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irishbynature -> Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:11:21 AM)

Question: (I'm sure it's been posted before, but hey, there are newbies and established that still might want to share?)

What was the first word or visual that you saw/heard...that began your exploration into D/s?

Mine: I was at a keyboard working, a male friend simply whispered into my vanilla ears 4 years ago, "Wear heels to work tomorrow."  Next day,  I wore them thinking it was a game. It was no game....Collared 6 months later.



Furr -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:14:00 AM)

Yes, but how did it develop from there?



slavejali -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:15:04 AM)

I think the word for me was "No"



SirCumsSlut -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:15:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: irishbynature

Question: (I'm sure it's been posted before, but hey, there are newbies and established that still might want to share?)

What was the first word or visual that you saw/heard...that began your exploration into D/s?

Mine: I was at a keyboard working, a male friend simply whispered into my vanilla ears 4 years ago, "Wear heels to work tomorrow."  Next day,  I wore them thinking it was a game. It was no game....Collared 6 months later.


Was not a word or words but was the action of receiving my first spanking from Sir 9 1/2 yrs ago..........that first smack and I was hooked



irishbynature -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:36:17 AM)

Wow...so far, we have a "No" (jaili) and a down right spanking received from sircumslut! Interesting replies so far!!!



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:37:54 AM)

It was....."Do what your told"...that did it for me.



Lashra -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:39:17 AM)

Me: "So you want to fuck me?"
him: "Yes I do"
Me: "Then beg for it."

This said of course after I had him tied to the bed lol He always was a heavy sleeper [:D]

~Lashra



feastie -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 4:44:14 AM)

"good girl"



sabswife -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 5:07:00 AM)

"Close your legs."  (when in fact i couldnt as He was holding them open)  turned out my English love wasn't so 'nilla after all [;)]



missturbation -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 5:13:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slavejali

I think the word for me was "No"


Ditto !
I'm going to come across as really spoiled now but i have very rarely been told 'no' in my life and i liked it.
Why was i told 'no'? I was told no i couldnt eat my smarties out of the packet i had to use my dog bowl !!



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:00:53 AM)

For me it was falling into a bdsm cyber chat room one night.  So it was a bunch of giggly cyber subs messing with eachothers cyber hair and cooing about how dreamy it was being collared to this guy they just met 2 weeks ago and wouldn't see for another 3 months.

But hey, I was hooked.



greneyedjewel -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:13:54 AM)

"You might as well admit this is what you want" as he pulled my hair and head back to bite my neck.  That was 10 years ago and 10 years where i wouldn't admit that WAS what i really wanted.  T



twicehappy -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:28:55 AM)

Strip..............



irishbynature -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:33:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: twicehappy

Strip..............

LOL.. twicehappy...lucky you![:)]



LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:36:36 AM)

My initial explorations began with online chatting and role playing, and I typically took on a dominant role in those interactions.  I was chatting with a guy and we were role playing a scene where I was offering him a ride home from a pub.  I was setting up a kidnapping scene.  We got to a part where I was securing him in the seat with the seat belt, and he stepped out of the role and asked "will you gag me with something?".  I had a hidden gag/bondage fetish that I had never shared with anyone, and his words were the start of many discussions that led me to explore my feelings further and discover that what I had been thinking about most of my life actually had a name, BDSM and D/s.  I've haven't been the person same since then.
 
Be well,
Julie



ownedgirlie -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:43:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

For me it was falling into a bdsm cyber chat room one night.  So it was a bunch of giggly cyber subs messing with eachothers cyber hair and cooing about how dreamy it was being collared to this guy they just met 2 weeks ago and wouldn't see for another 3 months.

But hey, I was hooked.


LOL I think I was there that night.  No wait, that's every night.  Regardless, that's where I learned there was this way of living called D/s...and learned what that yearning inside of me all my life was about.  I realized I wasn't some sick freak after all....well, I am but....you get the idea [;)]



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:50:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
LOL I think I was there that night.  No wait, that's every night.  Regardless, that's where I learned there was this way of living called D/s...and learned what that yearning inside of me all my life was about.  I realized I wasn't some sick freak after all....well, I am but....you get the idea [;)]

LOL the funny thing is that they smelled "just barely past 17 newbie clueless meat" all over me and tried to rip me to shreds.  My first experience on how vicious the heirarchy in bdsm was and how much younger people are considered clueless competition in cyberland.

Didn't work though, I stuck around.  Same as here.

I will say that my sister secretly bought a copy of Madonna's "Jusitfy My Love" music video and I stole it from her and watched it over and over again and masturbated to it.  If you had asked me at the time (I was 11) what got me so hot about it, I wouldn't have been able to tell you.  But it REALLY did get me very hot.




zumala -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 6:54:52 AM)

Hmm...  I'm not sure there was a clearly defining moment for me, but let me think back a moment.  It might have been when Pup pushed me up against the wall and kissed me quite hard with one of his hands pressing against my throat.  Um... the resulting mental, physical, and emotional reactions on my part surprised me greatly.  So at that point I at least knew which side of sensual aggression I was on.  Rar! [sm=biggrin.gif]  Later on Pup introduced me to the Gor novels.  Some of the aspects I didn't care about, some were interesting, and some turned me on.  I suppose that increased my interest to the level that I found about about BDSM and started reading books on it and thinking about it. 
 
Now I'm -still- thinking about it (obviously, since I'm here) and trying to decide the best way to explore within my own boundaries and limits.  It's not easy, but the interest is strong enough to keep me at it.
 
zuma



sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 7:05:44 AM)

Well, my first experience was when I met a Dom that I had been talking to online at a restaurant. We were just meeting for drinks and to finally see eachother in person. The way he looked at me and talked to me got me so hot I couldn't believe it. He told me to go to the bathroom and take my panties off and bring them back to him. I just remember thinking uh oh.
 
But if we are talking soul waking.. that didn't happen until a couple of years later when I met the first Dom who would collar me. The way I felt when he placed my first collar around my neck rocked my whole body and made me shake. The way I found that I could have this most intense orgasm from the slap of a paddle...that is when I knew I was "hooked".
 
sub tara



sapphirepleasure -> RE: Words that Woke your soul to D/s? Share. (6/9/2006 7:11:29 AM)

I answered an ad on Craigslist from a guy looking for women to be spanked.  We soon were having very intense emails, then IM's and, since I wasn't yet in his locale, I got online locally to see if I could find someone to spank me.  I ended up realizing I was looking for a lot more than that.



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