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Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:24:34 PM

JanahX

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So a topic came up - about why other doods were the main respondents to another guys posting of his dick pics. I honestly answered that I thought it was because only gay men found pics like that appealing. Case and point in where its generally known that its mostly gay men that buy Playgirl magazine, and not women.

So when I went to browse Male Dom profiles on the other side, I was fascinated by the AMOUNT of men that post pics of their dicks, but it wasn't only this that caught my attention, but the profiles with main topic being all about their dicks. Very little content about whom they were as a person, and no trace of personality whatsoever.

It can pretty much summed up as what they want their potential sub to do for their dicks, what they're going to do to the sub with their dicks, or how their potential sub will be; eg. - naked at all times, no bra or panties, in short skirts and five inch heels - basically a run down on how they need to present themselves so they can keep the dom in a constant state of arousal (ie. Hard-on) at all times.

With the MAJORITY of male profiles reading this way, Im under the impression, that this must be the number one law of attraction. This must be the number one way that guys are attracting females. It has to be, otherwise why would the high volume of male profiles be all about their dicks? I guess I must be in the minority - because I am TOTALLY 100% turned off by shit like that. But I must be in the minority with my thinking, because how could there be that many men that are way off base?

Can and do relationships thrive and prosper based on a guys dick? Are submissive women just looking for dick? is that number one priority in peoples lives?

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:30:03 PM

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My thoughts on this are that it is like spam email. It must be working or else it would have stopped a long time ago. As for real relationships developing, maybe the goal is not a relationship but a series of blowjobs and on to the next victim.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:32:44 PM

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Let's take this point by point:

1. Women love cock as much as men do, but we tend to focus on one guy at a time, someone we are usually involved with. I think some women only do seek as much cock as possible, but I don't know too many in that category.

2. A relationship can be based only on cock and sex, if the two parties agree that it is based on that alone. Possibly, one of the parties may develop feelings for more than the cock, and then there is usually a problem.

3. As to whether this cock centric approach works, I believe that the men who are actively on sites like this and others who lead with their cocks, are probably not successful.

4. I think the successful guys who seek relationships are either taken or doing something else, other than posting photos of their cocks.

5. If your cock is your number one priority in life, then you are a sad specimen.

6. I think some men are from Mars and some women are from Venus, but there are still cocks on both those planets; we have to find a way to show some of these men that the quickest way to a woman's pussy, is through her brain, not by having to see a disembodied cock upon looking at a profile.

One last thing, and this is going to be wasted since the target audience is on the other side: one thing that is always missing from online profiles and photos, is finesse. To me, a bit of mystery is good regarding the cock. If I like you and you turn me on intellectually and emotionally, I can assure you, your cock will be very busy...eventually.

Also, who wants to know that someone they might be interested in is showing his cock to everyone?

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:41:52 PM

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Stand back everyone. I got this.

When you got it, flaunt it.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:42:41 PM

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When you have seen one big dick, you have seen them all.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:44:31 PM

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I was going to coment eruditely but er um hello big boy....

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:45:33 PM

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Heh. Nope. Not me anyway...even when I AM feling well.

I much prefer to see pics of pretty women in any state of undress than men. To me, a penis is a penis and you can't tell anything abut it by just looking at a picture...gotta feel it in action to get any reasonable gage of how well it performs.

I will say though, I have seen some pretty cool pictures with some nice window dressing...lemmie see if I can dig it up and I'll post it.

**dammit I can't find it. It was a picture of a guy with a winged steel dragon cock decoration. If I run across it later I'll put it up. I ninjad it from K&P on FL if anyone knows which pic I'm talking about...and if you've seen it you know LOL

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:55:28 PM

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It must work for them or there wouldn't be so many and it wouldn't be prevalent.
Other than the people who post on the forums, which let's face it, is very few on the entire site, see this site as an easy lay sex site...men and women. So most on here are going to show photos of their genitals to show just how easy a lay is by them and confirms that this really is a casual fuck site for the majority who frequent here...not the forums but the other side.

Most on the other side really are not looking for anything serious.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 2:56:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

Can and do relationships thrive and prosper based on a guys dick? Are submissive women just looking for dick? is that number one priority in peoples lives?

My thought is that if a relationship comes out of it, it's not one for long. I think there's a couple of different women that go for it:

The novices whose genitals are all tingly and don't know any better.

Women who just want to bottom and have kinky sex. (I have a close friend in this category. Come over, beat her, fuck her and then leave. She does not want to be your submissive and is too busy to maintain a relationship.)

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:12:58 PM

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When you have seen one big dick, you have seen them all.

Oh, my dear, I so disagree. Each one has the most distinctly delightful personality, spirit, tendencies and idiosyncracies. It's fabulous!

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:28:44 PM

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I vaguely remember being in the presence of a peen. Vaguely. It was agreeable? Entertaining? Somethingsomething. The blood suppliers of said peens...meh.

Anyway, I appreciate the peen in CONTEXT. One of my fetl pals commented on a very well built young person, and I had a wistful wishing-for-youth moment. Did I mention he was very well built?

Still and all, I don't care for disembodied parts, even really good ones, unless I know the person. I don't look at a unit and say, WHOA! and send a friend request. Are men like that with cooter pictures? My former sub commented on a very lovely cooter...and all it made ME do was publically swear to never post a similar picture.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:32:18 PM

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When Master sees a picture of a cunt on profiles he usually says something like he wouldn't go near it with a 100 foot pole. lol

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:39:01 PM

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I am all for exhibitionism, I love to look. And be looked at, truth to tell. I can't quantify why pics of genitalia are so off putting when that's all the person has posted.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:40:42 PM

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I guess for me it's because I'm not an exhibitionist or voyeur. I'd rather there be some mystery and seduction. Plus cock shots just seem to cheapen the person to me and says "I'm only here to get laid".

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:40:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

The novices whose genitals are all tingly and don't know any better.

So that's who "cock pics" are appealing to? My dear, you just incited a million more cock pics in the universe.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:51:55 PM

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3. As to whether this cock centric approach works, I believe that the men who are actively on sites like this and others who lead with their cocks, are probably not successful.

None of the men who have been successful with me had a cock pic.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 3:54:46 PM

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None of them men I've been involved with have had any peen pics, either.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 4:10:42 PM

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i guess i'm one of the few women who does like to see a cock shot. what i don't like is when it's the main pic, multiple pics of said cock, and it's all the talk is about. also, for some reason the bigger the cock is the more it's talked about. in my experience a big cock usually means very little personality, and the idea from the guy that because it's big you don't need any other talent. i can be very turned off by the look of a cock, and i don't agree that they are all the same.

when i looked at my playmate's profile he didn't have a cock shot. however, he does have some wonderful photos of himself clad in latex that show his shape very very well. it was ages before i saw a full on shot of him. he does have a lovely cock though that i just adore. he also uses it damn well too.

he has told me that he does get alot of male attention too.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 4:12:52 PM

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All genitals are unique.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/16/2012 4:13:20 PM

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. . . And despite rumours started by certain forum users who have made posts not unadjacent to this one, I still haven't sent a dick pic to anyone.

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