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My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:25:18 PM

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Alright, point taken. Thanks.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:38:29 PM

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Well, you asked for it... Dump the bastard.

1. It is presumptuous of him to claim the right to punish you. You haven't met. At what point did you accept him as your Dom?
2. Had he told you that masturbating required his permission, or did he pull that rule out of thin air?
3. Sex with strangers is a freaking hard limit in my book and many others'. How do you know it was a friend and not him if you were blindfolded?

This situation has red flags all over.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:42:35 PM

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So what is it that you wanted feedback on exactly? You probably wouldn't want to hear what i have to say about your 'proving yourself' to some dipshit by fucking strangers, but I can't really figure out what it is that you want mentoring for. I mean you've been here all of one day and seem to have the common sense of a gnat, are you having us on for some reason? The little story you told here is utterly ridiculous - you for letting an idiot tell you to do dangerous things and going along with it, him for presuming to call what he's doing Domination.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:45:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Well, you asked for it... Dump the bastard.

1. It is presumptuous of him to claim the right to punish you. You haven't met. At what point did you accept him as your Dom?
2. Had he told you that masturbating required his permission, or did he pull that rule out of thin air?
3. Sex with strangers is a freaking hard limit in my book and many others'. How do you know it was a friend and not him if you were blindfolded?

This situation has red flags all over.

This. ^^^^^ ALL of it.

You haven't even MET this guy in real life and he's telling you whether you can cum or not AND sending supposedly other guys to fuck you!?!? That is pure, unadulterated BULLSHIT. He sounds like a HNG cyberass wannabe and you sound terribly naive and gullible for a 27 year old.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:49:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Well, you asked for it... Dump the bastard.

1. It is presumptuous of him to claim the right to punish you. You haven't met. At what point did you accept him as your Dom?
2. Had he told you that masturbating required his permission, or did he pull that rule out of thin air?
3. Sex with strangers is a freaking hard limit in my book and many others'. How do you know it was a friend and not him if you were blindfolded?

This situation has red flags all over.

This is said far nicer than I would have said it. Mine would have started with "What the fuck is wrong with you...."

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:51:57 PM

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Well, DS is an engineer...

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:54:49 PM

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If you would blindfold your self, and allow someone you never saw to come and fuck you, as punishment from someone else that you never met, I gotta say, you got Troubles with a capital T, and orgasms should be the last thing on your mind. Seek professional help.

That said, I smell bullshit.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 5:58:51 PM

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OMG! I never post, but I have to. Run, do not walk away from this situation. This "man" seems unhinged and frankly you should not trust him. It is insane for you to allow a perfect stranger into your home to screw you for punishment. Why would you allow a person you have never laid eyes on to mete out punishment to you anyway? You do not have to prove your worth to a person you just met online. What happened to getting to know a person and finding out about each other before jumping into this instant D/s dynamic?

I may be very new to this myself but I have a brain and it is telling me that what you are doing is dangerous. It could get you hurt or worse. Please use some common sense in the future, I am sure you have people in your life who love you and want you to be there...

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:07:41 PM

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nvm

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:24:19 PM

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oh god dammit I missed ANOTHER GOOD ONE!

Would you people faster than me please copy the originals when you reply...at least 1 person so when the OP gets deleted I can at least see what you all are responding to?

Sheesh...

denying me of my daily drama...non consentually too even!
What's WRONG with you people???

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:34:52 PM

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nvm

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:39:27 PM

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I had an old window open with the original in there. Are we allowed to copy and paste it in?

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:41:07 PM

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please please please

(or CM me if you have qualms - I can't imagine it breaking any rules)

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:42:23 PM

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Original OP:

Hi there! So, I've had some online experience as a submissive many years ago, nothing in real life and I've been in a vanilla relationship for the last 6 years which has now ended. I started talking to this guy online who lives nearby, I have yet to actually meet him in person but we talk often and he has punished me for masturbating without permission by having me lie naked on my bed, blindfolded, and sent his friend to just come in and fuck me. Essentially, I am in the position of proving myself to be a worthy submissive before he will have me...this makes me nervous, and I hope in the end he is who he says he is. His friend was actually a pretty decent guy, who I actually felt comfortable with despite it being a punishment. Anyways, on Sunday he said I could masturbate at 6.30, then at 6.35 he told me to stop. He has not allowed me to finish. This morning (It's Tuesday here where I live) he said I should enjoy the frustration because it is a reminder that my orgasms belong to him and they are HIS to give to ME. Well that right there is enough to make me melt...he did bring me to orgasm twice after that, with instructions of slapping my cunt hard several times, so painful but deliciously so. I guess what I'm asking for is feedback, some guidance or mentoring...?

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:44:40 PM

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Oh my goodness!! What a lot of nonsense!

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:52:03 PM

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I started talking to this guy online who lives nearby, I have yet to actually meet him in person but we talk often

Everly - don't you think it's weird for someone local to not have bothered to meet you yet? How long does it take to meet for coffee? If someone local couldn't meet me within two weeks I'd decide he was too busy to date.

My first guess is that he's married.

He could also be "the friend" but this amount of a mind fuck this early in the "relationship" is a huge red flag.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 6:55:02 PM

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I'm having trouble believing that someone could be *that* stupid. Both the guy for dreaming this crap up and subjecting someone he is supposed to be watching out for to it, and the girl for going along with it. In fact it's just a little too ridiculous to be true, or at least I hope so.

Does anyone ever get the idea that some people utterly throw out any sense they possess when it comes to kink? Its as though the phrase BDSM makes brain cells die faster than sniffing glue.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 7:01:26 PM

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You don't think it's made up?

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 7:09:24 PM

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I hope its made up, I asked about that in my first post on this thread. She made the account tonight and supposedly so she could come here and tell a story about being completely brainless. Lying on your bed blindfolded for a stranger to come in and fuck you and doing it at the behest of another stranger? Hahaha. Seems like someone is trying to wind us up for sure.
I'm holding back that tiny percent because there also seems to be no end of people who use BDSM as an excuse to be a moron.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 7:14:07 PM

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Well I can totally see some moron saying he was sending a 'friend' and coming over himself.

I have totally know folks to do astoundingly stupid things in the throes of frenzy, but this seems fakeyfake.

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