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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/23/2012 8:09:31 PM   
MalcolmNathaniel


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Yes.

Well, when I had a relationship.

Sometimes I bathe her, sometimes she bathes me. The main difference was that when I bathed her she was always bound, usually wrists in front, although sometimes behind the back.. When I shaved her armpits I would tie her ankles together first and then release her wrists. Another thing was that if I decided that the, um, topiary work, should be different that was now the way she was expected to keep it. Until I changed my mind again.

When she bathed me, I made her shave my face. If she wasn't careful and cut me then I invoked my right to shove her head under the water a-la ResidentSadist.

This was not for everyday play. It takes way too long to do this properly when you've got to be at work in 20 minutes.

The Master's bath was when I felt like it. The slaves bath was only for when she had been a very good girl.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/24/2012 4:28:10 AM   
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Residentsadist

Your scary!

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/24/2012 8:03:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Whenready

So why not go with him to the barber's and YOU do the wash?


Heh, I never thought of that. We wouldn't do that though because we don't like to be a spectacle for others to look at and wonder what the heck we're doing. Plus, it would deprive me of the fun of me teasing him later if he got the hairdresser with the very large pillowy chest who cradles his head there while she dries him off. It's funny to hear him talk about it because he gets squirmy and uncomfortable. He knows she has to know that his head is all over her breasts and either she doesn't care, or is doing it on purpose- we like to chuckle and figure out which it is. Plus then when he goes I get to act all affronted afterwards, call her a wench, and pretend I'm mad.
Yeah, way too much fun, we'll keep it as it is, but thanks for the idea

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/24/2012 12:06:58 PM   
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No bathing practices or rituals but I can only use white towels.

Because I'm so pure n angelic.

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/24/2012 1:51:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
. . . That said, we are planning to put a towel warmer in the Master bath, so he'll have nice toasty towels when he gets out . . .


The only towel warmers I ever had were named debbie, donna etc. Jesus, I feel like an amateur. That summer I spent 90 days on sabbatical as a bachelor, swearing I would learn to live alone, I could have had a towel warmer. I lived like an uncivil barbarian without decent towel service that entire time because I refused to let a slave live with me. The retrospective pain is killing me. Where were you and your towel warmers then? I gladly would have shelled out the bucks for a robo-slave to warm my towels and hold them patiently for me while awaiting the completion of my shower. I feel cheap, dirty and low class. I may never recover.



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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/24/2012 3:37:35 PM   
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That summer I spent 90 days on sabbatical as a bachelor, swearing I would learn to live alone, I could have had a towel warmer. I lived like an uncivil barbarian



My poor husband had an experience of life without me. Sadly it was because I was in the hospital for 3 weeks so it was not really a fair trial run life without me. I found out later he was terrified I would die. But anyways the man is incapable of taking care of himself. I had to be out late one night and asked him if he wanted me to make dinner. He assured me he would find something. I got home and he had eaten a cinnamon roll and Doritos. < shaking head with an eyeroll>

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RE: D/s M/s Bathing habits? - 6/25/2012 1:21:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Having my slave(s) kneeling with towels for Master is a ritual I like to uphold.

In my old house, I had an over sized walk in shower, the girls showered at 10:30 pm. To reinforce their bond, they would groom each other and got a 'hall pass' to have sex in the shower and orgasm without asking permission.

In my house a Master's bath is not a daily ritual but it is a nice when you have time for a lengthy ritual. The slave(s) prepares the bath with salts and oils. The bathroom is adorned with scented candles. The slave(s) disrobes me, scrubs me with salts, washes me thoroughly and dries me. Then a massage with oils and when my body is completely relaxed, sexual service fit for king. It's all about making Master's mind and body feel great.

In my house a slave's bath can be an exercise in trust, with a little fear. Your basic scare-o-gasm. She is hog tied face down in a filled tub. I am holding her head above water as I talk to her and get her very sexually excited. I grab her hair and dunk her a few times while explaining how I cherish having her very life in my hands. I'll pull her face to mine, slide my fingers inside her and in my deepest domly voice tell her I have her sex in one hand and her life in the other. Then after sufficient build up, I tell her now I want her cum too. I explain I want her to give me her cum while I hold her under water and that I won't let her up until she orgasms. I really want her sex while her life hangs in the balance, but I reassure her with "don't worry baby, if you fail, I know CPR". I tell this story much better when explaining it from her perspective, the hypoxia, pussy throbbing, lungs heaving etc. But this thread is about ritual so I leave the erotic details to your own imagination and stick to the ritual. When she completes her mission and cums (never drowned one yet) she is given the appropriate 'good girl' speech and I wash her as a reward for being a good girl and giving me what I asked for. (don't want to dunk her in soapy water, washing comes last)



Copy, paste... "Master, master please please will you do this to me" :P I got a "I'll see" reply, very excited, thank you :)

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