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Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated?


No
  14% (11)
Yes
  18% (14)
Maybe
  18% (14)
Only on Wednesdays
  5% (4)
What do you mean?
  4% (3)
I have to sleep on that
  1% (1)
What? What did you say?
  2% (2)
Don't mind the deaf guy. He cannot read nor write anyway
  0% (0)
Naturally it is endemic to flogron
  9% (7)
Flog Ron? That hasn't got anything to do with the poll!
  24% (18)


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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 8:22:34 AM   
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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 8:24:02 AM   
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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 11:45:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I see....I did it all wrong??? As a genuine submissive I am supposed to love being humiliated??? Couldn't you have told me that back in 2007 when I joined here??? No wonder I made it all wrong with the weal twue doms

But to anser your question...any guy who tries to humiliate me, will be shown my door and be taught to shut it from the outside...before slipping down my 38 steps downstairs to the exit...due to them being slippery with banana peels

And nope...I am not wasting money in calling an ambulance...


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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 3:56:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Subjective question here. Some would say by submitting that is a form of humiliation. So, if someone said's they are submissive, they are saying they enjoy to submit. and since their views are that if a person submits is humiliating, that they enjoy humiliation.

Then again, if a person enjoys being humiluated, then would it really be humiliation if they enjoy it, or just fun?

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 5:13:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rule

So, this question is not directed to slaves or other ilk, but to genuine submissives only.


I don't know why but for some reason this popped into my head...

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 5:34:36 PM   
Rule


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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 5:36:38 PM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: QuarterbackX
Subjective question here. Some would say by submitting that is a form of humiliation. So, if someone said's they are submissive, they are saying they enjoy to submit. and since their views are that if a person submits is humiliating, that they enjoy humiliation.

Then again, if a person enjoys being humiluated, then would it really be humiliation if they enjoy it, or just fun?

I haven't got the foggiest idea what you are talking about - and neither, I suspect, do you.

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 5:38:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I cant' answer this poll - I'm waiting for the results to establish whether or not I am a true submissive.


Me too, so in the mean time, I voted to flog Ron.


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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/8/2012 5:40:14 PM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower
I see....I did it all wrong??? As a genuine submissive I am supposed to love being humiliated??? Couldn't you have told me that back in 2007 when I joined here??? No wonder I made it all wrong with the weal twue doms

But to anser your question...any guy who tries to humiliate me, will be shown my door and be taught to shut it from the outside...before slipping down my 38 steps downstairs to the exit...due to them being slippery with banana peels

And nope...I am not wasting money in calling an ambulance...

Certified true sub.

Edited to add: Them ambulances must have picked up loads of doms where she lives and earned a lot of money.

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 5:50:48 AM   
xssve


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Status: offline 		I consider humiliation a fetish, and although submission can be a fetish too, they are different fetishes, and there is no correlation between any two fetishes I've ever found. Though certain ones seem to be found in tandem more frequently, they seem to occur much more often independently, thus any correlation is likely due to some other external factor.

Flogging Ron however, just makes plain good sense.

I suspect you meant that only those women (or men) who endure your humiliation compulsion are "true" submissiveness.

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 6:02:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Rule, I'm one of the folks who voted maybe. The reason for that is because I know submissives who enjoy that particular kink as well as those who don't. Since you didn't have an option that said it depends on the individual, maybe was the closest answer that matched My thought process.


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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 9:08:17 AM   
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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 12:19:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: QuarterbackX






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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 4:59:40 PM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xssve
I suspect you meant that only those women (or men) who endure your humiliation compulsion are "true" submissiveness.

No, I did not mean that. Please do not presume that you can guess what I - or anybody else - means or thinks. For you have failed - and hence will always fail - miserably at guessing intent or what anyone thinks.

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 5:02:16 PM   
Rule


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your post, LadyPact.

I trust that you did differentiate between submissives and (natural slaves and other ilk)?

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/9/2012 5:29:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rule

Thank you for your post, LadyPact.

I trust that you did differentiate between submissives and (natural slaves and other ilk)?

I believe I have, Rule. I'm not especially sure that the distinction between submissive and slave (as I see the term) applies. Instead, I would draw the line between enjoyment and stipulation. Some enjoy humiliation for it's own sake. For others, while they do not necessarily enjoy it, humiliation can be a wonderful bonding tool.

Hopefully, this will explain My answer and why I chose that particular option.



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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/10/2012 3:27:24 PM   
Rule


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Status: offline 		I will tell you now that according to my model of the human mind the only correct answer to the poll is the first: "No, a true sub does not love to be humiliated". They may endure humiliation, but they do not love it. In fact it is detrimental to his or her mental well-being.

A natural slave on the other hand may desire humiliation.

As for the other ilk, that will have to be decided on an individual basis.

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 8/14/2012 2:17:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		That looked like it said "submissive", not "masochist".
I vote to flog Ron, just because.

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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 11/24/2012 3:28:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		No. There is no room for humiliation in a BDSM relationship.


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RE: Do genuine submissives love to be humiliated? - 11/24/2012 6:14:45 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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I just saw this poll. I voted 'what do you mean?' as you have to define your terms before you can ask this question.

What precisely *is* a 'genuine submissive?' How I define the term and how someone else defines it will be different.

What precisely do you mean by humiliation? Again, how I define it and how others define it will be different.

Which make this a nonsense poll, most likely why I didn't bother to answer when it came out back in August.

I did want to point out how full of wrong the following statement is:

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuarterbackX

Subjective question here. Some would say by submitting that is a form of humiliation. So, if someone said's they are submissive, they are saying they enjoy to submit. and since their views are that if a person submits is humiliating, that they enjoy humiliation.

Then again, if a person enjoys being humiluated, then would it really be humiliation if they enjoy it, or just fun?



Anyone who equates submission and humiliation is (JMO) emotionally dangerous and should be avoided.

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