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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Making a suggestion would be contacting management or an admin and saying "I have an idea". Not posting it to a public forum, where the mods are not even the same as the other side.

i've lost count of how many threads have been used to suggest new things or improvements. the only time they're disparaged is when the OP is newish and regulars decide they need to feel superior.

and to use your own reasoning, if he wished to "dictate" anything to the mods, then he certainly would contact them, and not merely post it as a suggestion.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic
OP is newish and regulars decide they need to feel superior.

There ya go again, trying to tell someone else what they're thinking or feeling.

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and to use your own reasoning, if he wished to "dictate" anything to the mods, then he certainly would contact them, and not merely post it as a suggestion.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i'm adult enough to admit when i'm sorta wrong and you're sorta right - i DID give my opinion on what someone else was thinking or feeling, mea culpa on that. but dude, this is a discussion board, get the F over yourself. i can't think of what baggage makes you twist someone giving their opinion on a board into them "telling" someone else how they're feeling.

and ooo ooo ooo Mr Kotter (my tribute to R's death), you sorta disingenuously forgot the rest of the reply, where i showed that you were fulla shit, and the OP wasn't "dictating" anything to anyone. and you fergot to answer why, if you didn't have a need to feel superior, that you thought it wasn't shitty and was instead okay to shit on new guy OP for having the nerve to make suggestions and participate.

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ORIGINAL: LanaDeVille

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Making a suggestion would be contacting management or an admin and saying "I have an idea". Not posting it to a public forum, where the mods are not even the same as the other side.

i've lost count of how many threads have been used to suggest new things or improvements. the only time they're disparaged is when the OP is newish and regulars decide they need to feel superior.

and to use your own reasoning, if he wished to "dictate" anything to the mods, then he certainly would contact them, and not merely post it as a suggestion.

I really think people are just tired of this suggestion coming up. It comes up every week. Every. Single. Week. No matter how polite it starts, the OP eventually makes it known that they have a dislike of Pros. It gets bothersome. Kinda like how it gets bothersome whenever someone decides to play internet psychologist.

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i'm adult enough to admit when i'm sorta wrong and you're sorta right - i DID give my opinion on what someone else was thinking or feeling, mea culpa on that. but dude, this is a discussion board, get the F over yourself. i can't think of what baggage makes you twist someone giving their opinion on a board into them "telling" someone else how they're feeling.

and ooo ooo ooo Mr Kotter (my tribute to R's death), you sorta disingenuously forgot the rest of the reply, where i showed that you were fulla shit, and the OP wasn't "dictating" anything to anyone. and you fergot to answer why, if you didn't have a need to feel superior, that you thought it wasn't shitty and was instead okay to shit on new guy OP for having the nerve to make suggestions and participate.

Please stop trying to derail this thread with your personal issues.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i've lost count of how many threads have been used to suggest new things or improvements. the only time they're disparaged is when the OP is newish and regulars decide they need to feel superior.

and to use your own reasoning, if he wished to "dictate" anything to the mods, then he certainly would contact them, and not merely post it as a suggestion.

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

I would like to point out that no one answered my question (they never do) and that it actually was on topic.

Then I would like to ask you something Karmastic and this is not intended to start an arguement. I think you made a good point a second ago. The point being "oh well, who the fuck cares of some person on the net doesn't like pros, fuck em', or don't, ignore em, or don't" <couldn't this very same thing be said about any given poster? I mean unless this OP is your little bro, cousin, boyfriend, etc. and you are asking us to all be nice because we know you don't we each have the right based on what he posts to decide how we will react to him, if we will like him, etc?

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ORIGINAL: stef

I attacked no one.

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ORIGINAL: stef
Please stop trying to derail this thread with your personal issues.

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ORIGINAL: Killerangel

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i've lost count of how many threads have been used to suggest new things or improvements. the only time they're disparaged is when the OP is newish and regulars decide they need to feel superior.

and to use your own reasoning, if he wished to "dictate" anything to the mods, then he certainly would contact them, and not merely post it as a suggestion.

The reason that the 'suggestions' are not met with thunderous applause is because there are problems with implementing them, or having them be fair to all users. The reason that there are soooo many threads that are disparaged on this subject is not because people jump on a bandwagon to puff up egos, or wish to run the noob out of town, or even because it's old news....the reason the threads are discredited is because there is never a suggestion that is usable. Surely you can see that if you've read even a handful of the threads you are referencing.

Sure, I'd be for a Pro Domme identifier if it could be implemented without costing me the use of a free site and it would be a positive addition to the site for everyone. There are a host of problems involved with this idea and none of them to this day have been solved, therefore I'd have to say it's the SOS - different day.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

telling someone they have personal issues, and that this is causing a thread to derail is a personal attack in my book. that you deny it speaks volumes.

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ORIGINAL: Delilya

And I want to by pass all the married men, wankers, and basement dwellers. Can we implement that right away?

http://youtu.be/EM_p1Az05Jo

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


I vote for that! And since presumably all these categories would be self identifying, how would we get people to use them again?

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ORIGINAL: Whenready

Tries.... I would guess that one way would be two profiles - one "work" one "play". The "pro" filter would hide the work profile for those that wanted it, but they would still find "play" you.

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ORIGINAL: Killerangel


The reason that the 'suggestions' are not met with thunderous applause is because there are problems with implementing them, or having them be fair to all users. The reason that there are soooo many threads that are disparaged on this subject is not because people jump on a bandwagon to puff up egos, or wish to run the noob out of town, or even because it's old news....the reason the threads are discredited is because there is never a suggestion that is usable.