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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

I found this on the net somewhere, can't
remember where.
I think the person said its from a actual guide
for new wives in the 1950's or something similar.
I can just picture them handing this type of stuff
out to girls in school after baking class haha.

-ARIES

"THE GOOD WIFE'S GUIDE"

1. Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a 
delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting 
him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his 
needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a 
good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed 
when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be 
fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

3. Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

4. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of 
the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the 
table.

5. During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a 
fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven 
of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering 
to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

6. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise 
of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.

7. Be happy to see him.

8. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

9. Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, 
but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - 
remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

10. Don't greet him with complaints and problems.

11. Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all 
night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through 
at work.

12. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or 
lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

13. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

14. Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment 
or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will 
always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no 
right to question him.

15. A good wife always knows her place. 

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I love threads like this.

I truly look forward to seeing replies from pessimistic man-haters with a chip on their shoulder. Women that carry their pain from some past experience, seeing them cling to bad emotional luggage like a traveler in an airport baggage claim turns me on. It's the scent of their pain that hypnotizes me like a fish staring at a shiny lure. Their lost little girl foot stamping tirades are like chum in the water for this sadistic ol' shark and I look forward to seeing the content of the OP berated in as many silly ways as possible. . . . . er . . . I mean, I truly respect independent thinking liberal women and look forward to them sharing their modern views on the antiquated concepts in the OP.

Today I started the day like a king. I woke to the the sexual affections of my girl, then I asked, "have you had your spankings yet today?" . . . she cooked breakfast while I cleared out the cross and BDSM gear from last night's needles play and she is doing dishes as I write this. In a few minutes I am going to put her in the shower and wash that girl spanky clean. I love the OP and firmly believe that if you want your partner to hold their place in a relationship, you should hold yours.

A good wife always knows her place and . . . Women: Know Your Limits!

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ORIGINAL: bandg5

First time post on this site
My relationship with my sub is a " Taken in hand" approach.
I do like to 50's style but know its not reality in today's culture.
I strongly believe that both men and women or in today's culture Dom and Sub
Have a strong part to carry out for a strong relationship.
A real Dom is really the care taker of the sub and is a lot more work than people think.
I am not only to provide financial support but find ways to keep the relationship On a positive course.
It means thinking if new ideas and ways to increase the bond with your sub and the most important be
Consistent ! A true sub should just be a reaction from the Doms actions.If both the Dom and sub create actions then
Who is to react ?

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ORIGINAL: bandg5
I believe that more marriages Would last if more women And men understood each role. ( to bad we are not mArried)

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I believe that more marriages Would last if more women And men understood each role. ( to bad we are not mArried)

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I believe more marriages would last if more people understood that a relationship takes effort, communication and honesty.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I believe more marriages would last if more people understood that a relationship takes effort, communication and honesty.

I see some men being drawn to the role of Dom or Master because they think it means they can stop putting in the effort - silly them.

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ORIGINAL: bandg5

I agree that communication and honesty are first and foremost in any
Relationship, but in a true d/s relationship communication and honesty should not
Be as much of an issue because both people have committed to function within his or her perspective
Role. I hide nothing from my sub and communicate more than she can handle. I want to be her best friend and support system and
Have no reason to hide anything. If I need or want anything sexual she will do! If she needs I will provide if it is within my means.