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What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on men? - 7/7/2012 8:50:15 PM   
another1harder


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Status: offline 		What enjoyment do women get using a strap on on men? Is it humiliating the man? How does it make you feel?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/7/2012 8:52:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Before anyone else answers this question, I strongly encourage you to read the FAQ. It contains a wealth of information that will be of great value to you. You will also find the answer to your question there.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/7/2012 9:46:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't tell you what "women" enjoy about it. I only know what I personally enjoy about it. That, however, is none of your beeswax since we are not in a dynamic together.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/7/2012 10:02:17 PM   
obedientangel


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Status: offline 		This has been done to death and fairly recently too. Try using the search function. Sorry dude, no wank fodder for you!

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/7/2012 10:46:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

I can't tell you what "women" enjoy about it. I only know what I personally enjoy about it. That, however, is none of your beeswax since we are not in a dynamic together.

NBMG


I had to laugh when I read your answer. I wrote a similar answer to a question on Fetlife a few weeks ago. While I will often give a general answer, my personal private sex life is not up for a public discussion with an online stranger.


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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/7/2012 11:08:42 PM   
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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/7/2012 11:13:43 PM   
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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 1:54:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: another1harder

What enjoyment do women get using a strap on on men? Is it humiliating the man? How does it make you feel?


Part of me wants to, as I have always enjoyed anal play. But...I look RIDICULOUS wearing one and cannot get over the ROFLMAO factor enough to find out if I enjoy it. From what I do already I can tell you that making him "MY bitch" has nothing to do with humiliation for either of us.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 2:13:43 PM   
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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 2:38:53 PM   
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I enjoy hitting stupid people with it.

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< Message edited by ProlificNeeds -- 7/8/2012 2:39:12 PM >

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 2:57:02 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I don't want this to come across as discouraging other people who want to give a more detailed response, but this is My honest opinion.

I'm not really big on answering questions that are related to My sex life by people that I don't know. Strangers asking about what goes on in My bedroom or between My legs aren't very popular with Me.

My real suggestion to you is to be involved with a female who is willing to engage in this kind of play with you and ask the questions of her. The person that you have that level of intimacy with is the person who's opinions on the matter are the ones that will have the significance. I mean, you wouldn't ask women you didn't know on the street about their sex lives. It doesn't go over well when you do it on the net, either.



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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 4:28:38 PM   
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Yeah, you're not going to be getting an answer from me either - I don't know you like that.

But I have a question for you. What does fucking my boy's ass have to do with humiliation? Why should he be humiliated at taking part in an activity we both enjoy?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 6:06:56 PM   
SnowRanger


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Hello Another1,

If this is just a wank-fodder question do not hesitate to correct me; however, if this question is based on the, "The durn thing is just inert plastic." line of reasoning, I wondered that myself.

One Lady of my recent acquaintance explained it this way. She enjoyed my reactions. She did acknowledge that she recieved physical pleasure when things were properly aligned. She also mentioned a certain feeling of power. But, my reactions were what she enjoyed most.

Respectfully,
Mike
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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 6:37:54 PM   
another1harder


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Status: offline 		Asked because have seen mistress ads stating accpeting strap-ons are a requirement. So far I have seen humiliation, enjoying subs fear and anxiety, mind-fuck, pure dominant power, and training. Don't understand training, training the man to ______________?
BTW
Did check Search and FAQs before but apparently didn't spell "strap on" correctly. Should have searched for strap-on.


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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 6:43:44 PM   
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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 6:44:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

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HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

thanks, I needed that today :)

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 6:50:58 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Why do people who say that they refuse to answer bother to say that? Why don't they just not answer?


Because then the OP comes back to whine "why doesn't anyone respond to my thread?" and/or they start another identical thread or three. By stating they will not answer this type of intimate, personal question and why, other posters discourage both of the aforementioned results.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 7:02:42 PM   
Wickad


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The strap-on I use has insertables for me as well as a place to put a vibrating bullet against my clitoris. I'd say physical pleasure. Sometimes the most obvious answer is the most accurate.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 7:38:34 PM   
LadyPact


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Why do people who say that they refuse to answer bother to say that? Why don't they just not answer?

Along with the reasons that Syl mentioned, the truth of the matter is that some people don't realize that they are going to get a mixed reaction of whether people feel it is socially acceptable to be asking questions about other people's sex lives. Not everybody has the same social graces and there are times that they won't pick up on etiquette or acceptable behavior in a social setting.

Had a man that I didn't know asked the same question in a face to face setting, My language about how rude and inappropriate it is to make inquiries of this sort would have been a lot more colorful. The only reason they weren't here, very frankly, is because of the TOS on this site.

Please note that very few questions regarding sexual habits are asked of male Dominants. I happen to believe the female ones deserve the same respect.



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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/8/2012 7:46:18 PM   
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