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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I am not a masochist. When I bottomed, I sought out *intense* experiences, and in terms of what some term the "ordeal path", I still do. I have no endorphin reaction, and what others call subspace, I look at in confusion.

Try to reframe the pain in your mind as something else, heat, pressure, vibration, some other thing. Instead of "this hurts", think "this feels like____".

Many many people who engage in pain play are not masochists. They just *accept*. Endurance does come with practice, but you might only like it when it stops. That's okay, too.

Hope this helps.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What exactly are "fluffy" titties? Mine do not seem fluffy, just... firm, and rounded. More like a couple of baked Alaskas than piles of whipped cream, as it were.