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I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 12:32:49 PM

Lucifyre

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I'm having an issue and I could use some words of wisdom from one of the Dommes in the 24/7 crowd. I really don't want to talk to guys about it because I'm kind of shy about what's going on (no, not female issues). I need someone who is going to be comepletely non judgemental or condescenging and I'd like to discuss it in private messages. No this is not a bait post, I'm not interested in hitting on anyone or gathering wank fodder (got plenty of that). I need from a D type perspective...I've already got the s type in my own head and being switchy isn't helping. Yes it is a BDSM related problem.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 12:41:50 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Well it's been a bit since I had a 24/7, but you're welcome to ask me stuffs!

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 12:42:42 PM

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I can't help you with the switch part, hon. Probably not the non-judgmental part, either. I know who I would suggest.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 1:15:44 PM

Lucifyre

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It's ok LadyP...what I meant by being switchy doesn't help was that I have a rather strong Domme streak in me myself, but for some reason it isn''t helping me figure out how to solve my problem. So it's actually good that you're all Domme all the time hehe ;)

Thanks LadyHib, you and 1 other person who responded privately have Cmail.

Oh, and I don't have any problem with talking about this with more than 1 person. The more opinions I get from you Ladies the more well rounded my solution is going to be I think.

Who were you thinking of LadyP?

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 2:45:31 PM

Kaiel

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Hello

I am more than willing to help, if I can. Ask away if you haven't found your answer :)

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 4:47:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Well it's been a bit since I had a 24/7, but you're welcome to ask me stuffs!

It's just the state of the economy...so many have cut back....

What are you now....19/5?

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 5:00:49 PM

LadyHibiscus

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I'm in Michigan, JJ, it's more like 15/3...

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 5:54:32 PM

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Well, I'm not 24/7 or Domme but I am non judgmental/condescending!

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 8:36:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Well, I'm not 24/7 or Domme but I am non judgmental/condescending!

thanks kali ;)

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/25/2012 9:35:41 PM

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I'm available also. It wasn't so long ago that I was switchy myself still, although not anymore. I'm really open-minded and supportive too.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 11:24:27 AM

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Not switchy either but will help anytime you need it, if I can of course.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 12:20:01 PM

Lucifyre

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K, well...

Thanks to a handful of extremely smart ladies, I think I've got it worked out.

I sincerely appreciate everyones offers of assistance and am really glad that there are so many willing to lend an ear when needed.

Lucifyre

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 4:39:34 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm in Michigan, JJ, it's more like 15/3...

Yeah but...you can buy a 33,000 sf mansion (including the staff paid for for a year and full landscaping) for about $1,800.00.

$2,300 if it's a 7 bedroom with a 1 - 2 acre pond fully stocked.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 5:57:48 PM

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Lookie, Lucifyre wanted some gentle advice from the ladies here. She didn't want boorish male ruffians like ourselves to be involved in her thread. Poor show.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 6:42:44 PM

Lucifyre

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All good guys no worries :)

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 7:02:25 PM

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Don't encourage Lookie, Lucifyre. He's a cad and a bounder. If he were in my regiment, I'd have him cashiered without a second's hesitation.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/26/2012 7:13:17 PM

LadyHibiscus

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And wisely so, Darling. He's a complete piker.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 7/27/2012 5:29:29 AM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Lookie, Lucifyre wanted some gentle advice from the ladies here. She didn't want boorish male ruffians like ourselves to be involved in her thread. Poor show.

It's a gift, and a curse (even I don't know how I do it sometimes).

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 8/6/2012 10:44:46 AM

ScottishLady

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I need to hear from you 24/ 7 Dom/me(s) and Dom(s) is there a protocol for those rare occasions when the Dom/me and submissive are both out of control and behaving badly.

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RE: I could really use a little advice - 8/6/2012 10:53:36 AM

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The Dom/me should not be out of control.
But, if for some reason it has happened, and you're talking about others that you are around/involved with at the time. I'd personally pull the Dom/me(s) to the side and ask that they please get themselves under control. Once they have stopped acting like a fool they should be responsible for getting the sub(s) back in line.

It would very much depend on the situation and just how badly they are acting.

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ORIGINAL: ScottishLady

I need to hear from you 24/ 7 Dom/me(s) and Dom(s) is there a protocol for those rare occasions when the Dom/me and submissive are both out of control and behaving badly.

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