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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/28/2012 7:45:57 PM

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yeah well....see what I just added....you'll probably hate me now.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/28/2012 7:50:31 PM

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/28/2012 8:19:57 PM

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I agree with the friends thing, but girlfriend may have to chill on the not wanting to see a pro, there are compromises people have to make sometimes. I think the idea of paying someone to do these things is what puts her off more so that actually doing it. Either put in work or go the easy route..a pro.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/28/2012 10:41:32 PM

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Here is what you do: MAKE FRIENDS.

There ya go, hope that helped.

Best piece of advice here, that's one of the things we intended to do. We came here for advice about where to find like minded people because we figured everyone has to start somewhere.

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I've been with my girlfriend since she was 16, she was very inexperienced before I met her and she is quite often the shyest person I know. Recently she has been telling me about her fantasy of being dominated and trained to please a woman by another woman whilst I am forced to watch. How would one go about getting something like this happening? What advice do you have for couples like us? Any tips, pointers or things we should know? We're looking at trying to organize something like this in the next month or so and we'd love some advice from more seasoned members.

I'm afraid I am unable to help you....for two reasons:

1) You used the word "whilst". You are now ostracized from my Kingdom.

2) You have not provided any photos of your GF in her fantasy situation....(and frankly, whether or not she's actually achieved this goal is, to me, more than immaterial, photos are required for my discernment. You want my help....do what's required. A winner does what's needed to win).

1) What is wrong with the word whilst? lol

2) My girlfriend doesn't own any fantasy appropriate clothing, we're actually looking for stuff like that at the moment so we can get some nice pictures. We're also trying to decide whether or not at least a partial mask would be wise. At this stage we are looking for advice, rather than advertising our intentions because we want to go about things the right way.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/28/2012 10:43:28 PM

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Fantasy appropriate clothing? Charity shops are great.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/28/2012 11:53:46 PM

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Wow, the first 3 replies were guys. . So I went through the rest of the responses...
Honestly, I'm both a Domina and a photographer whose tastes run to teaching novices, getting them into the kink community and directing calibration sessions. For Me, making good people's lives better by allowing them to experience part of My Dimension is what works.
Since My admitted fetish IS Art Photography, it's all gravy; I don't care about head shots since My ulterior motive is simply great intense shots - reference for My Paintings.
So OP, your fantasy can come true, I'm sure there's others with interests that are in synch with yours -be patient, gather your outfits and widen your horizons!

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 12:34:28 AM

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Wow, the first 3 replies were guys. . So I went through the rest of the responses...
Honestly, I'm both a Domina and a photographer whose tastes run to teaching novices, getting them into the kink community and directing calibration sessions. For Me, making good people's lives better by allowing them to experience part of My Dimension is what works.
Since My admitted fetish IS Art Photography, it's all gravy; I don't care about head shots since My ulterior motive is simply great intense shots - reference for My Paintings.
So OP, your fantasy can come true, I'm sure there's others with interests that are in synch with yours -be patient, gather your outfits and widen your horizons!

Always the Lady ~Always Wikked

This sort of feedback is encouraging, we don't want to impose on anyone or expect special privileges. I'm sorry if we came across that way to anyone, learning etiquette and social norms is part of joining any new community.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 3:59:04 PM

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I don't know what BDSM clubs are like elsewhere, but here in the UK the OPs desires, and that of his partner, would probably get satisfied at such a club. Group sex things are all the rage . . . so long as you're prepared for something that may well be very superficial and short-lived. NOT munches, though, I have to say. Here, those are very staid and sober affairs.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 4:02:53 PM

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I am intrigued. So my local pal who wants the live man on man pr0n should be travelling?

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 4:13:06 PM

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Once when I pro-subbed I had a couple that wanted nothing from me other than for me to watch them while they played with each other in the dungeon. They were sweet.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 5:46:10 PM

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I am intrigued. So my local pal who wants the live man on man pr0n should be travelling?

There were some very interesting live shows at NE3.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 5:48:57 PM

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You know, those shows never interested me all that much! I am super picky about my entertainments.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 6:12:41 PM

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Of course. Still, whether such things will be permitted at an event anymore is a crap shoot. Some dungeons will allow live sex and others won't. At this particular venue, it was very much like events that allowed certain types of play that you won't see in many other places. One of the advantages of not being in hotel conference space.

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RE: Girlfriend wants to be dominated by an older woman. - 6/29/2012 6:15:17 PM

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It's true, I am SO tired of the rules of vanilla spaces at cons.

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