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rayjames -> Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 2:48:34 PM)

Hi,

I have been in touch with 20+ dominant women in the last couple of weeks on this site, but every single one of them required either a tribute, a giftcard or tried to make me sign-up to a pay site after a brief conversation.

Is this normal or am I always just bumping into professionals and scammers. Money is not the issue, but I got scammed a few times and feel really stupid send money and get scammed again :(

Just to clarify, I haven't been messaging profiles who clearly indicate that they are professionals.

Thanks in advance,
Ray




crazyml -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 2:51:55 PM)

Do you mind if I ask how many times you've been scammed?

The number is likely to have a significant bearing on my advice.




LadyPact -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 2:52:52 PM)

It's you.

Go read My profile.




pyschosubmission -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 2:53:49 PM)

Oh I am lurking about in this thread




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 2:55:41 PM)

People should send me stuff.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 2:55:46 PM)

My advise would be to go to a munch and meet real people and connect with them on a personal level first before you ask them to satisfy your kinks...

I assume you looked for people from 18 to maybe 25 and replied to a few super glam shots... Chances that they were scammers are quite high...




pyschosubmission -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:00:15 PM)

I send you Hugs LadyHibiscus :P




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:01:42 PM)

~ta, Psycho!~




PeonForHer -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:16:42 PM)

Ray,

There are reports that the number of these scammers is proliferating at CollarMe.

For me, the easiest way to tell that someone isn't a scammer is to look out for *non* BDSM interests in a woman's profile. She will have a personality outside of kink and will absolutely want to show it. And will equally want you to respond to it.

Scammers will go straight for what gets your dick hard; real women won't. And, at risk of being patronising to you (because I don't know far you've been around the block): women do generally know much more about how to get a man's dick hard than men frequently think they do.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:23:04 PM)

So, I'm doing it wrong? This is very confusing. [&o]




PeonForHer -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:41:00 PM)

"The beach is my happy place. I finally got to hunt for fossil shark teeth! I found a dozen of them in fairly short order... next year I am certainly making a long day of sifting at the shorebreak! "

Lady Hib, this was what I first saw when I looked at your profile. That would have been all I'd need to know that you weren't a scammer or a bait-and-switcher. Those types don't bother with such non-Goddess/worm stuff. How would those lines at the top of your journal make any submale's dick hard? Complete waste of time writing them. Go to the bottom of the class.




vincentML -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:47:04 PM)

Ohhhh . . . fossil shark teeth!!! Makes my thingy twitch [:D]




PeonForHer -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 3:58:46 PM)

I have one hanging on my wall, as it happens. Huge bloody thing it is, too. I wouldn't want to meet the original owner of that in a dark alley.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 4:10:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

People should send me stuff.


Me too. Hibby and I like VELVET.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 4:49:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

"The beach is my happy place. I finally got to hunt for fossil shark teeth! I found a dozen of them in fairly short order... next year I am certainly making a long day of sifting at the shorebreak! "

Lady Hib, this was what I first saw when I looked at your profile. That would have been all I'd need to know that you weren't a scammer or a bait-and-switcher. Those types don't bother with such non-Goddess/worm stuff. How would those lines at the top of your journal make any submale's dick hard? Complete waste of time writing them. Go to the bottom of the class.


And why would I want to make some random male's dick hard? If the dick in question isn't ready to hand, as it were, its condition is irrelevant. The goal is to bring it closer in...




pyschosubmission -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 4:59:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

People should send me stuff.


Me too. Hibby and I like VELVET.


I send hugs you're way too, velvety soft hugs :D




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 5:03:21 PM)

You are a wise young man. I approve.[;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 5:09:42 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
And why would I want to make some random male's dick hard? If the dick in question isn't ready to hand, as it were, its condition is irrelevant. The goal is to bring it closer in...


Precisely. But a scammer isn't interested in whether or not the relevant dick is close to hand. She or he is only interested in getting said dick to tell its owner's brain that sending some money would be a peachy idea.

You know, as a bit of an aside, I really don't get why more men don't understand that women know how to use their dicks against them, even though I myself was pretty innocent on that score when I was younger. I mean, why doesn't it obtrude onto men's consciousnesses that women in general a) are not stupid and b) spend a lot of mental time and energy on the question of what makes men's dicks hard?

The only type of person better than a clever female at wringing money out of malesubs would be another malesub, especially an intelligent and imaginative one. Such as myself, for instance. I know for certain that I'd make a far better online-only femdom scammer than most femdoms I've ever spoken to. God, there'd be some very easy money for me there, if only I could jettison a moral or two.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 5:24:15 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission


quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

People should send me stuff.


Me too. Hibby and I like VELVET.


I send hugs you're way too, velvety soft hugs :D


[:D] I heart this guy. [:D]




LadyPact -> RE: Are there any dommes who don't seek tribute (8/10/2012 5:32:51 PM)

According to this thread, I'm a scammer. Damn! I suck.





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