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TimidDL -> What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 7:23:32 AM)
I am an untrained and unowned sub who is very new to this lifestyle. I was wondering what sort of things grab the attention of dommes. What are common turn-ons and turn-offs? I appreciate the help [:)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 7:41:22 AM)
First, you might want to check out the FAQ stickies at the top of the Ask A Mistress forum, some of the ladies worked very hard to compile that information. The other first: Sad to say, we doms are people. So, we're all different. MOST of us like to be approached as other people, not as "DOMMES". Because we're cranky that way. [;)]

TimidDL -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 8:12:22 AM)
Sorry :( I was just trying to get a general idea. I'll remember that though

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:01:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TimidDL Sorry :( I was just trying to get a general idea. I'll remember that though Well turn it around, what would you say if someone said "how do I get a man's attention?" Is there one answer? Other than the traditional cooter-beer-sammiches one, of course. [;)]

GreedyTop -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:07:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: TimidDL Sorry :( I was just trying to get a general idea. I'll remember that though Well turn it around, what would you say if someone said "how do I get a man's attention?" Is there one answer? Other than the traditional cooter-beer-sammiches one, of course. [;)] Dammit, Hibbie.. you just made me snort out loud. Cashie WAS asleep on my lap. I think there are now gouges in my legs...

pyschosubmission -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:08:41 AM)
And bacon! Never forget the bacon! drools

TimidDL -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:13:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: TimidDL Sorry :( I was just trying to get a general idea. I'll remember that though Well turn it around, what would you say if someone said "how do I get a man's attention?" Is there one answer? Other than the traditional cooter-beer-sammiches one, of course. [;)] Lmao! I see what you are saying. Like I said, I'm pretty new to this so forgive my stupid question [sm=oops.gif]

GreedyTop -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:15:19 AM)
Not a stupid question, hon. just one that gets asked here a LOT. DO make use of the FAQs. And Kudos for not getting all butthurt :) Welcome! PS... BACON!! I LOVE BACON!! MORE BACON! NEVER ENOUGH BACON!!

Itsalwaysthere -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:34:07 AM)
What gets attention fastest and most effectively? LOLOLOL out-and-out, public naughtiness right in the chat room. Just ask Her....omg rofl

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 9:55:19 AM)
Ah, I am rarely in the vidchat these days, and that sort of thing just gets another person ignored! So you see, we all pay attention to different things! What, Greeds, don't tell me that after all this time you don't know what men like![:D]

GreedyTop -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:03:56 AM)
it's been several years, Hibbie... I'm afraid I am losing my touch. (besides, the BACON!!!! was for ME!!! omg, I'm a GUY!!!!)

pyschosubmission -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:08:44 AM)
quote: besides, the BACON!!!! was for ME!!! Not if I get to it first!

GreedyTop -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:32:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission quote: besides, the BACON!!!! was for ME!!! Not if I get to it first! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwllllllllllll MINE MINE MINE MINE MINE!!!!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:33:10 AM)
mmmbacon.

pyschosubmission -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:35:23 AM)
GGGGgggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! SNARL!! I'm not above fighting dirty when it comes to bacon :P

TNDommeK -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:43:34 AM)
I like bacon and haven't had it for I don't know how long. (stupid diet[>:]) OP don't get discouraged, just lead with something interesting from her profile. I would find one I liked, and read it ALL THE WAY. Then once I found something in it that I could converse with, I would lead with that. Don't get discouraged if she doesn't write back. Pick a new one. It's like fishin, (deep south coming out now) through some lines out, see what ya catch. Might be nothing, might be some little ass nothings, then again you might catch the big one!!! I love fishin! (real fishing, not what I described above)

GreedyTop -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:43:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission GGGGgggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! SNARL!! I'm not above fighting dirty when it comes to bacon :P yer on, kid!! (wear the kilt...)

pyschosubmission -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:50:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop quote: ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission GGGGgggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! SNARL!! I'm not above fighting dirty when it comes to bacon :P yer on, kid!! (wear the kilt...) You can't fight dirty without a kilt :P

GreedyTop -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 10:53:09 AM)
what makes you think I don't have one??

TimidDL -> RE: What gets a dommes attention? (8/15/2012 11:11:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK I like bacon and haven't had it for I don't know how long. (stupid diet[>:]) OP don't get discouraged, just lead with something interesting from her profile. I would find one I liked, and read it ALL THE WAY. Then once I found something in it that I could converse with, I would lead with that. Don't get discouraged if she doesn't write back. Pick a new one. It's like fishin, (deep south coming out now) through some lines out, see what ya catch. Might be nothing, might be some little ass nothings, then again you might catch the big one!!! I love fishin! (real fishing, not what I described above) Thank you. I'll do that ^_^ And I love bacon too! lol How did this turn into a fight about bacon?

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