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RE: Attached wanting single - 8/4/2012 11:46:22 PM

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Yes, it is common, his wife doesn't understand him, which is also quite common among people who get married work all the wrong reasons.

In short, he neglected to mention the fact he was a perverted freak before saying "I do", and saying it now will cost him dearly one way or the other - the solution to this quandary for you is: it's his problem, not yours.

You make your bed and you get to sleep in it, that's the facts.

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RE: Attached wanting single - 8/4/2012 11:48:48 PM

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I use to have a friend who was married and also had a Master . Her husband knew and was ok with ti . She loved both but the husband could not give her what she needed as she did for him so he let her have her Master . the same cam be said for a woman . She has a good man who pays all the bills but needs a sub to take care of her . As long as all are happy nothing wrong form what I see .

If there is an arrangement, ok, but it it seems sketchy at all, it is.

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RE: Attached wanting single - 8/5/2012 12:09:03 AM

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I can totally agree with the OP on this. I have thought about this myself as I have been approached by attached males. I'm thinking they may not fully understand the type of submission I'm offering. They aren't thinking of my needs/desires as a submissive woman.

I'm very submissive in personality. Always have been. But there are things I would do for the right man, that I wouldn't even contemplate doing for some part time guy. Also, as far as poly goes.. I've had offers and not to sound like a perve but my first thought is.. I have never met a man with enough dick to satisfy me + anyone else! If it's up I want it to be mine. Just my two cents :-p

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RE: Attached wanting single - 8/5/2012 4:04:08 AM

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i haven't read all the replies in this thread, but here's my take on cheating people.

if they don't have enough respect to be honest with their partner, whom they are supposed to love, how can they have enough respect for me to be honest with me?

i'm all for extra relationship play where all are consenting. however, i want to be enough for someone that they don't want anyone else. i also want to be thought enough of that that person is honest with me, and loyal. i am not going to get what i need from a cheat. even a playmate needs to have enough respect, and thought for me to be honest and loyal to their word. sadly it's something very hard to find. the principle of 'what she doesn't know won't hurt her' is something far too many use. the trouble is when they are found out it hurts like nothing else. why would i want to be a part of that hurt for someone else?

if i were to play with an attacted man i'd want his partner's permission in person first or it wouldn't be happening.

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RE: Attached wanting single - 8/5/2012 4:52:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

i haven't read all the replies in this thread, but here's my take on cheating people.

if they don't have enough respect to be honest with their partner, whom they are supposed to love, how can they have enough respect for me to be honest with me?

i'm all for extra relationship play where all are consenting. however, i want to be enough for someone that they don't want anyone else. i also want to be thought enough of that that person is honest with me, and loyal. i am not going to get what i need from a cheat. even a playmate needs to have enough respect, and thought for me to be honest and loyal to their word. sadly it's something very hard to find. the principle of 'what she doesn't know won't hurt her' is something far too many use. the trouble is when they are found out it hurts like nothing else. why would i want to be a part of that hurt for someone else?

if i were to play with an attacted man i'd want his partner's permission in person first or it wouldn't be happening.

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