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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 3:30:57 AM   
slaved9


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Status: offline 		I have seen a couple of posts assuming that it was me who ruined our relationship..which isn't the case. We grew apart and actually she was cheating on me for a good while and having sex with another man. I had seen a girl near the end of our relationship, but actually it was not sexual until later on.

That is besides the point though. She doesn't like me, and quite frankly I don't really like her either. But that is what makes the fantasy for me and the thought of having someone who I don't even like nor likes me using me is thrilling. Maybe I am just odd.

I am going to keep this a fantasy and maybe pursue a more realistic situation. Ideally, I would like to find someone whom was more long term and not just a paid session sort of thing though.

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 12:32:24 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 1:34:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Brilliant news.

Only a true fuckwad would have actually done what you were considering.

Well done for stepping back from the brink of fuckwaddery.

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 1:39:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Brilliant news.

Only a true fuckwad would have actually done what you were considering.

Well done for stepping back from the brink of fuckwaddery.



More brilliant news. Extra points for the correct use of the term: fuckwarddery.

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahoooo.

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 1:42:39 PM   
Whenready


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Status: offline 		I have seen a couple of posts assuming that it was me who ruined our relationship..We ended out relationship in a bad way...basically I cheated on her

You were saying?

However, back to the original question.... and my answer is.. bonkers idea.


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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:00:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BambiBoi
Your ex-girlfriend is (probably) not an experienced professional.


Never at any point did he even say she was dominant.

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:03:38 PM   
slaved9


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Status: offline 		She had a very dominant personality overall and was dominant in a lot of sexual situations. But obviously she is not a "domme".

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:04:47 PM   
slaved9


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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Brilliant news.

Only a true fuckwad would have actually done what you were considering.

Well done for stepping back from the brink of fuckwaddery.


Thank you!

< Message edited by slaved9 -- 8/7/2012 2:05:21 PM >

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:05:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slaved9

She had a very dominant personality overall and was dominant in a lot of sexual situations. But obviously she is not a "domme".


So, your fantasy would be for her to become something she's not to be your fetish delivery system.




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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:09:23 PM   
slaved9


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl



So, your fantasy would be for her to become something she's not to be your fetish delivery system.





My fantasy is to be almost objectified to her without much or any regard to me existing in her world. I would not even want to actively communicate with her except to give her any necessary information in the process of her using me.


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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:15:25 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:17:12 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:19:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

/whooooooooooosh/


Like a fighter jet fly by....


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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:26:51 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:32:52 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:34:43 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:36:16 PM   
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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:48:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		We are sort of waiting for you to catch up actually, the issue is that you are (or appear from your writings to be) heavily topping from the bottom, and so singularly focused on what you want done that you could give a shit who you are in the relationship with (cuz there really aint one) that it could be a fuckin loquacious spider monkey if they could dump the goods on the table the way you want it when you want it how you want it without any other concern.  You want a slave in dominatrix clothing to bark nasty shit at you is what it appears (you can check with a couple of the girls here but I think I am saying it right) and that is gonna be a real hard pair of your nuts to crack as it were. 

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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 2:52:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

We are sort of waiting for you to catch up actually, the issue is that you are (or appear from your writings to be) heavily topping from the bottom, and so singularly focused on what you want done that you could give a shit who you are in the relationship with (cuz there really aint one) that it could be a fuckin loquacious spider monkey if they could dump the goods on the table the way you want it when you want it how you want it without any other concern.  You want a slave in dominatrix clothing to bark nasty shit at you is what it appears (you can check with a couple of the girls here but I think I am saying it right) and that is gonna be a real hard pair of your nuts to crack as it were. 


Thank you Ron!




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RE: Question about my ex... - 8/7/2012 3:01:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

We are sort of waiting for you to catch up actually, the issue is that you are (or appear from your writings to be) heavily topping from the bottom, and so singularly focused on what you want done that you could give a shit who you are in the relationship with (cuz there really aint one) that it could be a fuckin loquacious spider monkey if they could dump the goods on the table the way you want it when you want it how you want it without any other concern.  You want a slave in dominatrix clothing to bark nasty shit at you is what it appears (you can check with a couple of the girls here but I think I am saying it right) and that is gonna be a real hard pair of your nuts to crack as it were. 



I am pleased that you did not say FLYING monkey. Thank you.

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