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anal play - 6/7/2006 9:04:02 PM   
noblesseoblige


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How long does it take to be able to fist some one?
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RE: anal play - 6/7/2006 9:11:01 PM   
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I think that would depend on your patience and your partner.  Your level of skill and his/her level of pain tolerance, being able to relax and how much they can 'take' there..I'm sorry there is no definite answer here that I can give you..where is LA when we need her?

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RE: anal play - 6/8/2006 12:40:20 AM   
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Forget fisting, I saw a buttplug the last trip to the toystore that almost made me pass out laughing.  It was...monstrous.  Aparently, people do use these anally, a fist would feel like a gentle breeze for these people methinks

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RE: anal play - 6/8/2006 4:43:24 AM   
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it takes exactly 32 seconds, but you gotta hold her down really tight... <G>

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RE: anal play - 6/8/2006 6:06:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: desertdancer
I think that would depend on your patience and your partner.  Your level of skill and his/her level of pain tolerance, being able to relax and how much they can 'take' there..I'm sorry there is no definite answer here that I can give you..where is LA when we need her?

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Somewhere else :)

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RE: anal play - 6/8/2006 6:15:27 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: desertdancer

I think that would depend on your patience and your partner.  Your level of skill and his/her level of pain tolerance, being able to relax and how much they can 'take'


i agree here iv never tried it but i think anything else it would take time and patience.

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RE: anal play - 6/9/2006 8:02:46 AM   
zoey22


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I know I'm a bit young to speak on this (!) and I feel quite embarassed doing so, but: I think the first post should have come last! My first proper dom was very anally obssessed (!) but I think most doms are, as this seems to be a sort of taboo for them to break meaning that they feel greater pleasure and control if they have a female sub in particular who can engage in such activity. So even though fisting a girl anally can seem preposterous to some, it is possible even though this is practiced mostly in a gay-environment from what I know. But it depends on loads of factors, primarily on trust, patience and how much a sub is willing to indulge, limits and of course hygiene, absolutely (ALWAYS use enemas for any sort of anal activity + a good deal of decent lube!!). In short, it takes absolute ages to get a female especially (owing to the female anatomy) to be able to stretch that wide! I would say that trust and familiarity as well as good 'chemistry' between two partners play a crucial role, as well as of course how liberal they are and what limits they are willing to set or break. Personally, the most exciting thing in this lifestlye has been the challenge to break barriers and think farther. Perhaps it's just my revolutionary spirit which I've had since young. Hope this helps in some strange way!! z.

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RE: anal play - 6/9/2006 8:25:20 AM   
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Although I don't indulge in anal play I do know a bit about it.  Everyone is different, but for most people it takes about three months if your dilegent and stick to the regiment of working on it about everyother day.  A couple tips, use a plug that doesn't taper much so it actually stretches your sphincter.  And use a really good lube, Crisco (yep the kitchen stuff ) works great.  I'd get a seperate tub for this though lol.  It comes off of you with just a little shampoo and water (sounds strange I know).  Theres a great website at www.puckerup.com  Good Luck.

Jane

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RE: anal play - 6/9/2006 8:27:15 AM   
Jane2376


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Let me amend my first statement lol, I misspoke, rather mistyped.  I do indulge in anal play, just not that facet of anal play.  Sorry about that :)

Jane

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