perverseangelic
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ORIGINAL: rose442
how old are you? what lifestyle do you or I should say most of you live? I am an adult, 27 and a slave to Master Stoney442. The way of "Old Guard" and my Master is if you are a slave, there is protocol. A way to do it respectfully. And getting up and walking out the door is NOT the proper way to do it. And the OP did NOT give any details. Just asked a question. How does a slave leave a Master. Maybe she does live the lifestyle and does want to do it the way of the lifestyle and would like that advise. Or this girl would like advise as far as emotional support so that she may be able to approach her Master as she should.
And remember we have no story here. No background. Yes if she wants to do it the vanilla way then she can walk out the door. And not look back. BUT if she believes in the lifestyle, she will talk with her One and do it respectfully. And ask to be released.
There, that is my advise. And if you would like to talk secretstar, I would be glad to talk to you off of this board.
rose442
I agree with you, that this is one way, perhaps the proper way within a...hrm...traditional M/s relationship. There's no argument there at all.There are better ways of ending relationships, no matter what kind of relationship. It's better to talk to your partner, in a vanilla relationship and tell him/her you're leaving, and why your leaving. If one lives within a traditional M/s realtionship (sorry, best term I could come up with) the -better- way is to speak to your owner, and ask to be released from your collar. I could probably come up with analogies for other relationship structures as well.
I'm simply saying that we often get hung up on the protocals, and create extra, and unneeded drama. We make ending a relationship into something much more difficult than it is. Sure, there are better ways, but, at the end of the day, telling your SO you're leaving, or that the relationship isn't working for you, or that you aren't compatable anymore, works for kinky people just as well as it works for vanilla individuals.
You implied that someone who lives by a different set of protocals than you isn't being true to the "lifestyle." From my very limited knowledge of your relationship, it seems like a wonderful and structured way to live, but someone who chooses to end her relationship by taking her collar off and talking to her former partner has as much claim to having belong to him/her as someone who asks her former partner to release her.
< Message edited by perverseangelic -- 6/9/2006 3:14:44 PM >
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