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kiwisub12 -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 7:21:47 AM)

I am so glad i was 19 in the '70s - mainly because dating for me equalled sex - and i would have hated to have had to worry about sexually transmitted diseases that could kill you - like the 19 year olds of today have to worry about.

I was fairly conservative for the time, but i have to say, i wouldn't have ever waited 8 months. I have to applaud your convictions, OP.

I dated local men, and they too, could go "poof" and vanish. Usually because they didn't want the final talk. And the older i got, the more i realised that the final talk really wasn't worth much. If the chemistry isn't there, then it isn't going to work. Simple as that - and chemistry has to work from BOTH sides, not just one.
So, OP, got out there, find men you have something with and give it another go. If it works, it works, if it doesn't - meh , there will be another coming along.



kalikshama -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 7:54:01 AM)

I've never seen the point of being willing to give blowjobs but not have intercourse for chastity reasons.



lizi -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 11:12:44 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

I've never seen the point of being willing to give blowjobs but not have intercourse for chastity reasons.


Heh, yeah, me too. Or when someone will do anal but nothing goes in the vag....eek! Really? Sexual contact is sexual contact. To me, someone holding out on genital intercourse but willing to do anything else, smacks of someone trying to get around technicalities like religious prohibitions or a marriage license. It just seems like a whimsical boundary that doesn't make a lot of sense when there's lots of sexual activity going on all over the place.



A50shadesOfGrey -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 2:45:38 PM)

How to put this gentle, It is you! Now it is you only because you are seeking a bad boy and that is what you got. A Boy that is Bad to his women. Now you say that is not what you were seeking? I say deep inside , yes you were. Do not confuse B&D and S&M with picking a louse of a boy friend with the life style you are seeking. There are lots of men out here who can fill your fantisies. But maybe you eliminate them before meeting them because of their hair color, eye color, size of their dick, who knows except you. I am not slamming you besure of that. Just a little wisdom with a wake up call from a new friend if want really want one. I have my second bed room set up for any lady who wants to explore her 50 shades of Grey . How about you ? Do you want to explore your lust with out the heart ache ?



LaTigresse -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 2:47:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: A50shadesOfGrey

How to put this gentle, It is you! Now it is you only because you are seeking a bad boy and that is what you got. A Boy that is Bad to his women. Now you say that is not what you were seeking? I say deep inside , yes you were. Do not confuse B&D and S&M with picking a louse of a boy friend with the life style you are seeking. There are lots of men out here who can fill your fantisies. But maybe you eliminate them before meeting them because of their hair color, eye color, size of their dick, who knows except you. I am not slamming you besure of that. Just a little wisdom with a wake up call from a new friend if want really want one. I have my second bed room set up for any lady who wants to explore her 50 shades of Grey . How about you ? Do you want to explore your lust with out the heart ache ?



Ohhhhhhhhhh.................good grief.

That's the best I've got without inviting gold love letters.



OsideGirl -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 2:53:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: A50shadesOfGrey

How to put this gentle, It is you! Now it is you only because you are seeking a bad boy and that is what you got. A Boy that is Bad to his women. Now you say that is not what you were seeking? I say deep inside , yes you were.
You have absolutely no way of knowing what she's looking for, plus she's a novice.

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Do not confuse B&D and S&M with picking a louse of a boy friend with the life style you are seeking. There are lots of men out here who can fill your fantisies. But maybe you eliminate them before meeting them because of their hair color, eye color, size of their dick, who knows except you.
And yet, you just tried to tell her what she's thinking.

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I am not slamming you besure of that. Just a little wisdom with a wake up call from a new friend if want really want one.
Translation: I'd really like you to think I'm your friend so I can hit on you. Wait for it....wait for it....

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I have my second bed room set up for any lady who wants to explore her 50 shades of Grey . How about you ? Do you want to explore your lust with out the heart ache ?


And there it is.


Treating the forums like a pick up joint is just tasteless. If you wish to hit on somebody, email them please.



searching4mysir -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 3:19:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: A50shadesOfGrey

How to put this gentle, It is you! Now it is you only because you are seeking a bad boy and that is what you got. A Boy that is Bad to his women. Now you say that is not what you were seeking? I say deep inside , yes you were. Do not confuse B&D and S&M with picking a louse of a boy friend with the life style you are seeking. There are lots of men out here who can fill your fantisies. But maybe you eliminate them before meeting them because of their hair color, eye color, size of their dick, who knows except you. I am not slamming you besure of that. Just a little wisdom with a wake up call from a new friend if want really want one. I have my second bed room set up for any lady who wants to explore her 50 shades of Grey . How about you ? Do you want to explore your lust with out the heart ache ?





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lizi -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 3:33:57 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: A50shadesOfGrey

How to put this gentle, It is you! Now it is you only because you are seeking a bad boy and that is what you got. A Boy that is Bad to his women. Now you say that is not what you were seeking? I say deep inside , yes you were. Do not confuse B&D and S&M with picking a louse of a boy friend with the life style you are seeking. There are lots of men out here who can fill your fantisies. But maybe you eliminate them before meeting them because of their hair color, eye color, size of their dick, who knows except you. I am not slamming you besure of that. Just a little wisdom with a wake up call from a new friend if want really want one. I have my second bed room set up for any lady who wants to explore her 50 shades of Grey . How about you ? Do you want to explore your lust with out the heart ache ?


Wow, I love this place!

So, no one is supposed to pick up on the ulterior motives from this gem of a post. [8|] Buddy, you wandered into the wrong place. People here are pretty sharp, not that they'd need to be with the level of suaveness you've demonstrated here- it's about as smooth as day old stubble. Child's play. I love the way that first you chided the OP for choosing partners for superficial characteristics like looks, or perhaps hmmm.....age? Not to mention you are 63 and perhaps having a bit of trouble finding partners are you? Not that she did any such thing mind you.

I also have to say that naming yourself after, and referring to a bit of popular culture that is pretty unpopular with the people who really do BDSM is hysterical. It's like going to an art museum and asking where the paint by number section is.





OsideGirl -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 3:38:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: lizi
People here are pretty sharp, not that they'd need to be with the level of suaveness you've demonstrated here


All I can picture is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpwK3vFGJp0



lizi -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 3:42:55 PM)

Squeeeeee! You nailed it perfectly!!!!!!

[:D]





thineSpirit -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 3:43:35 PM)

I was 19 in 1988-89 and i remember how the girls around Miami, Florida were then about their sexuality, they weren't exactly shy, but they weren't giving it away either...add it all up Miami, the 80s, late teens...sex. Well, I kinda hung around with Women a little older anyway, but i completely understand what this letter is about, we had the same scare back then, especially back in Dade County Florida.



kalikshama -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 7:37:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi
People here are pretty sharp, not that they'd need to be with the level of suaveness you've demonstrated here


All I can picture is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpwK3vFGJp0


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kalikshama -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 7:39:12 PM)

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I also have to say that naming yourself after, and referring to a bit of popular culture that is pretty unpopular with the people who really do BDSM is hysterical. It's like going to an art museum and asking where the paint by number section is.


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kalikshama -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 7:45:09 PM)

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MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/24/2012 7:51:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

I also have to say that naming yourself after, and referring to a bit of popular culture that is pretty unpopular with the people who really do BDSM is hysterical. It's like going to an art museum and asking where the paint by number section is.




Hey! I was at an art museum on Friday and they wouldn't tell me where the paint by......Oh! I get it now!



LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/25/2012 3:51:04 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: A50shadesOfGrey

How to put this gentle, It is you! Now it is you only because you are seeking a bad boy and that is what you got. A Boy that is Bad to his women. Now you say that is not what you were seeking? I say deep inside , yes you were. Do not confuse B&D and S&M with picking a louse of a boy friend with the life style you are seeking. There are lots of men out here who can fill your fantisies. But maybe you eliminate them before meeting them because of their hair color, eye color, size of their dick, who knows except you. I am not slamming you besure of that. Just a little wisdom with a wake up call from a new friend if want really want one. I have my second bed room set up for any lady who wants to explore her 50 shades of Grey . How about you ? Do you want to explore your lust with out the heart ache ?


I suggest you start with sending all the ladies a style of the art laptop (a MacBook if I recall rightly) before you fly them around with your copter. What do you mean 2nd bedroom? Surely a luxury apartment, 50 shades of shite style has a bit more to offer.

New friend? You mean you want to fuck her brains out and have your own little slave all out of friendship, my my, aren't you a real catch.



OsideGirl -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/25/2012 3:56:29 PM)

Apparently, I'm special. He friend requested me.



kalikshama -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/25/2012 5:47:23 PM)

Yup, more special than me [:(]



LadyConstanze -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/26/2012 3:27:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Apparently, I'm special. He friend requested me.


I'll try not to be jealous (of the new Mac he's going to send you without a doubt as part of the courtship ritual)



divi -> RE: Is it me, or is this common? (7/26/2012 3:49:43 AM)

It's you



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