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puppet11 -> Debate! (7/18/2012 3:39:53 PM)
Kinda Curious, it appears several people enjoy a good debate... I have a question then. What are you hear for? So many are quick to call out and attempt at humiliation and sharp tongue responses... hmmmm I am curious, why? Does anyone take into consideration the brand new Dom/sub who may be looking for direction? Open wide and let it go... waiting for the debate to begin... (hold up let me get my popcorn!)

OsideGirl -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:04:34 PM)
I'm blunt person with a degree in psychology specializing in relationship counseling and 20 years of experience in a large community. I've seen what works and what doesn't. What you assume to be an attempt at humiliation and sharp tongues are a bunch of people of people that believe in being straight forward and calling it like they see it.

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:11:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I'm blunt person with a degree in psychology specializing in relationship counseling and 20 years of experience in a large community. I've seen what works and what doesn't. What you assume to be an attempt at humiliation and sharp tongues are a bunch of people of people that believe in being straight forward and calling it like they see it. I suppose your educational backgroud is also the pedistal on which you are able to Speak for the masses... am I correct?

OsideGirl -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:13:20 PM)
I've never claimed to speak for the masses. That's your bias showing.

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:14:46 PM)
the way one sees it is one thing... i have been open to hearing others points of view however in my previous reply to you it could be viewed as more of a personal attack, right? ... this is the type of replies (throughout the forums i see) which have prompted my questions...

ARIES83 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:17:33 PM)
With the amount of shit that pumps through this forum, a lot of the people here have become snarky and nonchalant in their replies over time. So many fakes and freaks that eventually they have sarcasm as their default response. Don't take it personaly underneath I think most here are genuine and thoughtful people, you just gotta get past their bullshit filter. -ARIES

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:17:41 PM)
"*What you assume to be an attempt at humiliation and sharp tongues are a bunch of people of people that believe in being straight forward and calling it like they see it. "* Perhaps I stated that wrong you have identified who "everyone" is and what "everyone " believes in and how "everyone" sees it... right? or am i misquoting you?

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:19:56 PM)
Aries83... thank you... i find myself getting edgy in regard to some of it... i appreciate your calm in my attempt to start my own shit storm... i am gonna shut this down...

CalifChick -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:21:36 PM)
Where did she use the word "everyone'?

OsideGirl -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:22:30 PM)
I didn't say "everyone". I said "a bunch". So, apparently your goal here is to stir up crap. Seriously, if you don't like the tone of these forums, there are plenty of other sites. You're not going to accomplish anything by doing this and why bother to put yourself through the hassle of trying to force everyone else to change.

CalifChick -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:22:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: puppet11 i am gonna shut this down... How do you do that? Cali

LadyPact -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:23:50 PM)
I'll be very frank here. Yes, I enjoy the debates. I like understanding Myself and others better. People always hate it when I say thing, but frankly, I'm not here for you. My family and Myself always have the priority. When I connect with other people who are in the 301 class, I'm not settling for the 101. It may be some random remark that gets us going in discussion *THAT MOST OF THE TIME YOU'LL NEVER SEE". I'm not a servant. I'm actually rather selfish.

tameeks -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:24:12 PM)
Oh my

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:28:00 PM)
Sorry CalifChick, clarification... (everyone) was in reference to her exact words "...are a bunch of people...", "...people that believe..." and "...they see it..."

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:29:33 PM)
Well, at least it aint a findomme thread......

BitaTruble -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:29:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: puppet11 Kinda Curious, it appears several people enjoy a good debate... I have a question then. What are you hear for? Entertainment, education, sharing my personal experiences, reading stories. I'm actually not really here for debate. I'm more of a discussion sort of girl. quote: So many are quick to call out and attempt at humiliation and sharp tongue responses... hmmmm I am curious, why? I would guess it's mostly personal entertainment value for an individual poster. If such disturbs you, the PTB have thoughtfully provided you with the means to excise that sort of thing from your experience here. quote: Does anyone take into consideration the brand new Dom/sub who may be looking for direction? Yes, and often. You'll see it when you're ready I suppose.

LadyPact -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:31:56 PM)
Perhaps the Mods will forgive Me. I tend to identify with those folks who AREN'T brand new at this. If it's above "SM101" that people can research for themselves, I'm not doing it.

KnightofMists -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:33:25 PM)
I don't debate...I am right! It seems silly to debate when one is right!

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:33:33 PM)
:-) I will not change anyone... nor do I seek to... yes I am stirrin up shit... no more or less than anyone else and to be honest I thought no one would join in the stirrin process but O you surprized me... here you came in all your 20 years of relationship counseling glory riding your valiant stallion to the defense...Really? Oh My is right grab a bag of pop corn and pull up a chair... lets see how many egos will come out to play in this one... we got a couple of bites so far...

puppet11 -> RE: Debate! (7/18/2012 4:35:00 PM)
KnightsofMists... beautifully put... stand firm in your "I do not debate" in a thread entitled "Debate" LMAO!!!!

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