RE: Where do you draw the line?

RE: Where do you draw the line? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive

Message

Arpig -> RE: Where do you draw the line? (6/14/2006 3:35:28 PM)
It is not abuse You draw the line wherever you want it drawn. By submitting you only surrender as much as you chose to, no more, no less. You get to set your limits in as much as you can always walk away if the limits are not respected.

kickinchick -> RE: Where do you draw the line? (6/14/2006 3:52:54 PM)
My Dom "Fastlane" made it clear from the start with me. I will own your mind, spirit, soul, and body,,,but you are free to leave at any given time. Annie shakes head left to right.....this submissive isn't leaving.

APerfectParadox -> RE: Where do you draw the line? (6/14/2006 5:10:30 PM)
i do understand how you feel.... there was a time in my life when i too held on to 'relationships' where i was clearly not respected or valued. i know i can't change your mind and i won't try but please... let someone in your r/l know where you are going and with who..and if you don't have any r/l friends in the lifestyle please consider emailing me or another sub on this site with your information and his , so that if something goes wrong someone can get help to you . just in case .... Lisa

SindyLewd -> RE: Where do you draw the line? (6/15/2006 5:30:43 AM)
Thank you, APerfectParadox. I really needed to hear that. Thank you A/all for your opinions and your concern. By an overwhelming majority of Y/your responses, I understand now that nothing good can come from this relationship and that my only chance at being content in this life is to find out who I am and what I want for myself (that still feels wrong in my belly, but I understand it to be true in my mind.) I have decided not to go with Brian 'into the woods' this weekend. I have decided to leave Brian today. I'm going to write him a note, trying to explain why. I don't think he'll read it, but I'm going to write it anyway. Thank you A/all again, much love, Sandy.

heartfeltsub -> RE: Where do you draw the line? (6/15/2006 7:54:45 AM)
Thank you so much for letting us know. And thank you for being strong enough to face the fear of being alone to do something healthy for yourself. heartfelt

RavenMuse -> RE: Where do you draw the line? (6/15/2006 8:53:33 AM)
It is a hard decision you have taken but for your own sake I hope you stay strong enough to follow it through, not just this time but also in future when someone tries to ignore your hard limits. You are a bonny lass with an obvious need to submit to someone you care for and respect, but when you find a Master who cares for and respects his girl in return you will find a lot more peace of mind than it would seem you have had to date. Just IMO Good luck, stay strong, Raven

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.015625