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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Is this appropriate behavior from a male Dom? (7/12/2012 2:55:14 PM)
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ORIGINAL: GoddessxKitty
but then he asked me to turn on my cam. Thinking he simply wanted to verify my identity, I did, but then he began to ask very personal questions and complimenting me. To each question I responded "how is that relevant to my problem?" And each time this male Dom acted very huffy and condescending, saying that he was not "my plaything". When I resisted further attempts to probe into my personal life, he acted like I was the one with the problem, saying that he did not "find my manner very pleasing". I felt like this man was trying to take advantage of me, I've had enough experience with creeps to know when I am being solicited. Finally, the user who had been spreading rumors sent me a panicked email begging me not to go to the admins any more, apologizing for his "silly behavior". Then the Dom I was talking to on skype told me to "bow my head in thanks". I told him he had completely disrespected my boundaries, and that helping me with one problem did not give him licence to treat me like a potential new addition to his harem.
This is how those a lot of those online/cam Doms treat female submissives and he was treating you like one. It doesn't surprise me in the least. Also there are a number of male Doms out there that think ALL women should be subs, whether they are or not. And the online variety are famous for expecting instant submission.
Regardless of which side of the kneel you're on, you don't have to put up with that kind of disrespect. Way back when, I used to be submissive myself and had my share of those bullshitters contact me. After the first two or so, I didn't fall for their crap and they got all huffy and pissed and would take off. It was a case of good riddance to bad rubbish! haha
NBMG
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