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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 6:26:52 AM

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Um, Hilly? I'm really not built for the task, but you're certainly top ten material!

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 6:50:01 AM

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Tom and Harry just called, said "All these womenz talking about Dick and ignoring us is making us jealous."

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 6:53:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
So a topic came up - about why other doods were the main respondents to another guys posting of his dick pics.

Yeah that doesn't sound very straight to me either, unless of course the responses were something like, "not cool get that out of my face".

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With the MAJORITY of male profiles reading this way, Im under the impression, that this must be the number one law of attraction. This must be the number one way that guys are attracting females. It has to be, otherwise why would the high volume of male profiles be all about their dicks? I guess I must be in the minority - because I am TOTALLY 100% turned off by shit like that. But I must be in the minority with my thinking, because how could there be that many men that are way off base?

Well since there are online dating sites devoted solely to this it seems to work better than the hecklers around here would lead us to believe.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 7:07:06 AM

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I think you are just looking at one of the basic differences between men and women mostly guided by hormones.

I believe, no expert of course, that few men go looking for women for marriage and relationships. Most just want to satisfy the hormone and evolution driven desire to… well…screw.

Now if love develops ok.

Most women go looking for love…relationships… and children. If a good cock comes with it all the better.

I don't think so, the numbers seem to be about the same these days.

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ORIGINAL: http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/wellness/story/2012-02-02/Survey-gives-a-snapshot-of-singles-in-America/52922248/1
Almost 40% of singles 21 and older surveyed were uncertain about wanting to marry; overall, 34.5% say they do want to marry, but 27% don't...Among singles 21-39, 56% of men and 62% of women want to marry.

Historically there have been major differences but that had to do with the war on women and not anything hormonal.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 7:18:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

All genitals are unique.

All People are unique... and they Have
genitals.

I think it's commonly understood there are
a lot of people out there that are just
horney when they make their profiles, what
with the thought of all the kinky sex they
are gunna be having...
Good luck to them haha.

Having said that, like Luci said, a picture
doesn't tell you how it performs or feels.

And it works in reverse aswell, I was going
out with a girl that kept complaining of pain
when we had sex,
(no im not big talking myself)
Anyway I put it down to her being delicate
or something, until one time I had my
fingers up there, umm doing... "Stuff" and
I felt something weird, it was like a cord of
tissue that I could actually hook my finger
in... Like a ring pull of a coke can... I told
her about it and we talked, I said I thought
she should come get it looked at, she was
understandably a bit embarrassed but
didn't want to go to the doctor...

It might sound a bit shallow but, that really
changed my feelings toward her a lot, and
not the fact she was reluctant to come to
the Doctor, it was the actual "thing" in her
pussy...
So what can you do? It was a turn off and I
didn't wanna have sex much after that and
probably broke up with her mainly because
I was no longer attracted to her.

Pussy must be cute! Not Sceeery!
And I don't know if I'd ask a girl for a pussy
shot, but being able to see what I might be
getting myself into in advance would be
handy.

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Ok, now that is just silly. You would not have known something was "wrong" with her pussy unless she had a gynecological photo with a zoom lens on her profile, right?

Your point is that we need to see a cock shot so we know what we are getting in advance.

Every woman keeps saying the same thing and no one is listening: WE LOVE COCK. BUT WE ONLY LOVE IT ON OUR OWN TERMS, WHETHER DOMINANT OR SUBMISSIVE. WE DON'T RESPECT A MAN WHO FEELS THAT IS HIS ONLY ATTRIBUTE EVEN IF HE BUILT LIKE ATTILA THE HUN. WE LIKE SOME EROTIC MYSTERY AND FINESSE.

Also, not every woman on earth is seeking a man for his finances. I make more money than most of the men I have been with and like Oside Girl, I had multiple opportunities to be with wealthy men my entire life (there is a lot in NYC).

Stupid me, I fell in love with men for themselves, not their wallet. I WISH I was a gold digger, but alas, my parents brought me up right and I am successful in my own field.

Rather than show a cock shot to show women what they "might" be getting, I wish there was a way for men to show a photo that depicts how supportive, loyal, witty, funny, kind and trustworthy he will be, but tragically, technology has not reached that level yet.

P.S. the same goes for women and their photos. If they think showing a spread pussy is enticing, something is seriously wrong with that woman.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 2:58:36 PM

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Sexyred1:
"Your point is that we need to see a cock shot so we know what we are getting in advance. "

I wasn't trying to make a point,
just flopping my thoughts out
there, I would find a shot
of a pussy useful in that I could
see if it looks like a nice pussy.

Like LW said about Kana, some
of us guys wouldn't stick our
junk in there if it looked like a
cross between a hamburger and
a cows bum...

Sorry ladies just because you
have one doesn't automatically
buy you a ticket for the train ride...
Some guys have strong preferences
when it comes to "VeeJayJay"
Yer some guys will fuck anything,
and if they can thats great but I'm
not prone to erections at the
thought of a slimy sea monster
attacking me.

Pussy must be cute! Not Screeey!

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 3:04:29 PM

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Have you seen a lot of scary pussy, Aries? Sadface!

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 3:11:41 PM

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Just peruse the female profiles online.
Some you just think, dear lord, I'm gonna have nightmares now!

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 3:12:33 PM

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He should have to see a scary pussy at this point. As someone lacking a left labia I can tell you mine is not at all "cute" But I can also tell you that because it isn't there to get in the way things are easy to find and errrmm sink a bit deeper than they might for others.

*snorts* Cute pussy. This is a body part not a kitten.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 3:14:49 PM

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Wow, really? I haven't seen that many horrible ones. There's so much variation with women, too. And really, BETTY Dodson notwithstanding, most women are not all that familar with their appearance. A downside to having it safely tucked away!

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 3:39:31 PM

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He should have to see a scary pussy at this point. As someone lacking a left labia I can tell you mine is not at all "cute"

MIP, seriously, I'd suggest you forget about that, as regards males. They - we - won't care. A woman's vadge is as good as the woman who owns it tells us it is. You're demonstrating some fundamental lack of understanding of the male brain every time you mention that. It's crap.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:08:18 PM

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Have you seen a lot of scary pussy, Aries? Sadface!

I don't find a lot of pornstar pussies attractive,
I'm just one of those guys that has strong
preferences in that department, I think most
guys don't.

It's no different from other quirks, some guys
have a foot fetish, some like Peon have a ear
hole fetish, I think most people would think I
was joking if I said I have a Pussy fetish.

So it's probably more accurate to say I'm
very particular about tha Pussy...

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:10:31 PM

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So - heres another question:

When you see a guys junk in his profile and all he's talking about is sticking it in things - Do you get the impression that he's "easy" - and with that word, implications that he might very well be carrying a social disease?

Same with women that flash it all out there - does it resonate in your mind that she's "easy" - and same as above.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:12:20 PM

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to me, Janah, my first, knee-jerk reaction would be just that.

IF I can rein myself in, I will read the profile and see if there is something MORE.

USually, I am disappointed, but sometimes, not so much.

I do tend to report primary genital pics, though.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:13:57 PM

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To me it just implies that theyre not very smart. About anything.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:16:07 PM

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He should have to see a scary pussy at this point. As someone lacking a left labia I can tell you mine is not at all "cute"

MIP, seriously, I'd suggest you forget about that, as regards males. They - we - won't care. A woman's vadge is as good as the woman who owns it tells us it is. You're demonstrating some fundamental lack of understanding of the male brain every time you mention that. It's crap.

Mine is spectacular. Perfect, even.

Aries, you know that the trend of genital surgery has wrecked most porn stars, right? The unnaturalness is ver off putting.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:22:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

So - heres another question:

When you see a guys junk in his profile and all he's talking about is sticking it in things - Do you get the impression that he's "easy" - and with that word, implications that he might very well be carrying a social disease?

Yes. Sorry...that's crazy judgmental of me, but...yes. A man who is more discriminating about how he appears in his profile might, in actuality, be a bigger slut than the man with the dick shots. But it will be the profile with the dick shots that will leave a bad taste in my mouth. (No pun intended. :)

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Same with women that flash it all out there - does it resonate in your mind that she's "easy" - and same as above.

No comment, said the woman with the boob shots.

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:24:15 PM

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I think here is the proble.......................what's that?
ohhhhhh, that feels good......I uh was at where was I?

and so this is rhatur comun.....

fascinating, I will get back to this.....

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:29:51 PM

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I personally love cock shots- of My boys. I have them text Me some almost every few days, even though I can see them live and in person... yum! I tend to be a voyeur. Now that being said, I do not enjoy perusing profiles and seeing cocks as the profile picture, especially if they aren't clean shaven and hard. :)

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RE: Men fascinated with their dicks - 8/17/2012 4:33:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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He should have to see a scary pussy at this point. As someone lacking a left labia I can tell you mine is not at all "cute"

MIP, seriously, I'd suggest you forget about that, as regards males. They - we - won't care. A woman's vadge is as good as the woman who owns it tells us it is. You're demonstrating some fundamental lack of understanding of the male brain every time you mention that. It's crap.

Mine is spectacular. Perfect, even.

Aries, you know that the trend of genital surgery has wrecked most porn stars, right? The unnaturalness is ver off putting.

Spectacular?

You talking bout VJJ... Not a Hollywood Musical!
Do people give standing ovations when they
see it?! Hah

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