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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 7:29:31 PM   
Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel

Original OP:

I guess what I'm asking for is feedback, some guidance or mentoring...?

< Message edited by Everly7298 -- 7/23/2012 5:26:3



Okay...if you feel like you need some guidance...

If you're going to slap yourself while you're masturbating, you might want to grab an implement. Sometimes reaching down with your hand can upset your balance, depending, of course, on your intoxication level and what piece of furniture you've decided to get yourself off on. This is important. Spreading your legs and slapping yourself with a small paperback novel while reclining in the barcalounger requires a whole different set of skills than if you were to balance on the bar stool in the den and have at it with a curling iron. Which also begs for a whole other set of precautions but that's beginning to enter fetish territory and that's just weird.

Anywho, I would recommend a simple utensil like a spatula or even, in a pinch, a whisk, which can come in extra handy if you're a bit of a masochist. Golf clubs are too big and heavy and will often miss the mark and you'll wind up damaging your shin. Go too little, like a teaspoon or a small comb, and you risk a slippery backfire in the excitement. These smaller tools have the ability to shoot across the room like a tiny bullet. This will usually cause the cat to panic and invariably claw at your curtains, so just to be safe, tie your drapes up off the floor to limit the damage the cat can do. Or better yet, buy some wooden blinds. You can never be too careful.

Just my two cents. :)

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 7:44:43 PM   
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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/23/2012 8:55:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you KillerAngel ;)


and Kaliko...<3...you're awesome hehe

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 2:47:37 AM   
JanahX


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Original OP:


Hi there! So, I've had some online experience as a submissive many years ago, nothing in real life and I've been in a vanilla relationship for the last 6 years which has now ended. I started talking to this guy online who lives nearby, I have yet to actually meet him in person but we talk often and he has punished me for masturbating without permission by having me lie naked on my bed, blindfolded, and sent his friend to just come in and fuck me. Essentially, I am in the position of proving myself to be a worthy submissive before he will have me...this makes me nervous, and I hope in the end he is who he says he is. His friend was actually a pretty decent guy, who I actually felt comfortable with despite it being a punishment. Anyways, on Sunday he said I could masturbate at 6.30, then at 6.35 he told me to stop. He has not allowed me to finish. This morning (It's Tuesday here where I live) he said I should enjoy the frustration because it is a reminder that my orgasms belong to him and they are HIS to give to ME. Well that right there is enough to make me melt...he did bring me to orgasm twice after that, with instructions of slapping my cunt hard several times, so painful but deliciously so. I guess what I'm asking for is feedback, some guidance or mentoring...?

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:03:55 AM   
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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:09:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh hells yeah! I would meet total strangers and tie them up and do. Bad things to them! What were they THINKING! Honestly, the number of times I could have just robbed or killed some dude who did not even know my full name...

And any of them could have been a crazy rapist person, I often played with much larger men, fierce only takes you so far.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:11:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

So NONE of y'all did ANY stupid shit when you were new?


Nothing as stupid as allowing a complete stranger into my home and having him fuck me while I was blindfolded. That's bad enough, never mind to do it based on the orders of another complete stranger.


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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:14:04 AM   
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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:18:29 AM   
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So NONE of y'all did ANY stupid shit when you were new?

Not this style of stupid.

Also, I think it's an unfair comparison. There's a huge difference between the wealth of information that is on the net now compared to years past. There's a difference between ignorance and stupidity, and in 2012, there is NO reason to be ignorant of the risks.

If this OP could find the site to tell the story, the person could have just as easily found the joint to see if this was a good idea *before* it supposedly happened. Sure, hindsight is 20/20, but it kind of worries Me when people put their lives at risk.

I know your posting style, kalikshama. I know a couple of those never minds were probably because you were thinking people were being too harsh and you are generally kind. People just express themselves in different ways when the outcome could be that level of serious. I hope one of those styles got this OP to not do this version of stupid again.



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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:25:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Yeah, I did stupid shit, wanna pop by the house and get your stupid shit outta the way?


Come to my web said the spider to the fly...

And no, I didn't do anything THAT stupid, EVER.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:27:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Oh hells yeah! I would meet total strangers and tie them up and do. Bad things to them! What were they THINKING! Honestly, the number of times I could have just robbed or killed some dude who did not even know my full name...

And any of them could have been a crazy rapist person, I often played with much larger men, fierce only takes you so far.



Yeah me too. I played with total strangers who didn't know me from Eve. Most of the time in a private dungeon so there were people around *sometimes.*

Really now that I look back, I am floored by what total strangers (both male and female) allowed me to do. It wasn't until I had kids, was in more of a mindset to embrace my sub side, that I started thinking about trust, safety, knowledge you know, all that pesky shit that gets in the way of FUN.

I have been much more circumspect with my own self.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:29:01 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		I was confessing some of my own noob mistakes, but once the original OP was posted I saw the situations were not as similar as I first thought.

quote:

People just express themselves in different ways when the outcome could be that level of serious. I hope one of those styles got this OP to not do this version of stupid again.

They might serve to warn others but language this harsh will likely make the OP too defensive to listen.

Paging lizi, who is great at cushioning the blow.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:31:28 AM   
GreedyTop


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ALthough, I do agree with LadyP: in this day and age, there is no reason (other than brazeness/stupidity/sub frenzy/hubris -which I count my previous acts as being) to NOT know this is a REALLY NOT SMART ACTION, in general. To do such, one would (IMO) need to have a well developed intuition.

(and once again, I think what I am trying to say isn't coming out right, and I can't figure out how to say it more accurately...)

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:36:33 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Oh hell, I went to people's houses, motel rooms, whatever. Granted, I have the persona of someone not to be trifled with, but *really*? It is entirely luck that no bad stuff happens.

And it sure as hell can, as friends can attest.

~shrug~ I am cautious where it counts, and I listen to my gut. I only get fucked up when I listen to my heart.

As far as the OP goes, the only WTF is fucking an utter stranger without the STI questions. The rest sounds like a hot orgasm denial fantasy. And I still think it's made up.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 7:48:11 AM   
kalikshama


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And I still think it's made up.


Naw, she wouldn't have deleted the OP but instead protested it was real like in the DommeHuCow thread down in Creative Writings.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 8:27:48 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Ya think? Could be... and like I said I TOTALLY see some dude taking advantage, for whatever wacko reason.

WTH, no one died, right? And hopefully no one caught anything, or was conceived.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 10:00:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hope it's all made up but I don't know. You know what the saying is, every time you make something idiot proof, someone even more of an idiot shows up.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 10:01:13 AM   
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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 3:39:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, I really take your point, and the stupidity, yep I fully agree it was a stupid and dangerous thing to do. It turned out ok, but it's not something I will do again. As for ripping into me, that doesn't help, and it's rather the kind words I've received in private message that have been most helpful. You may all be very experienced and your words and opinions come from that place, but keep in mind I am just acknowledging submissive tendencies and seeing where that goes. It's certainly a rush, and yeah I got a bit intoxicated by it and didn't keep my head. Doesn't mean I'm an idiot as you'd have me believe, just behaved like an idiot. I am not sad and pathetic either, you don't know me enough to make such broad statements about me as a whole. Thanks anyways.

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RE: My orgasms belong to HIM - 7/24/2012 3:43:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Everly7298
You may all be very experienced and your words and opinions come from that place, but keep in mind I am just acknowledging submissive tendencies and seeing where that goes.


It has nothing to do with being submissive. It has to do with common sense. Just because you've decided that you're submissive it doesn't mean that you toss common sense, safe sex and morals out the window.




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