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slaved9 -> Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 4:41:27 PM)

Lately I have been wondering about approaching my ex gf, who probably hates me, about being her financial slave.

I have not talked with her in a few years really. We ended out relationship in a bad way...basically I cheated on her and found out she was seeing this guy at work anyways.

I became a little submissive towards her near the end of our relationship..and it was close to developing into a cuckold type of situation. I still feel this way towards her, even though I know she probably wants nothing to do with me.

I am very much into financial slavery, and have looked to serve the right person in this way and be objectified. This is probably a bad idea to approach her about it, but what should I do?






MissImmortalPain -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 4:51:29 PM)

You answer your own question. If you know she doesn't want you around....leave her alone. Fin dommes are easy to find so do that ...find one and move on with your life.



Lucifyre -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 4:51:58 PM)

She won't appreciate it. She will only play you for a fool and laugh behind your back while pretending to Domme you.
Send me your paychecks instead.

Lucifyre



OsideGirl -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 5:05:48 PM)

It's against TOS to cross post.



DarkSteven -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 5:08:35 PM)

I doubt that you could find a worse prospect to be your Domme.

You may have some fetish about submitting to someone who hates you, but it's not realistic.



slaved9 -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 5:11:59 PM)

I'm sorry, I meant to put this in the general discussion in the first place and realized I put it in the ask a mistress section first...sorry!



slaved9 -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 5:13:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I doubt that you could find a worse prospect to be your Domme.

You may have some fetish about submitting to someone who hates you, but it's not realistic.



Your probably right. Its a matter of realism vs. fantasy...fantasy tells me to approach her...reality is telling me she would be pretty pissed off.



GreedyTop -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:13:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slaved9


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I doubt that you could find a worse prospect to be your Domme.

You may have some fetish about submitting to someone who hates you, but it's not realistic.



Your probably right. Its a matter of realism vs. fantasy...fantasy tells me to approach her...reality is telling me she would be pretty pissed off.



Glad you realize this.



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:20:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop


quote:

ORIGINAL: slaved9


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I doubt that you could find a worse prospect to be your Domme.

You may have some fetish about submitting to someone who hates you, but it's not realistic.



Your probably right. Its a matter of realism vs. fantasy...fantasy tells me to approach her...reality is telling me she would be pretty pissed off.



Glad you realize this.


You could always just send greedy your money, I'm sure she would be happy to boss you around some, just sayin'.



GreedyTop -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:23:01 PM)

You are SUCH a giver, Cryptic.



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:24:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

You are SUCH a giver, Cryptic.


Some people just need to learn they need to obey the pussy...
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GreedyTop -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:39:56 PM)

Why yes! Yes, they do!!



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:40:53 PM)

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Silentrunner26 -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 6:45:33 PM)

Oh such a bad idea in so many ways . The fact that she will make your life a living hell is just not saying enough . Find someone else .



GreedyTop -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 7:30:34 PM)

SHINING KITTEH!!!



seekingreality -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 9:36:15 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slaved9


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I doubt that you could find a worse prospect to be your Domme.

You may have some fetish about submitting to someone who hates you, but it's not realistic.



Your probably right. Its a matter of realism vs. fantasy...fantasy tells me to approach her...reality is telling me she would be pretty pissed off.



Leave the poor woman alone. You've already done enough to her and there is no reason to try to make her a pawn in your sexual fantasy. If you truly want to be of service to her, the best thing you could do is never contact her again for the rest of your life.



SeekerMA -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 10:34:27 PM)

You are correct, nothing good can come from contacting your ex, especially with such a messy history. Furthermore, while I can understand something seeming appealing in fantasy, I wonder how objective you're being about the financial slavery idea? At the end of the day when you stop thinking with your cock, the thrill wears off, and you're left with an empty bank account, there will be a lot of regrets. But if you have thought this through, I wish you luck. I'm sure there are Mistresses out there that would enjoy your cuckold and financial fantasies.



AVegasMaster -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 10:42:09 PM)

My experence is the past is best left behind



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 11:13:25 PM)

I would be furious if my ex, who I left for a damn good reason, came back and asked me to to fulfill his sexual fantasy. That's way up there on the creepy-meter. It speaks of a lack of boundaries and that you are still objectifying her. Not to mention it disregards whatever relationship plans she may have. Others have spoken of you regretting it because she takes it too far, in reality I don't think you would get anywhere at all because I can't imagine a woman I know going for that.

By all means, masturbate like crazy to the fantasy of the vengeful ex punishing you by taking your money and sleeping with other men. In reality... leave her alone.




BambiBoi -> RE: Question about my ex... (8/6/2012 11:18:08 PM)

Slaved, there is a host of pro services available. And I love to see a professional at work. Your ex-girlfriend is (probably) not an experienced professional. She's not Miss Right. Just Miss Right Now.



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