daily ritual but it is a nice when you have time for a lengthy ritual. The slave(s) prepares the bath with salts and oils. The bathroom is adorned with scented candles. The slave(s) disrobes me, scrubs me with salts, washes me thoroughly and dries me. Then a massage with oils and when my body is completely relaxed, sexual service fit for king. It's all about making Master's mind and body feel great.

In my house a slave's bath can be an exercise in trust, with a little fear. Your basic scare-o-gasm. She is hog tied face down in a filled tub. I am holding her head above water as I talk to her and get her very sexually excited. I grab her hair and dunk her a few times while explaining how I cherish having her very life in my hands. I'll pull her face to mine, slide my fingers inside her and in my deepest domly voice tell her I have her sex in one hand and her life in the other. Then after sufficient build up, I tell her now I want her cum too. I explain I want her to give me her cum while I hold her under water and that I won't let her up until she orgasms. I really want her sex while her life hangs in the balance, but I reassure her with "don't worry baby, if you fail, I know CPR". I tell this story much better when explaining it from her perspective, the hypoxia, pussy throbbing, lungs heaving etc. But this thread is about ritual so I leave the erotic details to your own imagination and stick to the ritual. When she completes her mission and cums (never drowned one yet) she is given the appropriate 'good girl' speech and I wash her as a reward for being a good girl and giving me what I asked for. (don't want to dunk her in soapy water, washing comes last)


Whaaat tha!?!
Your like a evil hugh hefner hahaha.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 4:37:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Having my slave(s) kneeling with towels for Master is a ritual I like to uphold.

In my old house, I had an over sized walk in shower, the girls showered at 10:30 pm. To reinforce their bond, they would groom each other and got a 'hall pass' to have sex in the shower and orgasm without asking permission.

In my house a Master's bath is not a daily ritual but it is a nice when you have time for a lengthy ritual. The slave(s) prepares the bath with salts and oils. The bathroom is adorned with scented candles. The slave(s) disrobes me, scrubs me with salts, washes me thoroughly and dries me. Then a massage with oils and when my body is completely relaxed, sexual service fit for king. It's all about making Master's mind and body feel great.

In my house a slave's bath can be an exercise in trust, with a little fear. Your basic scare-o-gasm. She is hog tied face down in a filled tub. I am holding her head above water as I talk to her and get her very sexually excited. I grab her hair and dunk her a few times while explaining how I cherish having her very life in my hands. I'll pull her face to mine, slide my fingers inside her and in my deepest domly voice tell her I have her sex in one hand and her life in the other. Then after sufficient build up, I tell her now I want her cum too. I explain I want her to give me her cum while I hold her under water and that I won't let her up until she orgasms. I really want her sex while her life hangs in the balance, but I reassure her with "don't worry baby, if you fail, I know CPR". I tell this story much better when explaining it from her perspective, the hypoxia, pussy throbbing, lungs heaving etc. But this thread is about ritual so I leave the erotic details to your own imagination and stick to the ritual. When she completes her mission and cums (never drowned one yet) she is given the appropriate 'good girl' speech and I wash her as a reward for being a good girl and giving me what I asked for. (don't want to dunk her in soapy water, washing comes last)

That post reassures me that I am a wimp! But, I bet it is one helluva orgasm for unwimp types-;lol.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 5:04:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Every day my Master and I shower together. I always scrub his back for him, and sometimes wash his hair (not every time, but when he wants it.) Also, something silly I did to him once for fun--splashing/rubbing suds on him from when I was washing my hair--has also become a ritual somehow. It's just a nice and intimate bonding ritual between us, not really necessarily anything with power dynamic implications to it.

We also take baths together, but not very often--just when we have a lot of time to relax. This isn't really a D/s or M/s thing either, it is just us being close and taking some time to talk and let each other know how much we appreciate each other. I sit between his legs and he pets me and it's very soothing.

We also give each other haircuts. He tells me how he wants his done, and he cuts mine to the way he likes it (although he really only knows how to do just that one cut on me that is his preference.) I love cutting his hair and grooming him. It's very soothing for both of us and puts me in a good head space.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 5:43:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
....<bath rituals etc>...

That post reassures me that I am a wimp! But, I bet it is one helluva orgasm for unwimp types-;lol.


If not trusting others with your life makes you a wimp, I am the biggest wimp of all. I have to get a little tipsy to get on a commercial air flight because the pilot is control of my destiny. No no no, I don't think you're a wimp. There are no big pain issues in any of that. It's more about trust, as in trusting your life in someone else's hands. Some people like to negotiate area's of comfort which is fine. Some who are comfortable giving trust just haven't met the right partner to extend that trust to.

Dunking is considered edge play by some because fuck ups can be fatal. However, the experience itself, the physical sensations of being immersed in warm water and sexually stimulated at the same time isn't really edgy at all.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 5:48:57 PM   
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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:31:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, yes. One of the best things about My morning with My last partner was our morning ritual which included him acting as a shower attendant.

Fortunately I do have a large, accommodating shower with a seat in each the wall corner.

He would wash and condition My hair, wash My body to My standards, shave Me, and be quick to give any sexual service I might be in the mood for. Depending on My mood I would join in washing him or sit and watch him finish his shower. After he would dry Me as I ran through things that needed done, attended to, errands and such.

Never a long, drawn out thing. Always intimate but not always sexual.

I often work long hours so the morning ritual, which the shower was only a small part of, was essential to our dynamic and kept our relationship strong. Especially considering that those few hours spent together may well be our only couple or D/s time that day.

The weekends were for the bathtub since we had much more time to linger.




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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 6:49:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

She cuts my hair, and trims my sideburns, and lays out a towel for me; but like Oside girl, our shower isn't big enough for 2 comfortably.

In my dream house, the tub will have a seat for me to sit while she bathes me.


We're redoing the entire house, but unfortunately with the way the house is laid out, the only way to make the bathrooms bigger would be to lose a bedroom, which knocks the value of the house way down. (We live a neighborhood where everything is 4 bedroom or larger)

That said, we are planning to put a towel warmer in the Master bath, so he'll have nice toasty towels when he gets out. I think we're going to add a foot in width which should ease the crowding issue a little bit.


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