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Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/10/2006 7:48:41 AM

NoviceDominant

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Hello everyone... just turned on to this site and loving it! I am in the NYC area and was wondering if any Mistresses would be will be willing to guide me with training. I need to start somewhere...

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/10/2006 8:56:07 AM

DiannaVesta

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What type of training? are you a sub or a new dominant looking to learn?

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/10/2006 8:57:12 AM

DiannaVesta

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duh just read your user name. Welcome to Collarme. email me if you have questions. I'm sure many people here would be happy to help.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/10/2006 1:26:02 PM

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I personally would have just edited my last post.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/18/2006 9:25:46 PM

ladylexington

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I'm not tightly connected to the scene in NYC, but I live in NJ and go to the city several times a year. Drop me a note anytime. I'll be glad to answer questions and introduce you to some people.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/19/2006 9:12:13 AM

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Is it typical for novice dominants to have a "guide"?

I'm just learning about all of this myself, and I don't think I'd be comfortable having "another" in the bedroom with me, so to speak. I can see where it's helpful to have a friend to talk to though.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/19/2006 9:16:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: SMW215

Is it typical for novice dominants to have a "guide"?

I'm just learning about all of this myself, and I don't think I'd be comfortable having "another" in the bedroom with me, so to speak. I can see where it's helpful to have a friend to talk to though.

Typical? No.

Useful? Yes.

More useful though is having a small group of experienced tops and dom (even switches and bottoms/sub frankly) whom you can talk to, ask questions, and learn technical skills from.

I learned flogging from one woman and knife play from a man. A bottom taught me about bondage and a submissive about the value of consistancy. A femdom couple I know and a gay master & slave I know are great folks for me to bounce questions off as Fox and I continue in our own Ms relationship -- both of these couples have been in stable Ms arrangments longer than I.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/19/2006 10:06:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SMW215

Is it typical for novice dominants to have a "guide"?

I'm just learning about all of this myself, and I don't think I'd be comfortable having "another" in the bedroom with me, so to speak. I can see where it's helpful to have a friend to talk to though.

If your form of dominance is strictly for sex, probably not.

For others who choose to exert their dominance for things other than sex, perhaps the answer is yes.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/26/2006 2:02:51 AM

lokisgodhi

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Have you been down to the Eulenspiegel Society? It's a good place to learn the ropes.

Meetings in Manhattan tues and wed.
260 W 36th 3rd floor

A C E train 34th station

www.Tes.org

You can email me privately if you have any questions I've attended for years. I co-ordinated the submissive men's group for about a year and co-coordinated the dominant women/submissive men's group briefly back in the early 1990s there.

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RE: Female Dominant Seeking Assistance - 6/26/2006 4:54:12 AM

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Welcome NoviceDominant Ma'am. I had a long conversation with her & found her intelligent, charming, insightful, & fun. Any Mistress who could profer amy advice would find their time well spent!

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