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RE: Real motives or just fantasy? - 7/16/2012 10:13:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

What are you talking about? Used to people chatting about you? Without the media spinning something about you? Are you some kind of celebrity or something? Whats going on here?

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ORIGINAL: Dominantmusic

I am not trying to be mean here .. nor have I ever. But it seems that we have a very agressive and attacking community amongst us. That is cool though... I am happy with people chatting about me. After all, I am used to it anyway ... after all you can't have a lot of people waiting to see you in every city I go to without the media spinning something and getting a bad review somehow in some country. I welcome all your opinions :)

Great question...

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RE: Real motives or just fantasy? - 7/16/2012 10:16:12 PM

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Your pacing would be absolutely acceptable to me. Everything you said is reasonable. But if you are talking with someone a considerable distance away, meeting in person for coffee or a quick drink isn't always feasible. Oddly enough, most of the women I've been involved with involved crossing state lines. Not sure exactly why that is, but it just played out that way. I crossed half the country to meet my ex-wife and we were together 7 years. But like you, she moved to the phone fairly quickly.

I agree completely with your statement about lying and using fake photos, it is patently ridiculous, and my main profile pic was taken last weekend. I update them periodically so there is no mistaking what I look like for those who want to know.

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RE: Real motives or just fantasy? - 7/16/2012 10:18:03 PM

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Thank you. You're too kind.

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RE: Real motives or just fantasy? - 7/17/2012 6:40:53 PM

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lol well after reading this I would have to say that all the male subs that have messaged me are real. It seems like you would be a good sub for me to train actually. But since you want to Dom I'll pass.. All of the other people here have a lot more experience with bdsm than I do so I can't give any advice on that but reading your thread you seem unsure of what you want and I guess paranoid is a word you can use but ultimately you look like you have a sign on your head that says sucker. I'm an ex dancer and now a xxx cam model and there is so much dishonesty in my field that I bet you get alot of people thinking they can take your money. There are a lot of people very good at making you give it to them as well. I suggest you take it a little slower because you are ONLINE. Cyber is where people can fantasize about things and be whoever they want to be to get away from reality. Personally I have no need for that because I would rather live it but as I said earlier I make a good living off people who fantasize so I don't mind them at all. I would say I can refer the guys that want to be Dommed to you but they want a cuckhold type relationship. I'd just not let it get you down and keep it moving forward. Even the critics here shouldn't deter you from what you want to achieve. You don't have to prove yourself just be yourself!! Sorry didn't mean to write this long.

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RE: Real motives or just fantasy? - 7/17/2012 11:25:10 PM

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That is smart, henceforth the fact it is also smart if you think someone is fake to ask them to quickly take a snapshot off their phone or computer holding a paper that says something of my choice. See, I am not stupid either .. and I weeded out the fakes. Good job me. If they couldn't do that or they didn't understand the safety or precautionary measures behind my motives, and I again walk away being smarter and protected from liars and obvious manipulators.

I think you're making too big a deal of this. If you approach people as a human being, the fakes disappear pretty quickly. And plenty of real people will also disappear quickly when a stranger demands stuff of them, like sending some special photo.

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RE: Real motives or just fantasy? - 7/18/2012 5:10:13 AM

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I think you have the gut reaction for a reason and if you have it you move on. There are lots and lots of humans on this site far more than the people on a wind up mission.

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