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Just so I know - 7/30/2012 8:59:01 AM   
Somuchmoreinsc


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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:03:31 AM   
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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:05:09 AM   
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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:05:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sure! Although if they are any good, they would want to meet with hubby. If that is not an issue, good luck!

< Message edited by KYsissy -- 7/30/2012 9:07:07 AM >

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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:14:23 AM   
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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:17:30 AM   
Somuchmoreinsc


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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:19:33 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Well, if you don't mind the dominant playing away from home, then look for one who is looking for a "discrete" relationship, in 99% of all cases it means he's married and his wife doesn't know...

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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:25:54 AM   
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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:49:47 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I did. However, I wouldn't have if his wife wasn't on board and been ok with it.

A word of caution though. No matter how much you swear up and down that it can never happen, realize that there is a possibility you may want a D/s life more than you want the spouse. It does happen and My situation isn't the only D/s situation on these boards where it has. For a submissive, the pull to live what you feel is your nature can be very strong. Know that part going in.



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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:54:31 AM   
Somuchmoreinsc


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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 11:36:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Somuchmoreinsc

Well that's good to know but I'm not those because the hubby knows


Well, that at least is positive. But, the reality is that relationships structured where the submissive has a Dominant and is married to someone else have a high rate of failure. Eventually there is a power struggle between the spouse and the Dominant and it ends ugly.


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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 12:01:25 PM   
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Personally, I find married and cheating to be reprehensible. Do you have your partner's consent? For me it wouldn't matter because you're still married and against my morals and values. To others, as long as your partner is ok with it, then they will take you on.


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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 4:15:49 PM   
Lucifyre


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Status: offline 		it's not cheating if she has her spouses consent.

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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 4:51:12 PM   
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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 6:57:59 PM   
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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 7:19:27 PM   
littlewonder


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I did when I was in my 20's but no longer appeals to me. Without love there is no sex.

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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 8:30:30 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 8:34:10 PM   
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yes for most Lucifyre. For me personally, it would still be cheating.


Wow, that's messed up. Nobody is being lied to, hurt, harmed, tricked, or damaged in any way, and yet you insist on calling it immoral. And sadly, this is a fairly common belief. Shows you how poorly the majority of people understand morality these days.

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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 8:36:17 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Oh wow, and so it is. I had no idea that quality results could take so little time
Or maybe its the first guy she talked to that didn't mind she was married.

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RE: Just so I know - 7/30/2012 9:03:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: wittynamehere


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

yes for most Lucifyre. For me personally, it would still be cheating.


Wow, that's messed up. Nobody is being lied to, hurt, harmed, tricked, or damaged in any way, and yet you insist on calling it immoral. And sadly, this is a fairly common belief. Shows you how poorly the majority of people understand morality these days.

The only morals she needs to understand are her own. How are her beliefs harming anyone?

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