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seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/11/2012 8:36:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist
I ask this question as I peruse through the dommes in my city that pique my interest and what I find is that all of the ones Ive seen are professional or financial Dominants. Now while I cant knock what the next person does I can say that I am at a lost for words on how disheartening it is for that to be so. I fancy myself a honest and true person , yet it is hard to find a Female Dominant when you dont have the money to allow them to control. I have many other uses both sexully and non sexually that I feel could be of major use. COuld anyone help me under stand this "phenomenon"
Yes, I can explain it.. But understand it is from my perspective. Which of course, is highly slanted toward my personal Experience.
1. Collar Me is a free site. There is no cost, or skin in the game, to post a profile here. So every voyeur does. So does every con artist … some of them convicted.
2. There are people who make money selling the "how to scam online" routine. Ten years ago there were trail blazers in this regard, now the scams are fairly ubiquitous, and not so unique. Some are even men, mascaraing as women; or a couple, with the woman making phone calls.
3. How to scam men, 101, teaches the easiest way is to pose as a Domme. Men will send money on the “tribute to prove you are sincere routine”. And when they realize the Domme is … collecting the money with nothing required, the man will not report it to the authorities, because he is afraid of his personal reputation.
Conclusion: never pay money unless You are meeting a Pro Domme in person. There ARE a few legit ones here. But they are hard to find among the cons and thieves. A good Pro Domme is a real Dominant Lady. One who as a child had Her Barbie, whipping Her ken doll! ROFL Hint: Good Pro's want to talk to you on the phone, before making a "date". (No tribute required!) And trust me on this, i HAVE met some of the "Most Renowned" in the Land! [;)]
Had to add .. i met a local Pro Domme a couple months ago. She met ME for DINNER at a nice restaurant. We had a great conversation, and of course, I declined a date for future "play", for reasons we need not post. But the point is ... it did not cost me anything, other than Dinner at a nice restaurant. And a few non Pro's I know, have have the same ... treat! [;)] Just a typical night out, is my best description.
Best conclusion though: Go to munches or other events. While I don’t frequent them, even Pro Dommes have told me at some, there are more Women than men. And THAT is a nice ratio that I would favor, as a single man! ROFL
Yet always treat a Domme You meet as a Lady. Be classy and ask about Her. Just as you would a vanilla girl. It will get you a LOT farther. :-)
Good luck!
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