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GreedyTop -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 10:41:46 AM)

~FR~ someone is quite full of themself *gasp*



LadyPact -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 10:49:07 AM)

I'd have to agree there, GT.

Amount of time in the lifestyle doesn't automatically make someone right during a difference of opinion.



GreedyTop -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 10:54:29 AM)

*tacklehugs LadyP even if she DOESN'T answer her phone* *grins*

hope you, MrP and clip are all well!!




kalikshama -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 11:36:55 AM)

It never even occurred to me to mention my 15 years, although perhaps I need to subtract 3 for my ashram stint.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 11:46:43 AM)

More than 20 for me... and I'm a CPA so that is bonus years, amirite? But subtract for not being able to... well, never mind, I can do a lot of stuff.

Uberfemme Hib



GreedyTop -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 11:50:34 AM)

c'mere and prove it, Hibbie!! Scritchies to Jeddie!!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:06:13 PM)

I KNOW STUFF!! I can fix toilets, wire light switches, change flat tires, patch drywall...I don't unless I have to, but household emergencies are under control!

Yeah, it's good to be the Hibster. Kind of.



GreedyTop -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:10:42 PM)

can ya make my place level so that cat toys don't roll downwards to the bedroom?

even if ya cant- see what I did, there? LMAO!!, I'll love you always!!

(edited to correct a word for accuracy)



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:15:40 PM)

~loves my Greedy~ and probably, but let's just pay Simon to do it, mmkay?



GreedyTop -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:19:20 PM)

pay or take it in trade?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:26:10 PM)

Hm. Well, he doesn't eat much... all we'd need is lots of white wine, and good lighting for night work. How late is Lowe's open?



GreedyTop -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:30:26 PM)

hey, I don't have a lowes here, but I DO have a 24 hr walmart. and I have shitloads of candles! we can make this work.



DesFIP -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 12:56:51 PM)

The other reason people keep monies separate is if they have children from another partner. If we married and I predeceased him, then the assets would pass to him and then his kids, not mine. And that's wrong. As wrong as if he died first and I inherited the monies that should go to his kids.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 1:02:00 PM)

Exactly, Des. REAL LIFE, people!



littlewonder -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 1:35:00 PM)

Master risks my life all the time but again I trust him completely. I have no reason to do otherwise.

And I only have one child not from him and she's an adult. I have already discussed with both my kid and Him that if I was to die before them, they would both make sure to take care of each other financially with my desires in my Will. I trust both of them that they will do exactly that. They both have not given me reason to doubt them. Both are extremely responsible people. I've been so very lucky to have such people in m life.

I also made sure that when I chose him as my Master and partner in life that he had all the important qualities I was seeking which included a decent credit score and very good with finances which he is. So for me they are one and the same. I wanted someone I could trust with everything, not just when we are playing. To trust him with my life means to trust him with anything and absolutely everything.

If while getting to know him I found out that I couldn't I would have moved on very quickly. Six years and I'm not dead or broke and I think we have had maybe one or two arguments that were over faster than they started lol. Neither one was about trust or money, more like a miscommunication both times.



littlewonder -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 1:41:33 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I KNOW STUFF!! I can fix toilets, wire light switches, change flat tires, patch drywall...I don't unless I have to, but household emergencies are under control!

Yeah, it's good to be the Hibster. Kind of.


LOL....I tease Master because I know how to do more household fix its than he does. Give him a drill and the only thing he'll know what to do with it is how to torment me. Never ever hand him a drill!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 1:44:59 PM)

POWER TOOLS!! ~bouncing~



ARIES83 -> RE: Money & Doming (7/4/2012 3:49:03 PM)

It's strange that so many people equate
a partner having financial control with
giving all their money away to him, that's
not how it works for me at all.

I agree that its a major trust hurdle, no
Point developing a relationship down that
Road unless he is good with money and
is honest and mature to a fault, like me!
(most of the time..)

But I also say that there is an added
dimension to submission that giving up
control of money brings, I liken it to
getting in a car with your Dom and going
for a drive, you only get into it with the
understanding you will be getting back out
safely, but you can enjoy the scenery more
when your not concentrating on the road.

The getting out safely part for me is being
sure that even in the event we break up, she
is still looked after and gets back out, atleast
what she has put in.

-ARIES



Greta75 -> RE: Money & Doming (8/12/2012 6:01:57 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressBDSMl

The sub/slave has to trust the Dom/Domme with $ but I think most subs/slaves don't have that kind of trust. If your going to trust them to keep you safe during play why would it be harder to trust them with $?  Is money worth more to you then your life?  Just my opinion.

Technically..., you need money to stay alive. In terms of in the event of expensive medical care.



Greta75 -> RE: Money & Doming (8/12/2012 6:04:23 AM)

I would definitely have issues about someone telling how I can or cannot spend my own money though.
It must be awful, after all the hard work, you can't do what you want with it.
Financial Freedom is a tough thing to give up.
Unless I know it's a dom who is gonna be generous in dishing out to me my money and not gonna get a kick out of depriving me of it.



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