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The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 1:33:38 PM   
RemoteUser


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Status: offline 		I stay away from the "Worst Dom" thread because I know I'll get caught up in the toxicity.

Here's a positive alternative. What do you consider the best qualities in a person you consider a dominant figure?

If you want to share why you feel those qualities are the best, bonus. It certainly goes a long way towards creating conversation.


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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 1:54:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Down to earth and lacking arrogance. Be able to manage his own affairs and allow me the freedom to manage mine. Doesn't smother me nor expect me to smother him. Have good sense and not have irrational expectations of me, or the relationship. Doesn't expect me to chase him but be aware of when I am slowing down so he can catch me. Be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. Be good at what he says he is good at and not claim to be good at things he has no clue about. Be reasonably honest.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 2:06:02 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		A dominant personality...not just during a role but always, with everything.
Honesty
Integrity
Intelligent
Knows how to lead
Controls his own life, such as his finances, his fitness, his health, his attitude, etc...
Down to earth
Hard to anger
Spiritual
Successful and I don't mean monetarily or career
Caring
Firm
Knows how to love and shows it willingly

I'm sure I can think of a ton of other qualities but that's just the ones off the top of my head that are qualities I need in a man.


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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 2:13:11 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I've been lucky. The three men that I've been in committed D/s relationships are all really great guys. It's really hard to say everything.

Intelligence
A twisted sense of humor
They don't take themselves too seriously
Trustworthy
Straight forward
caring
attentive
Can hold a conversation
common sense
Good in bed
Love animals
believe in giving and giving back
mentally strong
naturally an alpha



There's so much more that I can't even list them all.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 2:54:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am attracted to a great smile, an upbeat attitude, and a great sense of humor. I like happy people and happy people have those qualities.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 3:07:16 PM   
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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 3:32:54 PM   
slaveluci


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Status: offline 		Just a short list off the top of my head of some of Master's best qualities:

good sense of humor
well read
compassionate
liberal-minded with views that match mine
hard worker/good work ethic
animal lover
giving
not afraid to serve me and others
not arrogant or insecure
music lover/into going to concerts
into trying new things

And that's just the tip of the iceberg

luci

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 7:39:51 PM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Humour.

Im a strong and independent guy, but I also
have men around me I respect and sometimes
work for, humour is a great personality trait,
Especially when engendering trust and loyalty.

Also a fast wit is non-arrogant way of demonstrating
intelligence.

-ARIES

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 8:28:48 PM   
Winterapple


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Status: offline 		Yes, a fast wit is a great thing to possess.
I think of Noel Coward whenever I see your
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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 8:31:54 PM   
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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 9:03:45 PM   
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Honesty.

Anything else I'd prefer comes after that.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 9:17:11 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		I think my best qualities are my patience and ability to solve rubix cubes.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/4/2012 11:01:43 PM   
myotherself


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honesty
intelligence
twisted sense of humour
integrity
consistency
'natural' leadership (by my own personal definition, natch)
a sadist who embraces this as a positive part of his personality

Anything else is a bonus!

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 1:45:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Off the top of my head, some of my Master's best qualities are:

Assertiveness.
Good leadership skills (both with me and in general.)
Compassion/caring
Ambition.
Dedication.
Integrity.
Inner strength.
Positive attitude and outlook on life (optimistic.)
Trustworthiness.
Affectionate.
Straight-forward.

The list goes on, but those are a few.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 7:33:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser
What do you consider the best qualities in a person you consider a dominant figure?



That's easy. Intelligence and creativity are the top qualities that I look for.

The most important sex organ that we have is between our ears, not between our legs. So someone who understands the mental aspects of D/s, and who can use a sub's own psyche against him/her, will rank high on my list.

I've met lots of hot young Dommes with beautiful bodies and the faces of angels over the years. But the best Domme I ever met was in her mid-50's, overweight, and only had average looks. But she had a creative mind and years of experience to draw from. She could create scenes that hit a sub in exactly the right places. When it came to the proverbial "mind fuck", she had a PhD in it. I'd take her creativity over youthful beauty anytime.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 8:40:03 AM   
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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 9:40:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Intelligence, a sense of humor, an ability to forgive and a clear idea what they want.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 9:44:27 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RaspberryLemon

Off the top of my head, some of my Master's best qualities are:

Assertiveness.
Good leadership skills (both with me and in general.)
Compassion/caring
Ambition.
Dedication.
Integrity.
Inner strength.
Positive attitude and outlook on life (optimistic.)
Trustworthiness.
Affectionate.
Straight-forward.

The list goes on, but those are a few.



^^^ this!

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 9:58:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser

What do you consider the best qualities in a person you consider a dominant figure?



Someone who knows himself completely, knows exactly what he wants, and has a plan by which to achieve his goals. Wrap that up in intelligence, wit, a commanding sense of presence, and style...le sigh and yum.

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RE: The Best Qualities - 7/5/2012 11:39:12 AM   
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Intelligence
Honesty
Communicative
Patient
Easy going
Character
Likes women
Adores me
Creative
Listens
Affectionate
Flexible
Secure
Similar sense of humor
Kind
Curious
Passionate
Loyal
Supportive

(to address Kana's comment about having a huge cock...yeah, that is cool but without any of the above, eh.)

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