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how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 3:14:51 PM   
nokaoisub


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Status: offline 		I know it's a silly question but being a new sub I was wondering if anyone could help me out.I 'very been with my don for about 7 months now I'm sure he is happy with me but I was just curious to hear some opinions of other subs and. Doms
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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 3:22:21 PM   
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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 3:22:55 PM   
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how can I make my dom happy??


Do what he says? Greet him at the door with a beer n blow job? Wash his car nekkid?

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 3:24:18 PM   
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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 3:32:45 PM   
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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 3:45:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: poise

You can always go over to his thread and ask him directly.




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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:07:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: poise

You can always go over to his thread and ask him directly.



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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:12:51 PM   
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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:16:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

add me to the list of those that agree with Poise.


Ditto.

And if you have the lists out... could you pop me on the one that has the names of the people who'd like to twang her stockings too?

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:17:35 PM   
GreedyTop


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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:18:14 PM   
littlewonder


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Imo, if you have to ask this then you haven't been together long enough to know each other. If that's the case, get to know each other and stop wondering what will make him happy. I'm sure he'll be more than willing to let you know.


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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:21:31 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Yup GT, I can see how that list might create some technical problems.

<big hug by the way... >

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:27:17 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		To the OP..

Littlewonder's advice is also really good.

If you've managed for 7 months I'm guessing you've nailed the bare minimum "Do not disappoint" and you're probably all over the next one which is "surprise and delight".

One of the only bits of relationship advice I'll ever give is .... don't forget surprise and delight. Don't go nuts trying to make every day christmas, but once in a while set out to really delight your partner.

I'd also add that, while this may not be at all true in other people's dynamics, I also feel a responsibility to add surprise and delight to the relationship.

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:28:11 PM   
GreedyTop


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(and ML?? *biggest hugs*)

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:33:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crazyml
And if you have the lists out... could you pop me on the one that has the names of the
people who'd like to twang her stockings too?

This may be slightly off topic, but I am having the hardest time stifling the desire to yell
Macaroon!!!

Aahhh, I feel better already. Carry on please!

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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:37:07 PM   
crazyml


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I fucking love you
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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:40:55 PM   
GreedyTop


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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:45:48 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I like the surprise and delight bit and it's spot on.

We both sometimes get caught up in everyday life sometimes but we both try to make a point and do that with each other from time to time just to say "I know I've been busy lately but I haven't forgotten about you".

It's a nice gesture to remind each other.


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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:49:20 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Hey GT, I have a LOT of love to give baby.

[ETA - and I'm pretty sure I'm already on the list of people that would like to twang your combats ;-)]


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RE: how can I make my dom happy?? - 7/2/2012 4:51:45 PM   
GreedyTop


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(I have missed you....)

ETA: my BDUs are yours, sexy ;O)

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