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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:17:20 PM

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Eh. Profile is almost irrelevant. What matters is quality of email (and then other types of) conversation. I've found it best to send the initial email about something in her journal, as opposed to the profile. Very high response rate. Not long ago, an online domme said to me, "Hey, do you want anything from Amazon? I've got a ton of gift cards I'm not using." Women really value friendship and decency, and it's hard to find on the kinky internet. And, bonus, being a gentleman and actually caring about them as a person gets them wet.

Heh. Good. *That's* the way to do it.

If I ever write to a femdom first I'll comment on something in her profile. I'll occasionally write to the most forbidding, I'm-a-goddess-you're-a-worm type of femdom in the most chatty, friendly way - basically to see what she's got behind the 'uber-Goddess-front'. Every one of them has suddenly ditched the uber-Goddess bit when I do that.

I think the best operating principle is to assume that inside *every* femdomme is a vanilla woman and a silly little girl. I'm fine with that, because inside the submale of me is a vanilla man and a silly little boy.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:26:12 PM

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You might appreciate this, Peon, given your sense of irony. The lady with the Amazon gift cards didn't want to make a typo in my shipping address, so she asked me to set up a wishlist she could order off of directly. So, at this point in my life, I have an Amazon Wish List, and a woman on CollarMe has bought me something from it. I would never have imagined this as a possible future.

She reads my posts sometimes, so I'll also say Thank you, and I think you're great!

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:33:46 PM

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Ask her the secret of getting gift cards, Red! Right now only my friends send me things, I want the sensation of meaningless tribute from strangers!

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:43:23 PM

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Ask her the secret of getting gift cards, Red! Right now only my friends send me things, I want the sensation of meaningless tribute from strangers!

Are you making a serious request? (Just checking because this is the internet.) I know both of you in real life, so I'm willing to ask her, or to put her in touch with you. I don't know whether she'd be willing to post an OP about it, but she might be willing to talk to you directly. Or, might not. You know how them dominant wimmens are.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:46:20 PM

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Yes, of course. People should send me stuff!

(I had that in my sig today, per Syl's suggestion,but it didn't feel right.)

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:48:16 PM

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Ok, cool. I'll write you on the other side within the next few days.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/17/2012 4:52:33 PM

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Neato! Though personally, I can't imagine not having a use for Amazon gift cards. Amazon is fab for gift shopping!

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/18/2012 4:21:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Eh. Profile is almost irrelevant. What matters is quality of email (and then other types of) conversation. I've found it best to send the initial email about something in her journal, as opposed to the profile. Very high response rate. Not long ago, an online domme said to me, "Hey, do you want anything from Amazon? I've got a ton of gift cards I'm not using." Women really value friendship and decency, and it's hard to find on the kinky internet. And, bonus, being a gentleman and actually caring about them as a person gets them wet.

Heh. Good. *That's* the way to do it.

If I ever write to a femdom first I'll comment on something in her profile. I'll occasionally write to the most forbidding, I'm-a-goddess-you're-a-worm type of femdom in the most chatty, friendly way - basically to see what she's got behind the 'uber-Goddess-front'. Every one of them has suddenly ditched the uber-Goddess bit when I do that.

I think the best operating principle is to assume that inside *every* femdomme is a vanilla woman and a silly little girl. I'm fine with that, because inside the submale of me is a vanilla man and a silly little boy.

I am thinking ... you sent a picture, too!

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/18/2012 10:56:14 PM

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I think the best operating principle is to assume that inside *every* femdomme is a vanilla woman and a silly little girl. I'm fine with that, because inside the submale of me is a vanilla man and a silly little boy.

You may like to think that, and such operating principles will work with some, I suppose, but certainly not all. Others will simply find it condescending.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/18/2012 10:58:39 PM

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It's all about compatibility, right? I need a heavy amount of silly in my life.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/19/2012 3:53:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo
I think the best operating principle is to assume that inside *every* femdomme is a vanilla woman and a silly little girl. I'm fine with that, because inside the submale of me is a vanilla man and a silly little boy.

You may like to think that, and such operating principles will work with some, I suppose, but certainly not all. Others will simply find it condescending.

True, but only the childish ones.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 2:03:38 AM

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What gets a doms attention???.....= $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

what turns off a dom????.....the opposite...

NO Tributes....

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 2:13:53 AM

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I think you'll find that what turns Dommes off is whining, bitterness and stamping your feet.

Lots of them out there not asking for tributes. But starting with a negative attitude pretty much guarantees they won't give you the time of day.

Edit: sorry notribute, I assumed from your username you were a butthurt sub. You do still kinda sound bitter though.

< Message edited by AthenaSurrenders -- 8/29/2012 2:16:13 AM >

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 2:38:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Edit: sorry notribute, I assumed from your username you were a butthurt sub. You do still kinda sound bitter though.

Read the profile. He IS a butthurt sub, with a phony Domme profile.

To answer the original question - what gets a Domme's attention is conversation, and the more she enjoys the conversation, the better.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 5:06:20 AM

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x3 cheers to miss marple....

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 8:06:02 AM

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I am an untrained and unowned sub who is very new to this lifestyle. I was wondering what sort of things grab the attention of dommes.

TimidDL,
Nothing grabs a dommes attention quite like a cock shot. Dommes can't get enough pictures of your penis. The more cock shots you send them, the better the chances that you'll become their submissive sex slave. After all, what's more desirable than a picture of your hairy penis?

So find the profiles of the Dommes that you're interested in, and start spamming them with pictures of your cock. Once you think you've sent them enough pictures of your cock, send them ten more. Remember, you're competing with other male subs who are sending the same Dommes pictures of their cocks right now (while you're wasting time reading this).

So stop wasting time reading these forums and start sending the cock shots. You've got a lot of catching up to do.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 8:19:46 AM

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For a tribute that'll really impress, send them you entire penis!

V. van Gogh had the right of it, just the wrong left body part...

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 8:25:57 AM

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x3 cheers to miss marple....

so you are a butthurt sock?

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 10:06:50 AM

LadyHibiscus

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People should send me stuff.

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RE: What gets a dommes attention? - 8/29/2012 10:13:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: TimidDL

I am an untrained and unowned sub who is very new to this lifestyle. I was wondering what sort of things grab the attention of dommes.

TimidDL,
Nothing grabs a dommes attention quite like a cock shot. Dommes can't get enough pictures of your penis. The more cock shots you send them, the better the chances that you'll become their submissive sex slave. After all, what's more desirable than a picture of your hairy penis?

So find the profiles of the Dommes that you're interested in, and start spamming them with pictures of your cock. Once you think you've sent them enough pictures of your cock, send them ten more. Remember, you're competing with other male subs who are sending the same Dommes pictures of their cocks right now (while you're wasting time reading this).

So stop wasting time reading these forums and start sending the cock shots. You've got a lot of catching up to do.

Don't forget the shots of him bent over, spreading his cheeks to show his asshole too. Wimmens LURVS that shit.

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